My boyfriend doesn't "support me" on social media?

[Bianca914]

Okay. So I'm not exactly a big social media person - but I do understand it is a bit of a social convention nowadays, a lot of couples posting pics together, etc. I have social media mostly to market my music, and I am finding that my own boyfriend does not follow my pages or support them on any platform (Facebook, instagram, etc.). He claims that he "doesnt really use those apps" but I always see him scrolling through when we are together. I've also caught him "loving" other girls pictures just not mine. Also looking at inappropriate pics of women on those sites. but again, doesn't show support for me.
Also, recently I had a musical performance and expressed that I wanted him to come. He said he had to stay late at work, and then texted me he's going home. So he didn't seem to really care or want to come to my show which was upsetting. I told him how I felt and he responded with a shallow "Sorry" followed by "whatever" "you're overreacting" and that it was "selfish of me". I dont feel like I was overreacting nor that it was selfish of me to expect my boyfriend to be more supportive of things that matter to me. So what you guys think?

your boyfriend should support you more and show it on social media

social media doesn't matter

clearly he doesn't really care and neither should you aka - move on.

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[Anonymous]

Social media isn't necessarily a reflection of a healthy relationship (some things are meant to be kept private). Given that he's looking at photos of other women and expressing interest in them via a "Like" oversteps social convention (it is considered taboo, the type of behavior you're describing). A meaningful sign of support might be his decision to attend your show (not whether or not he clicks "Like" on an internet post). His usage patterns of social networking sites, among other things, is evidently an issue, nevertheless. It might be better to end that relationship.

[MrNameless]

Some people don't like sharing their social lives on social media, and that's okay. The social media sharing part on its own isn't that big of a deal.. But the concert thing.. how he responded when you told him how you felt, was a dick thing to say.

[Gottabsavagee]

Give him more chance to support you, based just on one event isn’t right to judge.

However maybe he still loves you, just doesn’t care about music. I’m not saying that is cool to do but that’s what I assume.

[tlrmrs]

The whole performance thing says a lot to me tbh, if my boyfriend did that I would be upset for ages lol

[ichighost]

1. Social media doesn't matter in a relationship and if it does then it shouldn't. 2. If he not bumping your songs or buying them then that's not support. But posting you and liking what you post are shallow reasons to think he don't care. 3. Not showing up when he free to support is a big issue. He needs to change up or you need to move on

[Laetitia94]

The fact he doesn't come on your performance evening us worse then not following you on social media. AND the fact he does follow other girls and lijing kther girls pivturrs is bad as well. Not supporting you on social media isn't that bad per se. But the his actions or should i say lack of acrion make it bad.

[Anonymous]

If you guys are both into social media a lot, he should. Unless he just doesn't want to be with you.
Because if you are both into social media, it means it's part of your social life, and if someone truly wants to be with you, they're supposed to be part of your social life too.

[Finchie40]

I 'm laughing at you for still being with this selfish piece of shit but you are like most Girls, go for. the asshole type thinking you can change them , you're wasting. your time period but whatever you will still be with the loser and Now on top of that you seem like a real winner yourself, considering you have a boyfriend and you are trying to match guys on Tinder so you stooped as low as he is , so i wouldn't be really concerned with what your boyfriend is doing considering you're in the Loser catergory as well

[Bianca914]

It really isn't your place to judge what I do. So if you dont have something good to say, or that doesn't pertain to the question dont say it. You are the only loser here.

[Finchie40]

wasn't tended to be disrespectful just trying to knock some sense into. you , you seemed lost and confused

[Laetitia94]

What a jerkish insensitive comment. Wow you are laughing about someone else's pajn, frustration, dissapointment.

[Finchie40]

No , just making a point , basically saying she is hurting herself , to why she puts up with a ierk like this and then on the side trying. to find a match on Tinder? Just saying she is making wrong decisions i am just trying to knock some sense into her all my other attempts didn't seem to work so i took this approach... Yes It made me look like an asshole and was probably an asshole attempt but i like her and just feel bad for her , so Yes Call me an asshole i was just trying to help her see what she was doing wrong. I notice all her posts pretty much lead to this asshole boyfriend of hers so i know Its her life and she is going. to do what she desires but as a friend I was just tryimg. to steer her the right way

[SarahsSummer]

social media shouldn't matter as much as real life support. Aside from that one performance you mentioned, Do you support each other in the real world?

[spartan55]

Uh, you are worried about social media when he is blowing off something important to you? That is very disrespectful on his part, even more so to try to shift the blame to you. You deserve better.

[blkgold33]

You need to dump this guy if he doesn’t care about your goal and important things as your performances

[Sevenpointfive]

get rid of him. if he's not going to listen, support or care what good is he?

[loveslongnails]

You ARE a big social media person !!! You care way too much about it, based on your other posts. WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY too much.

[LuWe22]

Social Media is toxic for relationships and don´t really matter. Life happens in the real world. He does not have to like and comment every post from you!

[Azazeres]

Define inappropriate, like pictures of them posted for attention? Or like actual porn?

[DiegoO]

Hun, you both are not on the same page. Stay single if you have to, it's better than been with someone who don't care if by tomorrow you are gone.

[malegender]

support you on social media? I'm glad I grew up in a simpler time and did not have this headache. WoW

[Syrian_survivor]

Meh, it's a bad gesture :/ I wouldn't mention it much but I would show that I don't like it

[Poormanscomedian]

The Me Too women won't post picture with boyfriend, SO.

[Anonymous]

The celeb life creates problems and most guys don't like it when girls are gaining tons of attention. I would suspect he's one in most guys.

[arun934]

Don't use boyfriend as a marketing agent. Be happy with your love. I'll support you if your love is true.

[Rambler221]

Looking at inappropriate pictures did it for me. Leave that cunt. He clearly has no love for you.

[Anonymous]

Men are basically gay and incapable of caring for women.

[WindowLicker]

Wait, if you have a boyfriend then why are you asking questions about matches on Tinder? I'm confused 🤷‍♂️

[Bianca914]

Clearly my boyfriend doesn't care about me.

[WindowLicker]

I'm sorry to hear that. Maybe it's time to consider being single?

[Bianca914]

Thanks window licker

[Nik1hil]

He does not wants the relationship to crumble

[legalboxers]

your man should stand by you

[Anonymous]

who cares about social media?

[Anonymous]

you do realize, gag, is social media, right?

[souvikmaity]

Ditch him and make me your boyfriend

[Butternuts]

Y r u w him?

[RIVERTAY888]

l dont blame him

[Bianca914]

Whats that supposed to mean

[RIVERTAY888]

read into it and you will find out

[Bianca914]

im asking you for an elaboration because I dont know what you are implying.