This happened to me before many times, I would look at a girl and smile at her and she will smile and look down after. What does that mean? When I look at her, this girl looks down.

This happened to me before many times, I would look at a girl and smile at her and she will smile and look down after. What does that mean? When I look at her, this girl looks down.

It means she is submissive. She is nervous too so when you see her look down you can do it two ways. 1) You can make light of it and ask what she is looking down at or 2) You can look down and look back and catch her eyes when she picks them up. If she looks back at you after she looks down you'll know. Just be patient and see how it works. Me I have more results with #2
It means she's six feet or taller-I'm five-nine.
Either she likes you or doesn't like you. You have to judge her facial expression to know.
She's 5'10" or taller-I'm 5'9".
I do that sometimes...it means she likes you ^-^
now if her face is in a frown then she doesn't but most likely she's into you
Ah she's into you
she's shy and thinks your attractive probably... hence the smile THEN look down :) go talk to her!
oh my god, whats wrong with your face?
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This is how it works for me.
10: Depends on person but flawless in the eyes of the seeker
9: Beautiful but lacking one or two minor elements that would mean perfection. Ex: Might not like eyes or smile could seem cheesy. Almost perfect but human
8: "Hot". The girl at work or school who everyone likes. Not perfect. May have two or three minor flaws. Ex: slightly crooked teeth, big ears or nose, or some acne but otherwise considered beautiful.
7: Your girl that you see that is cute. Usually has a very pretty face but lack luster body or has one major flaw. This is usually the best an average guy can get.
6: The median of girls in the human population. Girls were made to be pretty so the average girl is a six and the average guy is a five. Pretty but definitely is not hot or very cute. Can be considered cute. Has a flaw going against her usually with the face, not with the body. Usually fives that care for themselves are 6.
5: The neutral girl. May be a little too heavy or have bad hair or teeth. Most likely a six who does not have good hygiene. Has a few redeeming qualities to fall below.
4: Not ugly but certainly not average. Can be heavy or too skinny. Has some sort of issue with the face and with the body. Guys who date 4s are ones who believe personality is key.
3: Ugly. Your average check who is wondering why guys don't like her. Usually has a weight issue. Could have been in an accident but major flaws are evident. There are as many 3s as 8s so they are rare. Odd personal preferences could make her date able.
2: The shit of the crop. Opposite of a 9. Ugliest girl you know. This hurts my brain thinking about.
1: Like a 10, all about personal preference preference.
This scale is only used for looks. Personality can not affect the scale for it too work. A guy usually dates a girl half or a full step higher than them. That's how nature works. If there is more than a two step discrepancy, there will be some judgement. Hope this helps!
It just means she is shy. I kind of hate when people look at you like that, it feels awkward when you don't know the person. I had a guy staring at me when I was checking out at walmart and then I looked at him then finished paying and looked at him again, he was literally staring at me the whole time. Then as I walked away he turned to watch me leave but didn't say anything. He wasn't bad looking, I don't think I knew him and there was nothing wrong with how I looked because I asked my sister and checked in the car. Like if you want to say something say it or don't look at someone like that it is weird as fuck lol.
why shouldn't he look at you, Im sure you dress to be sexually attractive, thats the style now. Why are you mad you got the attention you dressed for. Maybe he guessed by your appearance you have a nasty personality and thought better of approaching you, maybe he just considered you a slob, people do that you know. you're inventing scenarios and maybe he wasn't even looking at you. Still women like you, want to play superior and then wonder why men are disgusted by your personalities and dont approach you, or leave you quickly. Good luck cartoon addict
@YouSloppyLady I was dressed in a sweater and jeans. So no, I was not looking for attention. But I love how assumptions you are. He definitely was looking at me since he was looking into my eyes when I would look at him (He was right behind the cashier). He didn't know shit about me except that I was buying stuff, and didn't your mother ever teach you not to stare at people? It is rude. I assume you don't have many manners considering how you talk to the opposite sex. All you are is a Troll who made a new account to act big but it doesn't change the fact you are an ugly cunt who can't get women. I am pretty sure you are the one who needs Good Luck, you bitter cunt.
I think both of your answers are dumb, but for different reasons. @YouSloppyLady is basing his whole opinion on dumb assumptions and overgeneralizations, and PeachyPie93 is probably overreacting depending on the specific manner in which the guy was looking at her.
