If a girl seems angry at you, even though you are not dating, does that mean she has "feelings" for you?

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If you are wondering why she she seems mad at me, its because I though that she didn't want to talk to me at all because she would ignore me when I tried to talk to her, so I just stopped talking to her and moved on. We both take the same class and sometimes I see her on campus and she always seems like she is mad at me, when I see her and she sees me and the few times that I have tried to talk to her.

RockShowww · Accepted Answer

i got angry at my guy friend not long ago, and almost ignored him... but I would never in a million years like him in that way. so it doesn't neccessarily mean she likes/liked you.

thats not to say that she didn't/doesn't like you. she could have thought there could have been something between you two, when you were flirting, and you did something or other that made her frustrated/annoyed/angry. like talking to a girl she doesn't like would do the trick? I don't know, just suggesting :)

best option is to go and straight up ask her. that sorts everything out, and it doesn't have to be awkward.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

it could mean that she heard something about you and is pissed about that. I doesn't have to mean she likes you. who knows she could just be a one of those people that always has a stick up their butt. if you were friends before this incident then it could either be the first option I said, or that she was into you and is pissed for the reasons everyone said before me.

Unloved_Grudge · Accepted Answer

It could be for a variety of reasons. Perhaps she was waiting for you to ask her out and you didn't when you had the chance? Maybe she was playing hard to get and is annoyed that you have stopped giving her attention? Maybe you said something that upset her? You should backtrack to any signs she gave of flirting, or if you said anything particularly offensive when you talked to her. You should then find your answer.

Good luck.

esahc88 · Accepted Answer

No, a woman can be mad at you for what you say or how you act. I know this because I have upset many woman that I know do not have feelings for. That might mean you are just friends.

AviatorTom · Answer

Not necessarily. A woman I used to work with was angry at me most of the time. Her husband also worked with me and he confided in me that she was angry at the world, not just me, because their sex life had gone to hell.

Avicenna · Answer

Maybe, or maybe she’s mad at you for some reason

Anonymous · Answer

I was shocked to see this question, because I'm facing this same situation with this guy right now.. And i reacted the same way as that girl did. Eeek!

But to answer your question, she probably does like you with the signs you provided.

Personally I regret how I handled the situation, but girls may ignore a guy for various reasons.. Girls often do it to either catch a guys attention, she is royally pissed off over something you did, she gave up on him, she learned something she didn't like about him, she didn't think he was interested (since you mentioned you ignored her), or she is jealous (she could have seen something on your social media or saw you with another girl).

To fix this you should go up to her and ask her why she is mad at you. Tell her you appreciate her and how you feel about her. And just apologize to her, tell her you are sorry if you hurt her in anyway and that it wasn't your intention. Be honest with her. And talk to her one on one, and talk to her. You could try getting her something too, if you were interested in a relationship with that girl.

CreeperZombie · Answer

This is probably way too late but I just want to say that she prob likes you, as I once really really liked this one guy.. He would always talk to me and flirt with me, but when he'd ask me to hang out or go out I would reject him because I was super shy. Then suddenly I just started ignoring him, after realizing I really liked him and when he'd talk to me I'd angrily snap back at him in short answers, I tried not to but whenever I talked I just would do that and then he thought I hated him after a while and ignored me also.. But I really really really liked him, I was just a shy loner and couldn't act normally :(((

So maybe similar thing happened with her... Maybe she really likes you but acts like she hates you

BabyJenks · Answer

People don't change for no aparanent reason.  There's always an explaination.  Perhaps you rubbed her the wrong way unintentionally by saying or doing something she took offence to, or there's someone else she's interested in and thinks that by being off with you, you'll take the hint and just leave her alone.  Possibly she's heard some backchat from one of her mates about you, and has decided to believe them rather than hearing it straight from the horse's mouth. Or maybe she's just got a lot on her plate and doesn't need you fawning over her.  I don't know I'm just speculating here.  If you really want to know, the only way is to bite the bullet and ask her outright rather than pissing in the wind on this site.

Kiss_Me · Answer

After reading your updates, I think she is attracted to you. (Be careful of using the word, "feelings." Being attracted to someone and having feeling related, but not the same thing)

Just ask her out for something simple, like ice cream. This will cover two possible outcomes.

1. She really does NOT like you. You get to be confident, charming, and killer with kindness.

2. She IS into you, and will most likely accept the date request. On the date, you can do things to test the proverbial waters, such as taking her hand while asking what flavor she likes. Then release it. Total hand holding time: 15 seconds. If she balks in any way, back off. If the attraction is there, she will most likely let you.

