If a woman loves her man would she still want to cuckold him?

[Anonymous]

a cuckold is a boyfriend or husband of his adulterous girlfriend or wife.

i am afraid that cuckoldry is becoming slowly a accepted thing and then it will be much more difficult to find a good woman, who doesn't want to bang anyone but her lover. kind of like the hookup culture. not that i mind the hookup culture but cuckoldry is taking it too far for me personally.

so if a woman loves her man, would she still want to cuckold him?

yes

no

it is not relevant to how much she loves him

[MrOracle]

Cuckolding has been around since forever - it's just found some new popularity in porn as porn producers are ever seeking out new niches - especially ones where they can employ older actresses who are past their mainstream prime but who still want to work.

But I think you're missing the point: the POINT of cuckolding is that the man/husband WANTS to see another man banging his wife - and he GETS OFF on it. In fact, he's often the one begging HER to do it. He gets off on the humiliation of watching another man (often, in his mind, a "better" man or a "manlier" man banging his wife in front of him.

What you're talking about, Asker, is simple cheating. Cheating usually has little to do with cuckolding, as cuckolding requires the husband to be there, watching it happen and feeling helpless to stop it (and being aroused by the whole situation).

Again, though - it's mostly just another porn-niche fantasy designed to employ aging actresses in a semi-plausible way that will sell DVDs and website subscriptions to a jaded audience. Don't take it too seriously.

[DissolvedGirl99]

I guess I was thinking of the old fashioned meaning because I limit my exposure to porn. Old fashioned meaning is the man usually doesn't even know and even raises her children from her "escapades" with or without knowing. And if he knows, he just puts up with it. That's where they get the derogatory term "cuck" from.

[MrOracle]

@DissolvedGirl99 That's fair, because, you're right - that was the original meaning and use of the word. Today, though, it tends to be much more specific, and I believe that the modern interpretation is what was being referred to by the Asker (I could be mistaken, though).

[Asker]

I don't get why the guy, who gets to watch his woman being pounded by some other man gets called the cuck when the cuckoo birds lays eggs on others nests. By this logic the man having sex with someones wife should be called the cuck. Or the cuckoo.

[hlpmedohr]

As a man who has been the cuckold a few times. I can tell you this. It can not only destroy a relationship, if done properly it can also make it stronger and much more fulfilling.
All you need to destroy it is some jealousy, that's easy. However to improve a relationship this way requires both partners be 100% open and honest about the experiences, no matter how hard it is to talk about. It will get easier in time.
This eliminates the need to cheat behind you back, lying about things is no longer necessary. If the cuckold gets involved she is far more likely to orgasm and as long as they are the team and don't allow another guy between them, the relationship can get stronger. Mine did. Besides no 2 guys duck the same way. And she tucks them differently than she does me. I've learned several new techniques.
Have fun but be honest with each other

[Asker]

Thanks for your input but no thanks. I like my girls monogamous without any of this cuckoldry.

[ManOfAlice]

This is crazy. Pushing infidelity insanity to become mainstream

[MlleCake]

The preponderance of women expect to remain monogamous with their significant boyfriends and husbands.

Yes, affairs do happen, but they are still not all that common for women. Men are still much more likely to stray in relationships in many cultures.

Good women are everywhere.

If you keep focusing on the thought of what some women do, you miss a lot of input on how loyal women tend to be. Most of us would be describe more as fiercely loyal, not cuckoldresses.

[Chris_Humble]

'Yes, affairs do happen, but they are still not all that common for women. Men are still much more likely to stray in relationships in many cultures.'

Sure but American culture doesn't belong to them hun. Girls cheat as much as guys.

[MlleCake]

@Chris_Humble You're in Austria. Don't tell me about American Culture.

[Chris_Humble]

What a generic, childish thing to say.
Going by your logic:
You aren't a man, don't talk about men's behaviour. shake my head.

[MlleCake]

@Chris_Humble Whatever you say little man.

[Chris_Humble]

Oh, now since logic doesn't work for you, you want to start insulting?
Truly, the perfect example that even 'adults' can be brats.

[Asker]

I'm just going to side with @MlleCake

[redrocket68]

Women statistically cheat fat more than men do. For several reasons #1 women are pickier both physically and emotionally etc... they have more reasons to cheat. A woman is just far mote likely to be unhappy and in the right state of mind to cheat. Also its easier. Its easier for women to get sex period not just cheat.

[redrocket68]

@Chris_Humble yeah she didn't agree with you so she insulted your dick or height... typical female shaming tactic. Its just a shame they occupy leadership positions as they aren't qualified to do so.

[MlleCake]

I insulted his intellectual smallness.

[Asker]

I smell MGTOW bs right here

[Baronace]

I smell Mangina BS right here.