@BazookaTrouper How is me not liking someone staring at me dumb? It isn't like I hate the guy for looking at me but when someone stares and doesn't say anything it is awkward for the one being stared at, which is considered rude by most people. He literally stared at me for 5 minutes while I was standing there, I wasn't even talking so it's not like he was listening to my conversation or something which would make it more understandable and he also watched me as I walked away. Maybe he wanted me to say something but it doesn't make it any less awkward.
I mean... I wasn't there, so it's hard for me to say what could be the most likely reason. Nuances in body language make all the difference. If he wasn't staring angrily or making weird facial expressions, it's possible he thought you were someone else and was trying to figure that out. Whatever the case may be, you seem disproportionately upset over this.
@BazookaTrouper Im not upset, I just find it weird and don't like it.
@BazookaTrouper He wasn't making faces or looking angrily it was just his normal face, and he was leaning on a shopping cart.
That happens a lot with me. A girl that works at the local grocery store the other day turned and looked right at me. I am very attracted to her and I think she is to me also. It's not the first time. Another thing girls do commonly is they turn partially as if to look but I believe they notice I'm looking so they turn back away. I really am confused by this because it seems as if they are trying to get me to look. If I see a girl I'm attracted to its very hard not to look at them.
@Sharkstealth It happens once and awhile to me at shops guys just starring at me. I think it is because I have low self esteem and guys used to never look at me so I am not used to it as I I have gotten older. It could be because now I dress a little more girly and wear my hair down more often but I am not sure lol
I look because I'm attracted. I don't have a clue what their confidence level is. How would I know that?
@Sharkstealth LOL I never asked what their confidence level is, but anyways, I guess people just look because they are attracted.
A) She's checking out your shoes, or her shoes. She knows what her shoes look like but she's checking them out because she loves them so much. I do that sometimes.
B) My favourite pair of shoes are my red chelsea boots with blue elastic things on the sides.
C) I would love some faux snake skin shoes. I really like to peacock y'know.. but I don't wanna' be walking around in any real snake skin.
D) Snakes are such a beautiful animal. My favourite reptile is alligator though.
E) Speaking of gators, I wonder if Gatorade is actually made with real alligator juices, and if so which? Hope it's not urine as that would be quite disgusting. Saliva would be preferable.
F) Saliva sounds like salvia.. I've heard horrifying things about that stuff. Good job I'm straight edge.
G) I wonder why they call it straight edge..
Anyway I digress - I don't know.
For myself , usually it’s when a guy I find attractive or like looks at me - I look away because I feel awkward- not in a bad way but I’m just like “ bllaaaahh - we made eye contact!” So I have learned to just smile then look at something else- shows you unbothered- even though you seacretly are
Well being that she was wearing sweatpants and carrying a bag of chips, means she was wearing her lounge clothes. If she's flattered by you and seems to obviously like the attention you're giving her, then she was just nervous about you seeing her in the clothes she was wearing. It was a lazy day and we all have them. Some girls think that if a guy they like sees them in their 'lounge' wear, they might think their lazy and boring. Keep complimenting her and forget about that run in. & if it does come up, tell her you liked her sweatpants or something. That'll keep you on her mind! :)
Its a fundamental HUMAN psychological response to KNOWING their being subjectively 'judged' and NOBODY savors the sensation of being found 'wanting' or NOT attractive to the Observer. Human interaction seeks 'parity'... not greater or lesser and 'no hostility' / not prey.
Even with nonverbal infants, your eyes meet and they''re looking to see if you smile with your eyes... THEN they'll coo.
Look I don't generally stare at guys when they aren't looking, but the glancing away when walking thing I do to almost all men and many women, to the people I find intimidating. Obviously I am not a very aggressive or assertive person. It's possible that it's similar for her. It might not be specific to you.
She is uncomfortable. You're probably misinterpreting her actions. So often guys think unrelated behaviours are "signs of interest", looking down is the opposite of being interested, and playing with her hair could be a habit, a soothing mannerism, or something she does subconsciously and may be completely unrelated to you.
Actually I notice she only does it to me also her friends stare at me in class too it's weird she stares at me at far but she dosent up close why please help
Staring doesn't mean she likes you, people stare for many different reasons and if she avoids eye-contact when you're close to her it's because she's uncomfortable or wants to avoid interaction. If a girl is interested in a guy and he's near her, she's going to try to make eye-contact and engage with him, this girl isn't. Stop insisting she must like you just because you're misinterpreting things, her behaviour doesn't indicate that.
