girlfriend (35) and I (34) were at Disneyland Paris last week. Before entering the park she gets herself and I a drink. I wait in the coffee shop with her, but after she passes me my drink she goes to add some extra milk, sugar etc. As such I tell her I am going to wait out wide and slowly make my way out. I wait a few minutes and she doesn't seem to be coming. So I decide to head to the park entrance (20-30 metres away) to take some pictures whilst I wait for her. All the time I am aware of where she is in case she cannot locate me. I spend a few minutes snapping pics until I see her exit the coffee shop and begin to wonder where I am, with that I head over to her. You'd think no issues, but instead she lays into me saying she didn't know where I was and that she may have got lost (forgetting that we have phones to communicate), and that I should have waited beside her. I told her that I wanted to use my time more productively and that I always knew where she was. This isn't the first time and tbh it annoyed me, she eventually apologised and we entered the park and had a good time. But this behaviour is infuriating. Firstly was she unreasonable or was I being a dick? Are we (men) expected to. just wait around? Secondly why would someone act that way? Become so agitated by something so trivial?
Try a little more communication in the future I guess.
"Hey babe, I'll just be out by the entrance taking some pictures. Take your time."
That's all you had to say.
Women rely on their man to make them feel safe and secure. Almost like kids. Neither of you were being unreasonable in my opinion
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Yeah thats pretty dumb, you didn't do anything wrong ~ It ain't like you wandered off into the park without her. I think what you did was right.
You're not her child and you didn't do anything wrong. It's not that you started off into the park leaving her on her own. Just going outside and taking some photos while waiting isn't something she should feel insecure about.
I would say she felt afraid there for a moment. It’s probably nothing and on reflection she might feel embarrassed. If you can just let it go.
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I wouldn't call you any names you just have to be understanding of what a woman likes in this case she sounds like a woman that I would stay beside at all times. It comforts her to know that she has your protection in case anything were to happen or to prevent the advances of other men, It is a security thing. My suggestion is to ask her if it is okay to step away, give her a time frame and location and if she is slow to respond let her know that you rather stay with her. I personally will never leave my woman, I enjoy her company, touching her, being close to her, holding her hand. She loves having me close as I tower over her and she feels safe she will not let me get more than 3 feet from her lol.
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