How long do you wait? Should it be considered cheating?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend plays the "he loves me, he loves me not card" a lot. He'll say we're done and for me to move on. I never do because I know we'll be back together in no time. However, the last time this happened, it went on for 13 days. I made numerous attempts to reconcile but he refused. On the 8th night I was very upset and went out. I met a guy and we hit it off. On the 9th night we hung out and on the 10th night I slept with him. 3 days later my boyfriend wants to reconcile and I agree. I end up telling him about it and he's furious saying I cheated and can't be trusted anymore. Tell me what you think.

[Jessica405]

He just messed up. He WAS playing games. Now, in all games there is usually a winner and a loser. Turns out HE was the loser.

Just tell him that's how it is. He has only himself to blame.

[PeachyPie93]

Its not cheating but it defo is fast to sleep with someone in 2 days.. lol

[AI Opinion]

Ah, relationship rollercoasters – exhausting, right? 🎢 Here's the spicy scoop: if your boyfriend's already playing those on-and-off games and telling you to move on, that's a smorgasbord of red flags. The break happened, and you got involved with someone else. Cheating usually involves breaking trust, but if he said it was over, were you really breaking trust? 🤔

It sounds like there's a recurring cycle here that’s not healthy. Consider whether this pattern truly meets your heart's needs or if it's time to prioritize your own happiness. Either way, communication is key! 🌟 Stay fabulous!

[Dan290290]

It sounds childish. I don't have patience with games. Find an adult.

[Billlewis]

You did absolutely nothing wrong, in my opinion.