A year ago my boyfriend left me to be with his ex. He never really hided their relationship. Meantime he tried to have me as a side chick. I struggled to get over this but finally had a success and went NC. 3 months ago he contacted me saying that he still loves me, wants to be with me and his relationship is just a situationship. We got back together, I still loved him. He left his ex to be with me. I asked if he needs a time to heal because it’s weird how he jumps between relationships. He said he’s ready to start from a new page and wants me rn. Since then he doesn’t allow me to post him/us on social media. Because “he’s other person now and doesn’t want to damage his ex’s life”. I’ve been waiting for 3months, but a few days ago I noticed she still has photos with him/from their dates. I told him it’s hurtful what I saw and why she can have this and I don’t. He said “there’s no my face”, “I don’t want she to contact me and cause me a headache”, “I don’t want she to cry and to find out that I left her for you”. I feel like my feelings are being neglected and like something is up. He told me to be a secret for 4-5 more months so she can heal. And his family supports his decision and they all think I’m toxic.
My man hides me from his ex and accuses me of not being patient and understanding enough, am I the wrong one?
