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Is he selfish or am I overreacting?

My boyfriend has been going through a lot the past few months. I've been there for him and concerned about him and tried to console him.

But lately I've realized how I have put myself last and how he hasn't put as much interest in me. I have my own problems and whenever I bring it up he doesn't show as much concern. He barely shows any concern actually. He doesn't ask how I'm doing genuinely.

He's been having health problems and I've been understanding in hearing him vent about it and I'm trying to be positive for him. I went to the doctor myself and I mentioned it to him and he didn't even ask me anything about it. I tried to tell him a little bit about it after my appointment but all he said was "Oh" then asked me a generic question. Its like he wasn't even listening to me and began talking about his thing again.

I felt so ignored and cast off. Like I really don't matter. I guess it's my fault in giving him his needs and being there for him. But I guess I thought he'd be there for me. I understand he's going through a lot but I thought relationships were partnerships? I feel like a babysitter mostly listening to his health issues and problems.

Am I overreacting or being selfish? I did tell him a few months back that he has done this and he said he'd do better. But here we are. The funny thing is, he still has not asked me anything about my condition and how I'm doing.

Is he selfish or am I overreacting?
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