Am I being unreasonable or is he?

[Anonymous]

Recently my mom died and I'm heartbroken I was very close to her she was a good mom 💔 my friend came over but he has done nothing but leave a mess, got annoyed with me because I didn't feel like cooking as I'm grieving for my mom. I told him 3 times I need space and he isn't respecting it and apparently he had covid when he came down and I suffer severe asthma just wondering if im being unreasonable by telling him I need him to leave me alone and space?

[allthewronganswers]

Get rid of quickly. Looks like he is taking advantage of you when you are most vulnerable.
When a person cares for somebody, especially after a bereavement like yours, they usually go out of their way to take care of the bereaved person. They usually do the cooking, cleaning & other little chores around the place to take away these little burdens while you are grieving. This is the way they show you that they care.
Making a mess, expecting meals to be handed up, etc shows them to be selfish & uncaring.
He is a more like a leech. Pull him aside and f@(k him out.

[boggboss]

Why are u friends with people that evedently just don't care about your wellbeing

[CoolCatMar1]

Yeah... such people don't deserve friends

[CoolCatMar1]

She should drop them

[whereismyjohnny]

I'm sorry for your loss.

You are not being unreasonable. You are going through a tough time, and he should be more understanding and show some sympathy.

[Mynameisbobby]

He should be understanding of how you are feeling over the loss of your mom. You are not being unreasonable at all he is. So sorry for your loss.

[Joker_]

lol that guy is the fucking worst. please take the time to grieve

[Anonymous]

Why are you friends with someone like that? No, you aren't being unreasonable. Sorry for your loss.