Some people don't handle uncontrollable reactions such as attraction very well. You have to find a way to let them know its OK to act on them with you.

smne35 · Answer

That depends on why your angry at dude, I mean are you wearing your this is my attention getter and he paid it no mind, or he's not bug eyed every time he sees you, or he says hey want to have lunch with me and you take it as he's into you when he just want to have lunch shoot the shit with you, you know casual hey pal good buddy how you been long time since we chatted, in some instances yes a female tend to explode on someone she's into for no reason even the one she's into have no clue you are or does not show that interest she's wanting openly, why I say it matters not who makes the first moves men or women if your getting something for someone tell them not go days weeks months or years in torture wonder do they or not, say something, write a note saying something like, I like you do you like me and put a yes box and no box for them to mark which one and go from there, easy and you can sleep better knowing ìl if it's a romance coming or next dude on your list to target,

tony8832 · Answer

same thing with me. hung out, went to lunch and did things. She stopped talking to me one day. I have some idea's. I never made any moves on her, argued with her or asked her out on a date. She stopped talking, body language was off and no eye contact. Anyways I asked what the problem was she said "nothing". Anyways I know what nothing means "something". So I left it alone. Also during this time I am with someone.

Stopped talking to her. She in turn continued the same. Now I think I am doing her a favor. She act like she is mad at me. I see her looking at me from time to time. She talks to her friend about me. She eaves drops on my phone calls " I sit next to her". She ask her friend where I am if I am not around "where I am at".

So in my opinion "yes she has feelings for you". I will tell what I am doing " moving on" !

emilyzenella · Answer

She could be mad if she thought maybe you were just trying to get into her pants and you just stopped  because you couldn't. She probably thinks you were playing her so she just doesn't want to be part of it. You could just ask her if she's mad at you.

needadvice741 · Answer

honestly girls do this because they want your attention..but she shouldn't ignore you each and every single time

if she keeps ignoring you, try sitting beside her in class and tell her to listen to you for a minute and say what you feel..along the lines of you're feelings for her and what you want from her and why you don't understand why she's ignoring you and that you really want to know and understand why...this will make her see that you do care enough to track her down and really try to get an answer from her

if she still ignores you tell her that when she's ready to talk to call you or message you

molonski2 · Answer

On the information provided , I'm pretty sure she does fancy you , I think she wants you to ask her out , that's why she is angry.

I've always found , the ones who said they hated me , the situation was close to opposite , including one house mate ( who told everyone she despised me ) then got super angry when I slept with her friend , but I ended up consummating the situation when one night I went to her bedroom and just started kissing her.

sadkoala · Answer

i guess she has interest in you, maybe she just was not sure in the begining and was trying to see how long time you`d chase her, sometimes girls do that not bcs they wanna play but bcs they want to test your love and interest.

so if I was you i`d try to start communication with her intensely again.only if you want of course;)

after you`ll restart it , she`ll start to be more flirty and there you go!

make your move then!

wish you good luck.

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incorrected · Answer

It's hard to say, and us men do tend to over-interpret signs of romantic and sexual interest. Women also sometimes make things confusing by "friendly flirting" when they actually don't have interest, which they shouldn't do. In any case, anger like that sound immature and you don't want a relationship with an immature person, it's more hassle than it's worth.

MisterWack · Answer

So when my sibling (opposite gender) gets angry with me…. She secretly wants to smash? Answer: No.

Just because the opposite gender is pissed off at you for whatever reason caused by you or not or misunderstanding idc, no doesn’t mean “I want a relationship” or “I want to f*ck” at all. Doesn’t at all.

blackburn21 · Answer

Not neccessarily in a lover or sexual way. However, I am interested in them in some way, for sure. Like, if my friends talk about how blondes are better and I am a brunette, I get mad at them, because hey, I am also pretty just because I am not blonde. It does not mean I wanna date or f them. Or if a friend wants to date a completely awful girl, I can get judgmental, and not because I wanna be their girl, just because I care for them and I dont want them to get hurt

MissStrawberry912 · Answer

There’s not a lot of details to tell, but for sure mind games get a little tiring and unattractive. Best thing to do is approach her in a friendly and open ended conversation to check in if everything is okay and if you guys can hang out/exchange numbers :)

vijaygod · Answer

Me 2 the same situation... not even understanding this girl... she blocked me in fb after 2 months of break... she came up to me and said "HI" ... i couldn't understand what should i say... i confused and little bit anger on her... she use to stare at me in the class... once we got eye locked for a moment.. when i come near to her she use to hide her face... i stopped talk to her for a month... then i messaged her in whatsapp... she couldn't reply but just see the message... it went on for week... its really so painful and i dont even understand... what is her feeling... ? pls help me in this !!!

kimberlymyra · Answer

Sounds to me like she feels rejected by you or seomthing.  I don't know exactly what's going on but if you kind of blew her off to move on, maybe she is hurt by this and comes across as mad since it's easier this way.  Maybe she liked you but was acting weaird in the beginning so she's offended now.  Give more detials since it's confusing but I'd guess that she likes you or is mad you're ignoring her since she wants some sort of friendship/relationship from you.

myworld2point0 · Answer

Sometimes when I like a guy I act a little turned-off by them, I'll admit. Usually because I'm afraid I opened up too much about my feelings toward him.

Or maybe she heard you were kind of a player, and thinks you flirt around with other girls.