Lol please understand that she is really shy the other day she was staring at me really close and she was playing with her hair she shows interest and I can tell by how her friends act around me why would her friends leave us alone ffs
Because you didn't get the response you wanted? That kind of maturity will take you so far in life.
Well I'm going to get her so yeah
pfft. k
Bitches love bad boys I don't care who I just want to fuck
I guess we could do with seeing a pic for ourselves. I feel that numbers don't mean much. But in numerical terms, I think 5 is the average. I have seen one or two that I would personally rate a perfect 10. The next guy might give them 5 or 6. It really in the eye of the beholder.
a 7/10 is like getting a 2050 on the SATS. You're superior to most of the population and you would analogously be considered pretty smart, but you've still got a long way to go before you have a 2400. 2050 is a solid score though and can get you into most colleges. Likewise probably 95% of guys find you attractive enough to date or hook up with.
Ok... You should probably ask her out and see what she says, if you like her that is. Invite her out casually, go for a dinner or a movie, or both. See how things go from there. Just don't wait for her to make any bold moves, you the one that is supposed to have the balls ;-) just ask her out bro
I think overall you can't judge this too bad cause the girl could just be shy if you just met, but typically if she's really comfortable with you and makes eye contact and now she's not there could be a problem. Just don't jump to conclusions she could always be having a bad day or something that has nothing to do with you
she's smitten :] usually when a guy smiles at you wholeheartedly, it tickles our insides.
don't worry, it means she likes you
She's shy
She's nervous
She probably thinks it's awkward if she kept looking, so instead she looks down.
Most likely yes.
I would have to say shyness. Yep she is definitly shy or nervous. If you do look at her and hold eye contact and she brakes it first it could mean more than one thing: submition, nervousness, shyness... I would have to say that she is waiting for you to make a move.
Well, size matters, dude! She has to check first!
No, srsly, either she is shy or she believes she is supposed to play shy or you stared at her like an intimidating creep. I mean, if you keep looking for too long and don't give her a break, what is she supposed to do? Take up the challenge and enter a duel?
well does this happen often? it could be a sign. but if it was just this one girl, this one time, it's probably random.
if she sees you often and do that she might feel hot/embarrassed and nervous around you because she may think u are cute. :)
Sometimes when she sees me she looks away very quickly. But other girls dont do the same.
Sometimes the girl is embarrassed that you made eye contact. She doesn't know what you think about her, many things are possible. Keep doing eye contact and try to talk to her or at least acknowledge her. Good luck!
She doesn't want to get into that awkward moment of looking at you for too long. So my advice to you is to see if this happens a lot more often. Also use my technique. Ignore her and look at the corner of your eye without actually looking at her to see if there's a stare. If so then she's interested now it's all on you. Good luck
That's what I normally do
Holy shit, thats some next level stuff. Maybe u are so ugly that she can't even look at you for 2 seconds? Or she is shy and evades eye contact? It could mean that you are searching for meaning in things where are no meaning.
Numbers mean shit to me. There are women I'm attracted to and there are women I'm not attracted to--I don't worry about those ones. Do the same for men, it will do wonders for you.
And besides, why would you want to be with a guy who considers you a 7? Find one of the guys who rated you a 10, fuck everyone else.
She probably just feels a little uncomfortable, but the fact she smiled back means she's happy you did it at all.
I think being a 7 is great, obviously you're not perfect and up there with the supermodels, but quite beautiful regardless. If you're a 7 nobody could really call you ugly. I'm jelly.
if you havnt been together for very long then maybe she's just shy or maybe she's blushing and wants to hide it.. im not really sure what the situation is though
yeah, as others have said, it most likely has something to do some sort of lack of comfort of eye contact for one reason or another - intimidation, embarrassment, RESENTMENT even, etc.
she might be just nervous. I get nervous in front of people who confessed their feelings for me when I'm under dressed. not that I like them. just image concerned I guess. especially when you know the person expect much from you. but then again it is possible that she's feeling uneasy from all your unwanted attention. why don't you just approach her?
