Funny thing is about me is when I do get some quick eye contact I just think maybe they just looking around for no reason or when they smile they are just being nice.
How do I truly know?
I remember once on the bus, I was sitting looking out the window, I saw a girl enter, so I decided not to look at her while she was walking down the aisle toward her seat. I kept looking out the window until she got close, and gave her a quick last second glance, our eyes met then she almost tripped on the steps toward her seat. lol
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OH OH I can answer this!
- They are neither interested or disinterested. Sometimes when they are being put in a situation in which they can have private, one-to-one moment with a guy, they need some time to get used to it, especially when they are very shy. I'm one of them, even though I'm used to talking to guys at a professional level. Sometimes it can be an old (bad) habit :)
2) Not interested
- Usually in a mean way to send the message that they don't really like or even care about what you think
- Not necessary an indicator that she's not interested in you, but rather something more important or stronger is in her mind (maybe she has an interview later on etc.
And to answer your last paragraph, she didn't expect to see you glancing at her or something. Don't read too much into it :)
There's no formula to truly know what's in their mind, but your gut feeling helps a lot. Whatever it is, stay polite, be genuine, and know your boundaries when you realize somethings aren't going quite right as time goes by. Good luck!6