[Gray1146]

@redrocket68, this is the dumbest comment I’ve ever seen. Women do not cheat, far more than men. Where the fuck did you even get this statistic? That isn’t true. Women have caught up to men because women now work and are financially independent of men. Women are emotional creatures. I used to be a print model in New York City, so I’m a guy who can get tons of ass more than most men. That’s a fact, but it doesn’t make me better than anybody. It is what it is. I’m fit.. I work out five days a week. That being said, men are more likely to cheat. A man can break up with a woman and never talk to her again, but a woman needs an emotional connection. This is not an opinion. This is an absolute fact, there are exceptions to the rules, but you obviously don’t know what the fuck you’re talking about, so I’m helping you out, man.

[ManOfAlice]

I've been blessed with a virgin. No matter how I try to reframe things... she seems to do solid by me in terms of being a lover.
Personality wise though, I had to let her go. She called thr cops on me several times. Im going insane.

[Gray1146]

@redrocket68, you pull this shit out of your ass statistically. That’s not even close to the truth. Statistically, men still cheat way more than women. but here’s the difference a man can cheat fuck a woman and never talk to her again not be emotionally invested in her. It’s just for a nut a woman or cheat, but she has to have an emotional connection to the man. It’s very rare that a woman will have intimacy with a man with no connection. I’m not saying it doesn’t happen, but it’s extremely rare. Women and men are completely wired differently that is 100% factual number two the hormones that drive men or any or anyone to want to be physical and have sex is testosterone men have triple the amount of testosterone coursing through their veins this

[Gray1146]

@Chris_Humble that’s not true at all. Women do not cheat as much as men. It’s not really their nature for a woman has to be an emotional connection. It’s not just about sex. A woman is far less likely to cheat in a man and when they do cheat, though it’s for a reason and they hide it much better that’s for sure

[DissolvedGirl99]

Cheating is fucked up any way you look at it and what man would ever want to be a cuck? No man with any dignity, that's for sure. If it's getting popular to be a cuck then you've all been brainwashed by third wave feminists. (PS - Open relationships are a different topic.)

[redrocket68]

How are open relayionshops any different?

[ManOfAlice]

My man! Give me five!
I second that. i dont want to be cucked!!! (With a hard g)

[Saccharissa]

The whole point of loving someone is to want them and no one else. I'm all for respecting people's differences, but wanting to betray the one you "love" and be with others means you don't love them, as far as I'm concerned, or even respect them, or yourself.

[ManOfAlice]

This right here.
Looooveeeeee

[ChronicThinker]

If she loves you, as well as herself, she wouldn't respect you nor disrespect herself by doing that.

[Asker]

Actually some said, that this cuckolding is a mans fantasy more often than it is for women. 🤔
So this is a relief for me 😊
Unless i happen to land a female, who asks me to become her cuck, in which case I'd be unsatisfied.
Still, it seems lower than it looks like 😊

[Johnsmth]

Exactly. What is up with the yes votes?

[ManOfAlice]

I like this dose of sanity

[Robert1956]

I am not sure that love prevents it. My wife told me after I caught her being fucked on the dining room table by a 23 year old (2 days after her 55th birthday) that she could never ever love anyone else but admitted that she had become obsessed by the thought of sex with others. It turns out he was not the first and she had been having relations outside our marriage for about 5 years including the couple next door, a few friends of theirs and even a few almost strangers that she had met at her place of work. I was shocked certainly but after that wore off I just saw it as a natural extension of her personality and could not dispute that it had changed her in many ways for the better. I now notice the way other men look at her even when we are out shopping and also that she clearly dresses to attract that attention. On one occasion we came home from Sainsbury's and she told me to fuck her in the kitchen. Once inside her she started asking me if I had noticed the man by the bread aisle. She was soaked and I have little doubt that if she had been by herself she would have made arrangements to have him.

[ImagineSketchy]

Cuckolding is something a man wants done... And the female equivalent is cuckquean although it doesn't get used much... and women USUALLY don't like to be turned on in that way. "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned."

[Anonymous]

She can love you and still fuck other guys. And the husbands and boyfriends enjoy it just as much as the women do.

[Asker]

That's because the woman gets to have sex while the boyfriend is not getting any of that P.

[Opinion Owner]

If you desire other pussy, then you're not a cuckold and you would hate the lifestyle. A true cuck loves to be a cuck, and loves watching or allowing his wife to fuck other guys. Maybe you're better suited for being a swinger. But I think less women are inclined to go that route.

[Asker]

No thanks. I'm not into that at all. I prefer one woman only and her having just me all for herself.

[Opinion Owner]

I think that's great. I was just explaining how couples that are in this lifestyle can still love each other.

[Asker]

I see that. I have selected the MHO already in those regards.

[MikeHawk232]

Agreed. If a man is willing to share his wife or girlfriend then that shows he is confident in his capabilities. Women love self confidence in men.