There are several possible meanings. Here's a possible one:
She's being coy. On the way down, her eyes are checking out your package... but she doesn't want to be obvious about it.
7 to me is slightly above average. I consider that person cute or good looking.
She's shy and or nervous. She possibly likes you or is just shy and insecure.
Mostly it means the girl is shy and that she likes you :) I do that all the time.
i do that when I like a guy and I'm shy around him/he makes me nervous
that's my main move around a guy I find attractive, when I like a guy I will try to ignore him like crazy. ugh I'll just look at anything else but him lol
Yes she almost definitely likes you she looks away because she knows she's been caught
I take it that the rush you got means you like her ?
Meh, just a waitress who I've never seen before. It was just a polite smile, and the rush came from her looking down all shy when we I smiled at her.
"She was wearing a sweatshirt/sweatpants and carrying a bag of chips."
Just the mere mention of this, which doesn't matter at all, gives me creeps - so I hope all the best for you. So ask her "Do I creep you out or not?"
it could mean a lot of things but the main one would be she's into you or just really shy
she's probably really likes you and is shy. I do it all the time
a seven is a girl who looks pretty but lacks that wow factor that bumps her up to higher levels
Simple: She's flattered yet shy.
she may like u, if she's shy that could be why she looked down
She is shy her friends stare at me in class its weird why
she shy and shy girls have a terrble time looking guys in the eyes
Yup she's shy lol but her friends look at me her friends leave her alone by me when w were by the door also all of them stared at me and weren't talking
they are waiting for you to make a move, she's shy so She maybe trying to give u hints, try asking her out?
I know but we never talked before I want to but how what should I say
So if their friend look at you then their friend might like you
try casual talk first, just go up to her and say hi, make small talk, then when your about to leave, if lunch time is later after u talk to ber, invite her to sit with you, or ask her to hang out after school, id give you an example of what to say if you want? it may help im not sure, but i can try,
Thanks but do you think she likes me back
yea i actually do, i think if you work your way up to talking to her, like introduce your self, just casual talk, then once u feel she is comfortable enough try asking her out, (if she's comfortable, she will talk to you easily, and nit much shyness to her when you talk, she may even approach you first) but once u talk to her, just let it go from there
Ok so you recognize these signs she avoids eye contact is it possible cause she is shy
yea, it maybe cuz she shy, or people talk trash on you and she's afraid to make contact, in my personal experience , i use to be very shy, and did the same thing because i didn't think i had a chance do to being shy, but the guy came first and it worked from there
Well it's funny so we leave to the computer lab and her friends weren't following her like by her side she was alone looking down but when I'm near all of her friends and her shut up they don't talk at all period can you please help me why do they do that
Please help I'm curious
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maybe they all think you are cute? do u consider your self attractive? maybe they think your hot? or someone said something rude about you, if your attractive then they think your hot
I guess I am ya but their is one person in that group who is shy around me the others are confident
Yup she trys to be by me like usually her friends are by her side but not when I'm by her idek why
Yup she trys to be by me like usually her friends are by her side but not when I'm by her idek why also do her friends leave her alone on purpose
yea so she can be by you
she has a major crush on you i can tell, if i were you id just go for it
Hey but when I'm close to her she is on her phone not paying attention to me
Why. . . .
it could be she is nervous or what you are doing is boring *coughcough* talking to her and see what she likes
Yeah me too it can't be me being boring cause we never had a. Conversation with her but her friends leaving her alone by me is good right
Also her and her friends are quiet when I'm in close proximity
yea its good, you just have to try talking to her, if she's shy, and is on her phone but next to you, she's wanting to talk to you, but doesn't know how (shy) so try talking to her (again as before) and see what she says, there close so they can easves drop, so when you are away they can talk and giggle and girl stuff, (white girls and mean girls are good examples of girls and there friends when giggling, but mean girls id a harsher version) but just start a conversation
it could even be about the stupid home work you guys have to do, just when your sitting next to eachother and you get home work say (man, this sucks, im not really sure i understand, can i borrow your notes?) even if you do understand, and are passing with an A, its a start in a conversation, and if you guys have notes. then say what i just said, her friends are quiet, because she probably tells them she has a crush on you, and with her being shy they all get quiet so they can watch you two and such
Yeah she glanced at me and looked down and went on her phone after class she always walks slow to walk close to me lol and I heard her friends say cute one time In class
Maybe she was talking about us I don't know
Awe you think she has a crush on me
yep, she has a crush on you, and her friends know it too, now its your time to start a conversation
yep, definitely
Ok I will how do you know she be crushing she dosent show it she avoids eye contact
Maybe she was talking about us I don't know
Could that be a reason why her friends watch me often
yea, it could be,
i think though that she avoids eye contact so she doesn't seem dumb if she stumbles over her words, do to her being shy
Lol so tommorow when I'm at the door by the computer lab she won't look at me she looks down and her friends are somewhere else
if you have school tomorrow or whatever it is, talk to her the first available chance in class (with out being awkward,) and just start a conversation with her
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Today she wasn't there but after class her friend gave me a stare flipped her and walked away
yea, i think they may not like u im bot sure
Well actually I heard her friends talking saying that I'm cute and just ask him and I looked and they saw me and just got scared and walked away really fast
Hey I'm in high school not fucking obesity school fuck off
yup, she likes you
go for it
what? ^^
You just pissed me 📴
And u deleted me on Snap for ffs
um, no i didnt?
