Why would a woman emasculate her man?

Question

Especially considering the fact that She chooses men based on feeling protected.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Because she no longer respects him and looks up to him , she is not attracted to his weakness of being a so called Nice guy that constantly kisses her ass , Most females’ don’t like nice guys’ that kiss her ass constantly, she feels safer with a guy that pretty much treats her like she is below him , that doesn’t tolerate her shit , that puts her in her place , she is pretty much emasculating her partner , because he is weak to her eyes , by always pampering her and doing what she says. When a girl tries to tell you what you need to do , you need to do opposite , she isn’t your boss and she doesn’t control you , unless you are sitting around doing absolutely nothing , but if you are doing your fair share of choirs in the house , she shouldn’t be saying a fucking word to you , so do not allow her to. A guy that constantly apologizes to his girl , is digging his own grave , especially if she stops being intimate and affectionate with you , and no longer includes you in things , you need to stop kissing her ass and set her ass straight, and tell her that you will not tolerate her controlling behavior , and if she doesn’t like it , there’s the door , don’t let it hit ya in the ass on the way out. Never let a girl emasculate you , To keep a girl by your side , you have to balance between good and bad to keep her on her toes , females’ brains are wired different from guys’ it’s just the way it is , if she isn’t looking up to you , she is more than likely looking up to someone else , and spreading her legs to someone else or planning on doing so. So don’t sit there with Sucker written on your head kissing her ass , Always remember you deserve a girl that respects you and looks up to you , if she constantly brings misery into your life and constantly makes excuses why she isn’t in the mood? you need to put your foot down to her and tell her you will not tolerate her behavior anymore , get your shit and get out , I deal with this nonsense with my ex that still lives with me , that I finally put my foot down to and no longer tolerate her shit , she is now begging for me back , like she always does when we argue and fight and I don’t give into her , I got to a point where I don’t want her anymore because she is a selfish person that only cares about herself , She is begging for me back and she knows I am not falling for her shit , Now that she knows she doesn’t have a chance with me again , she is now treating me like shit again , stomping around like a little brat child cuz she isn’t getting her way. I just ignore her and pretend she isn’t here. She is now doing everything she can to try to win me back , her true colors shined the second I was laid off from my job and watching me struggle landing a new one , she decided to be selfish and started excluding me from things , when she never did before , she met a girl that was just as toxic as she is and she was shocked that I didn’t care where she was going or what she was doing , she would ask me aren’t you upset that I am going away? I said Nope , why would I care? Am I supposed to care? Last time I cared you flipped on me acting like I was being insecure and jealous which I wasn’t but whatever , So Am I supposed to say no baby please don’t go? Go Have a blast cuz I plan on doin the same. She went away with her girlfriend and the whole time she was gone she was blowing up my phone , wondering what I was doing , and checking in on me , I said I am enjoying the peace and quiet now that you aren’t here , so stop calling me. If you are that concerned than maybe you shouldn’t of went in the first place She kept telling me she was having a horrible time and that her girlfriend is controlling and toxic , I laughed and said isn’t that why you are friends to begin with? You are a lot alike. I then said , I tried telling you that before , but you chose not to listen to me , anytime I try to tell you something Lyon just ignore me like I am this enemy to you or some shit , so I am over
Your friendships with your so called friends , so have a blast , and hung up the phone on her , when she got home she tried throwing herself at me wanting to be in my arms , I pushed her away and said nope , I am not your convenience. And by the way I am going away next weekend with my friend. She didn’t like that whatsoever. I am just over her shit , she is not a good partner period. A good Girl will stay by your side a bad girl will not , always remember this when it comes to girls’ most of them are all the same , Selfish , find yourself a girl that isn’t selfish and you will be happier than a pig in shit.

MisterWack · Accepted Answer

Could it be that the woman doesn’t know what will make her Alpha’s cock shrivel OR perhaps she doesn’t act timid or submissive and will actually speak up to him when something is wrong or there is a concern within the family dynamic?

Though if you aren’t the “type”, women aren’t emasculating you just to push your buttons on purpose. Feminists aren’t going out of their way to do it either. Your wife loves you, supports you, and wants you to succeed that your happiness makes her happy that she’ll be submissive & loyal as long as you treat her right because she deserves the best, ‘kay? Good.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Usually, it is power imbalances that create an unhealthy dynamic in the relationship.

Josey29 · Accepted Answer

The only way I'm emasculating a man is if he's being sexist.

lightbulb27 · Answer

control means security.

in essence, that means some degree of insecurity.

the other thing is... you'll notice some personality women tend to puke their emotions out at home. Guys can do this too in some ways, often physically... but it's emotional stuff coming out...

And so by doing so in that process, they abuse the other as they regugitate everything negative.

abc3643 · Answer

THIS:

"Especially considering the fact that She chooses men based on feeling protected."

Not so much anymore. An entire generation or two of women have grown up not needing protection by men. They can protect themselves and who do they need protection from? More often than not, men.

Anonymous · Answer

Well most likely she’s always been that way. I’m not sure if she does it intentionally. Meaning she’s not really conscious of what she’s doing, it just happens. Chances are she will always find men who aren’t as masculine. They just tend to find each other even if that’s not what they’re looking for.

Jackblue · Answer

I think sometimes men in our desire to project an air of strength go too far, women see our attempts to avoid showing vulnerability as like living with someone with complete apathy and no feelings. Thus sometimes they just want to see us seem more human, other times they feel as if they can unload all their emotional pain onto us and it won't hurt us.

Quigly · Answer

Homosexual women would Emasculate man. Just because she is with a guy doesn't mean she isn't gay. Gay people can't have kids any other way. Some women are insecure about their homosexuality and they want a guy they are with to be more accommodating to their real desires.

Anonymous · Answer

Control, competition, because she doesn't know any better, because she's been programmed to, because masculine energy works at work, to smash her patriarchy, it's the only way she knows to run a relationship, and probably a dozen other possible reasons.

Billlewis · Answer

The most obvious reason to do so is because we so badly need to be emasculated.

Anonymous · Answer

First, as a test, then, in hopes that he stands up to her to make her respect him, and feel protected by him again.

paledreams · Answer

Worked in customer service roles for majority of my adult life - there's many freaky women out there. 😋

DtMe89 · Answer

You have to remember that whenever someone does something, no matter if it's "right" or "wrong", what they did, they believed, was right

RingOfFire · Answer

It's up to the man to prevent her from doing that. She can't emasculate him unless he allows her to.

SlightlyMental · Answer

How do you emasculate a man exactly? I mean if the man is stuck to his ego then sure, but the real you is authentic, no need to change that.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Does she just test him to make sure he is up to protecting her, and he fails?

kaucky1 · Answer

Whomever seem to be the real protector stinking lies see something hanging with shiteating grins not even knowing what you're getting yourselves into

Anonymous · Answer

she doesn't respect him and once is enough to lose all respect

DexWest · Answer

Power trip, friend group, he allows it, daddy issues, etc.

Babygirl000989 · Answer

A woman emasculating a man is generally a sign of disrespect. He must have done something to lose her respect.

Enginn · Answer

Maybe she wants to be the man. Crazy women are hard to handle so good luck with that.

MoonFace2 · Answer

Some men get off on being emasculated.

Megcait · Answer

Have no idea. I would never do that to my man.

Julie4 · Answer

I don't understand what you mean by emasculated.

RageBabe · Answer

She’s probably a tomboy.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Many don't realize their doing it in my experience

elaphe · Answer

She is emotionally immature, perhaps.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

She's a b**ch !!!

Deserter2 · Answer

They shit test

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