What is a guy thinking when he is staring at a girl's boobs?

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The other day I was having dinner with a few friends of mine, and I went to make eye contact with one of the guys when I realised he was staring at my boobs! He kept on staring for maybe another 5 seconds then looked away. I've known him for several months and never noticed him looking there before; he normally looks at my face. What was he thinking? Do you think he's attracted to me? PS I have a crush on him, in case you're wondering.

What is a guy thinking when he is staring at a girl's boobs?

PonyCar · Accepted Answer

Guys are simple creatures, so don't overcomplicate this. As Anon said, it's got nothing to do with personality (or conscious thought for that matter). Guys will stare at the boobs of women they hate with a vengeance. The woman could be batsh*t insane and attempting to kill them, and they'd still stare at her boobs given the chance.

Thoughts running through their head (if any) while staring at boobs typically range within the following:
- ... Boobs...
- Those are some nice titties
- Look at them bounce (if applicable, depends on the activity)
- I wonder if that's a pushup/if those're real...
- I wonder what she'd look like naked
- Oh man... boobs
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All in all, it's never anything too complex. Most guys aren't thinking much of anything while boob-hypnosis is in effect. Just two of those things.

JustAGirl878 · Accepted Answer

I know exactly what they are thinking because a guy was looking at my boobs at school and i caught him red handed. I called him out for it. He was blushing so much so i asked him what he was thinking of. He said to me "I was just thinking of how good you would look naked!"
He ended up not having a crush on me, but that doesn't mean your guy doesn't have a crush on you. Instead of finding what he is looking at find how he is acting around you. Is he always talking to you? Is he always smiling around you? Is he doing smalls things to flirt like tickling you or even saying hi to you out of the blue?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If this is one of the the few times that you showed some clevage... then he obviously tit fucking you because maybe he never though of them in that way. Guys are attracted to girl boob like we look at six packs. Even though we dont know the guy, as soon as his shirt comes off, you can't take you eyes off him. It's not really clear if he likes you, or maybe he just felt horny and was checking out girls. (even gentlemen have them sometimes)

TrackisLife · Accepted Answer

"damn, what i'd give to titfuck those" and we don't know the guy, all guys don't think the same thing, i am a very respectful guy around girls , but there are things i may say to a guy friend to describe a girl so he could still be a nice guy. Why don't you jokingly ask him?

Braveheart4321 · Accepted Answer

when I'm looking at a girls breast my brain just sort of shuts down for a while, when I start thinking again, or if something grabs my attention I look way. the only thing that it definitely means is that you have nice breasts, at least in his opinion.

Anonymous · Answer

Him looking at your boobs doesn't mean he is attracted to you. He could have just been mindlessly staring. It happens. They are mesmerizing. When I see boobs, I don't even think of anything sexual most of the time. They just look really nice. It happens to all guys on occasion. The nice ones will try to not do it very often or will at least try to be discrete. I know you said you have a crush on him, but does it make you uncomfortable because its rude or do you like it?

Anonymous · Answer

Its male nature to look at boobs and asses. It has nothing to do with personality. Boys have good imagination and however covered you are, you are virtually naked everywhere, in the eyes of a boy. Just because he starred at your boobs doesn't ensure that he is attracted to you. But if he is already attracted to you, him starring is a hint of it. he might be noticing every shake and bounce and imagining how they would look uncovered.

Zhonya · Answer

Hi, well we guys do stare at boobs, but not at a persons boobs we dont like. See if you can catch him looking at your boobs more often, if you find him looking at... Y'know more often than just 1 time, i think he's up to you ;) DON'T BE AFRAID TO ASK. Goodluck, i hope he likes you too :)

Rush_C4 · Answer

He thinks your Boob's are nice.!! When we look at girls boibs, it means we want them. So, he's physically attached to you for sure. Flirt with him, and feel him out.

ESPNforever · Answer

boobs are so lovely... this is the general thought, now the parental advisory may be different but that's the general idea. If he's looking, he like them, you.

Anonymous · Answer

Hahaha! Usually, I'm picturing what they look like naked! XD What were you wearing? And how big are your boobs?

Wood-Carver777 · Answer

I'll tell you what he's thinking."woww earth and mars aren't really that further apart."... excuse his subconcious.

Anonymous · Answer

They're not. Boobs kind of have their own gravity, the eyes just naturally wonder there without thinking at all.

loveExpert101 · Answer

yeah he's probably attracted to you, but usually what goes through my mind is just dang 😍 those are nice 👌

Anonymous · Answer

Even though they all look pretty much the same we think i sure would like to see them in the open

Anonymous · Answer

Not sure, I'm not a boob guy, I look at overall package and mostly face

FlyingTurtle · Answer

Probably something like "Wow. Those are boobs."

Anonymous · Answer

"BEWBS!" - That's what he is thinking.

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