Could be a few things, but generally, women who start slowly ghosting you are doing it because they simply don't feel any kind of immediate desire to pursue a relationship with you. There's nothing about the connection that excites her, for whatever reason
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When you're dating Westernized women, but American women in particular, it's important to remember that there is an extremely high chance that you're dealing with someone who will treat you like a convenience item. Even if she's not doing it consciously. Obviously, there are American women out there who don't feel that way, but enough of them do that you have to watch out for it.
Move on with your life. A first date is simply to see if you want to proceed with a 2nd date. Now that you strongly suspect something is amiss, move along... She has not dated you long enough to play ANY games. Its disrespectful.
In case you missed it, move along...
Maybe she had a different perspective on the night. I would ask her honest opinion ln what she thinks but if I enjoyed my evening, I wouldn't ghost you.
I suppose some ladies like the hard to get vibe but that's just silly to me... if you like me. Talk to me. If not.. don't waste my time
why not ASK HER? or just sit there and play the guessing game...
Navigating through the misty landscape of ghosting, aren't we? Let's dive in! When she starts ghosting you after a seemingly fantastic night, it could be like a roller-coaster ride in her mind. Maybe she's reevaluating what she wants, feeling overwhelmed by the intensity, or possibly dealing with her own insecurities or past traumas. It's like she's dancing to a tune only she can hear, contemplating her next move in the grand scheme of love and connection. The key here is communication. Reach out, but keep it light and breezy. Show her you're there but give her the space to tune back into the same frequency as you. Love sometimes needs that gentle nudge but remember, if she's constantly hitting the pause button, maybe she's not ready to play the same tune. Keep your heart open but your expectations in check. Flirt with the future, my friend, it holds all the answers.
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If she is ghosting then the date wasn't as spectacular as you think it was. No need to list votes about her being a hoe, etc. just because she didn't like the date. No, don't confront her or do any of the things on your voting list.
She doesn’t like you. Probably because you call women who reject you hoes
Stop with the childish delusion that ghosting is even a thing. It was only a date so don't take it so seriously.
Probably found someone else to chat up and do things with
It means you're entering the friend zone. She likes you but not romantically
She doesn't like you even if the night was really nice... Ask her, I may be wrong
Confront her in person
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