Felynn · Answer

Could be yes. If I have feelings for a guy and he doesn't act the way I would like, I also tend to get frustrated and cranky about it ;).

Caroline91 · Answer

I dunno... Honestly sounds like a whole bunch of game playing and lack of good communication skills to me. Don't know if either of you two are really ready for dating or a relationship, unless you want a lot of drama.

Amara_09 · Answer

You are delusional and need to be slapped back into reality.  So you are saying, “ If a boy is angry at me? Even though we are not dating then they have feelings for me?” Are you dumb?

Niko-r · Answer

It sounds like she's just creeped out by you or something.. There was never a connection, therefore there's no reason for her to act like that towards you.

lowkanymous · Answer

it really depends what she's angry about, if she's angry that u killed her mom, she doesn't have feelings. if she's angry that you asked out another girl, she is probably jealous or she thought that you guys had something special.

Savorsito · Answer

She definitely wants to have barbaric thex with you. She wants to tip your salad bowl over @ lunch and make you say her name. That girl wants to knock the wheels off your little red wagon and tell you "you're next ponyboy" it's obvious she wants you to thrust your purple headed warrior into her quivering mound of love pudding. It's best you let it happen tiger.

Bella_994 · Answer

It may be that she is just annoyed with you. But in my opinion there is probably some feelings/jealousy etc at play , I know that I have had some feelings for guys that were just friends before and things they did made me angrier than just having no feelings at all, if that makes sense!

WhitneySnow · Answer

Maybe she misses the attention. Just go talk to her. On second thought nvm. This question is over a year old so you guys have probably already resolved your issues by now.

Anonymous · Answer

Either she has feelings for you and doesn't know what to do about it, which is what happened to me and I did the same thing, or she's not interested.

I don't think you should ignore her. Acknowledge her when you see her and be kind and easy-going. She should come around and start talking to you again whether she's interested in you, wants to just be friends or is angry for some reason. If you act consistently kind and easy-going you'll eventually find out what she's feeling.

Sleeper07 · Answer

To answer your question, it's very possible for a girl to like you and be absolutely irate with you.

This girl I approached at my gym is like that. Her vibe shows she fucking absolutely hates me but still finds me attractive.

Paris13 · Answer

She is a Bit Territorial, Like most Female Cats. xx

ArrowheadSW · Answer

Could be a couple of different things, but the idea that she likes you and feels frustrated that you two aren't dating, is a possibility.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Girls simply don't like being ignored, regardless of whether or not they have feelings for someone.

HappyWoman34 · Answer

Just ask her. It’s a good question, but it’s not obvious. It sounds to me like she was either shy or doesn’t like you.

Anonymous · Answer

I have done that sometimes. I also want to know, like how a girl can show that she has feelings in this way... what are ways guys can give off indicators that they have feelings for a girl? Something that just comes out unexpectedly.

confused_gal223 · Answer

no there is no connection b/w affection for you and getting mad... wht hav you done to anger her so?

spartan55 · Answer

Women get angry at literally anything so who tf knows.

Yannae · Answer

No, her getting angry at you doesn't mean she has feelings for you. The best thing to do is to reach out to her.

LostandFound__x · Answer

Not always. Some girls are just angry lol (me!)

Rukii · Answer

she OBVIOUSLY likes youuuu  girls totally get mad over someone even if theyre not dating and he does something with another girl or anything like that, they obviously want him for themselves

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

I get angry at friends because I care about you and don't want you to get hurt.

ANK360 · Answer

same happened to me 3 months back , wished you have posted this months back would have worked XD

DaBiggestBird · Answer

If Tsundere girls are real, they’re probably more cringe than their anime counterparts

boobliker · Answer

I would say yes! so give her a flower say nothing but smile as you walk away

lashante16 · Answer

no she is probably pissed off that you dident ask her out

LiamJHayden · Answer

In the sense of romantic feelings? Maybe, maybe not.

HouseMoat · Answer

Girls that don't "like you", wouldn't "care"

KrakenAttackin · Answer

If I am not dating her and she is "angry" with me, I positively don't give a fuck.

HereIbe · Answer

You're psycho, she's psycho. Hook up forever and save everyone else the burden of being with you.

Floda · Answer

if she's angry at you, you're not good looking enough

JackTorrance · Answer

Just ask her on IM or something?  Say "hey, you're not mad at me are you?  I don't understand it?"

Anonymous · Answer

If that's the case then the girl whose ass I grabbed on the subway the other day must really be into me.

thomasyello · Answer

Did you ask her & if you did what happened after all that?

Anonymous · Answer

No. Women get angry all the time for all sorts of reasons.

trellbrown84 · Answer

Fuck that bitch if you're not dating her fucking ignore the bitch

Kayleigh2005 · Answer

That's me and my guy friends 🤣

strateguy632 · Answer

doesn't mean attracted

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

No you were probably just a dick

es20490446e · Answer

Yes, she's angry you didn't make a move.

rienna888 · Answer

Does she still act shy around you

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