Check
i did, ohhh, fuck i told u i have a conjioned account, oh well, idc, and cool, idgaf if you arnt in obesity school ir wtf ever, i tried helping u get ur girlfriend, but lol i see why she dont like you now 😂😂 temper temper temper
Ffs we never talk and I'm going to smash that Pussy I love skinny chick's omg
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cool, smash it hard
Well yeah fat ones disgusting
cool, i dont gaf, i am married do i look like i give af?
plus im not a twig, im curvy, which is why my husband smashes so fucking hard, i squirt allll over that sexy man, but you go do you,
Good for you I don't want to be rude let's just say I appreciate your help and have a great rest of your life
Your husbands a good man
Every girl does it, she finds you attractive and there for gets shy because she doesn't know you.
it's a good indicator of feeling vulnerable. ...which could be a sign of attraction.
@ update: no, shyness is not synonymous with attraction. BUT, you can "manipulate" that shyness to turn into attraction.
granted, lots of girls BECOME shy around guys they're attracted to. But it isn't mutually inclusive. a girl can be shy around any and all persons, regardless of attraction.
I don't is shyness always an indicator of interest, because I don't think it always is. I'm just wondering when girls look into a guys eyes and smile, but look away like they're trying to hide their smile.
It only means she's shy/timid and
cannot dare to look you in the eyes
(a) shy
(b) holding eye contact for too long and she's trying to make it less weird
(c) all of the above
(d) none of the above, she's just trying not to fall asleep
She is shy or she's upset about something you have done and only did it back so it wouldn't seem suspicious or odd.
She's probably just shy and wants you to go up to her or something
She likes you... I have done it without thinking.
It's not a definitive sign, but it leans in the direction of attraction. When a woman is NOT attracted to you or even actively dislikes you, she's more likely to look away without dropping her gaze.
Lol no 5 is average. It makes literally no sense that 7 is average. These guys are stupid a 7 is really cute/hot
Those numbers mean nothing, I always refuse to give a number. I mean seriously what's wrong with words like cute, pretty, beautiful, stunning... etc?
If she smiled first, she's interested in some way. If she averts her eyes without any welcoming gesture she's probably not.
1) She can be interested but, she's shy.
2) She's is not interested and don't have any reason to look at you.
3) Normally girls do that no matter who is.
Means I want the person talking to me to fuck off lol.
To me it isn't cute. It's just a polite way of me showing I'm irritated / not interested in talking at that moment.
Looks are subjective, what one guy think is a 7, someone else might think they are 9 or 5. I think 7 is pretty and above average but I can't speak for others.
I consider 7/10 pretty but not hot or extremely attractive.
She is shy and/or self-conscious
You display an interest she reciprocates and feels maybe embarrassed or something along those lines at doing so
How it works: https://i.imgur.com/EsOwgTg.jpg
Its realistic. 7/10 isn't ugly. She is in the 70th percentile for christ sake, she can't be bad looking.
Most women fall in 5-6 range
It must mean that she's intimidated or is attracted to you.
This is a good question! Someone at work kinda does this to me.
I think it means you are above average. So strut your stuff, mid Ms. Pretty Lady.
Sorry that mid should not be there.
7 is above average but not hot yet soo you're good given that your fun and a good girl
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