As the question says, what do you think is worse.
Left on read = the person have opened/read your message/snap but didn’t reply.
Left on delivered = the person haven’t opened/read your message but is active in the app/on social media.
Why do you think it’s worse? Do you yourself leave people on read/delivered? And if you do, why?
Generally a woman will have already got the message as a notification but not always.
In most cases after a woman has received a lot of messages which is usually clearly visible by both parties as read, seen. A woman will simply stop checking the messages coming in.
So it doesn't matter what you write or how much you right it.
Its not always an indicator as the recipient has an indicator that a message is unread from there message box.
On rare occasions I mark a message as unread, so I can get back to it but what if the respondent has seen that its read, changed back to unread?
In general for me to do so, is savering an action of having to respond. Rather then the reward of being able to check a message at a later stage, in consideration of the lengthly delays in anticipation in the first place, dispite however longer it is going to take for the woman to respond to that message and given that they have just written it means that theyre in no way, in anticipation of an auto response, without the consideration of the effort they have taken to bother to respond.
This should give you an indicator of a level of interest as opposed to a normal conversation but of course the issue of ghosting with unread messages is a common social problem and it especially becomes worse when you can see that theyre online and or active in social media else where.
Read because there is an awareness whereas delivered can claim “missed it” and get by with that.
Both options honestly feel like a punch to the gut, but I voted left on delivered as the worse one. For me, I interpret being left on read as the person acknowledging my message but just doesn't know how or what to reply. It could most likely mean recepient chose not to reply but at least had a glance.
my ex ghost me for 3 months and we use to talk too all the time and he start ghost me more offened and he told me too date someone else for right now while he in collges and not only that he didn't even tell me in a another relationship im left heart broken becuaze of him and we use too talk all the time
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u What is the worst is being someone who is so devoid of social skills that the best you can offer to a partner is texting rather than an actual conversation.
being left on read and being left on delivered can be frustrating and hurtful experiences, as they can be perceived as a lack of interest or engagement from the recipient. However, it is important to remember that everyone has their own reasons for not responding to messages or notifications, and it is not always a reflection of their feelings towards the sender.
Being left on read may be perceived as worse by some, as it indicates that the recipient has seen the message and chosen not to respond. This can be especially hurtful if the message was important or required a timely response. However, being left on delivered may also be frustrating, as it can create uncertainty and anxiety about whether the message has been received and read.
Being left on read is the worst. Why?
That is because it indicates that the person has read your message, it has been received but the person is not bothered to reply for whatever reasons. That could indicate a lack of basic respect and the person just does not care enough to give you a reply.
I think it depends on the situation but if someone never opens my message I tend to think they haven’t seen it yet but I know some people can ignore a message without even opening it. Being left on read feels worse especially if it’s something that could be answered quickly or easily, I understand some people might take some time to reply but I think intentionally opening a message with no intention of responding to a question is rude and I think some people do it to be petty or controlling.
Left on read is worse because they were active enough to open and probably read. They didn't care enough to respond. If people open and read then forget to respond that's on them.
Left on delivered can be because they don't have notifications on or are too busy to respond specifically for that person. I know for certain homies if I respond, we are going down a rabbit hole of tangents. I tend to save it for when I have enough free time.
It honestly depends on the person and what our relationship is like. I’d mostly say say left on delivered is worse because it would give me a sense of unease that the person has not even seen my message. If the message is left on read, in my opinion it means “I’ve seen your message. If I don’t respond now, I’ll come back and reply to it later.”. The message being left on read also gives me a chance to follow it up if necessary because I would know that the person has seen my message.
I think the worst one is delivered because it’s like the other person basically ignoring you. Being left on open can be explained if there’s nothing to text back or driving or whatever. But like leaving on delivered I think is disrespectful especially if the other person responds in a decent amount of time
Kind of the same thing, both mean they’re ignoring you.
Read means they’ve opened the account and read the message and are letting you know they don’t care.
Delivered means that they’ve received it seen it in their notifications on their lockscreen and decided to ignore you and pretend they haven’t seen it when they have.
Left on read. At least it shows they're active. The latter can just mean they're busy, the former suggests that they read your message and aren't interested.
I absolutely positively hate being left on read because it means the person went out of there way to read your message just not to reply. Just stay on delivered if you don't have the time to reply to the message.
i'd rather know when the person has read it. if it's just on delivered i'd assume they're ignoring me even harder, or they blocked me, or something bad happened to them
I hate to be left on read. That implies they opened it, read it and chose not to respond. Rather than be on delivered could just mean they are busy.
On read is much better because at least you're sure you haven't been blocked.
Left on read is worse. It means that the person had time to open the message but didn't deem it important enough to reply.
They could have just not opened it and replied when they could or in the right frame of mind instead
Honestly I don't know, both irritate the shit out of me but I guess delivered because the person is actively choosing to not even bother to read your messages
Left on read because they seen it but couldn't be bothered to reply lol
Read is wprse cuz it says they saw and still chose to ignore.
Because they read it but chose to ignore it.
Let’s give them a call and see what happens.
Im old skool i call
Left on read = don't care, busy, no reply necessary.
Left on delivered = dead or dead to you.