[Gray1146]

The only reason why men are into this shit is that they have trauma, and anybody who says otherwise is full of their own shit. I would love a psychologist or one of these sex therapists to give me their reasons why they think this shit is OK I could never tell people, being a student and somebody that studies human behavior, that this is gonna work out and that this is normal. This is not a man’s nature. Hence, people want to convince themselves that this is getting more popular. It’s not getting more popular. It’s just people know about it more because the Internet is no fucking person. The right mind would be OK with this. You’re a loser if you do it. Sorry, I judge you, and people may not tell it to your face, but they judge you too. Stop thinking that this shit‘s OK there’s nothing normal about this. You should feel like you’re fucking fucked up, and you should fucking go to a clinical psychologist and get your shit together.

[Anonymous]

"i am afraid that cuckoldry is becoming slowly a accepted thing"

People are a lot better informed about the breadth of human sexuality than they once were. So everyone has now heard of cuckholdry but it's not common. It's still hard for a submissive male who wants to be the cuckhold to find a willing woman to do this.

[englisc]

I wouldn't say that it's becoming a common thing. It's becoming more popular, but the large majority of women aren't interested in it. For those who do engage in it usually it's the man's idea, and it's more of a male fantasy.

[Astoriana]

I have never actually seen a woman say that she's into cuckolding. It's only ever men, and usually it's conservative idiots who throw the word around as an insult.

[KimmyWhimmy]

if cuckholding is kinda new.. why would someone who values older traditions want it?

[Astoriana]

@KimmyWhimmy it’s not new. The term “cuckold” comes from medieval times.

[Baronace]

@KimmyWhimmy "... why would someone who values older traditions want it?"

They don't... Astoriana is just a leftist mental-midget who uses any and every opportunity to attack those who are smarter than her.

[Anonymous]

Well if it's an interest or kink of his, and she's interested too, I don't see what the problem is. People can love each other and also have sexually open relationships. I know sometimes different dynamics and lifestyle are hard to understand, but just because thins kind of stuff goes on, it doesn't mean the people involved don't love each other.

[AscxJ]

I think it's similar to if you love someone, can you be polygamous? To both, to me, it's a no.

But there are still lots of women out there who would only be with her one and be satisfied with it. =)

[ManOfAlice]

Women are more romantic than men.
I don't understand why men, the love of their life, want to give them away.
I will never give away my wife. I guess I am blessed to have seen a virgin to understand what love means; and second, to feel really in love myself.

[redrocket68]

Cuckolding is disgusting. Fuck any nutless asshole who okays this BS... your girl even suggests this shit you better tell her to pack her shit. Pussy ass men will be the end of this generation...

[Baronace]

Calm down... Nobody is forcing this on you... What goes on behind closed doors between consensual adults is none of your business, and doesn't hurt you in the least.

[ManOfAlice]

I get more and more incensed at the idea of being a cuck. I have experience with a virgin woman ("good woman" and I believe it), and now I see a very desirable woman (many men desire her).
I am angry as if I am in a limbo. Torn. I don't want to be cucked by the woman whom I desire and have feelings for. I sufferrrrrrrr
I am not a cuck!!!

[IowaTony]

I believe most guys want to get cuckolded at least 5 times and maybe two or three times without him knowing and to go down on his wife at least two times afterwards even if he don't know that he's eating after she cucked him. And if he likes the way you taste then he wants you to continue.

[isbey]

If it makes you feel any better cuckqueaning is also becoming very popular.

[Asker]

It doesn't.

[Asker]

It doesn't make me feel any better is what i meant to say.

[ovoxo_]

No cuckolding is based on dominating and humiliating the man, that's why women love it. Leave your party if she pushes this on you.

[FunGuy1970]

My wife cuckolds me, but I am the one that suggested it.

[Slutyjesse69]

Why not. We all have that one guy that we know a friend coworker that we want to sleep with or even an ex with his big cock we still think about

[hipeechick]

Cuckolding is almost always his/the husbands idea, desire, fantasy, kink etc etc.
I find it a bit offensive the way you've thrown it back on the women.

[GreenGold1992]

I would do that nor would I ever want that in a girlfriend/wife.

[KimmyWhimmy]

that’s great 😃

[GreenGold1992]

no to great when I don't have one :(

[Anonymous]

Cuckholding will never be accepted by the masses...

[Asker]

Behold when CNN or another mass media says it is trendy, watch how a big portion of society collapses by having their wives and girlfriends being fucked by the cuckoos.

[Joecuckold13]

If they a small like myself then yes the wife or SO deserves and desires a strong cock

[H4BX786]

Would love to experience my wife with h other men but a man can dream

[Anonymous]

The meaning of Love is changing

[JennieF]

Some do.

[elizabeta]

Get a brain