My man thinks he's bothering me and /or he's an inconvenience. I dont know what I did and he's ignoring me, what do I do?

[Elliejelly990]

I had a busy day yesterday, I was also trying to relax and try to nap because I needed to work overnight. I got the feeling he didn't really wanna talk to me and this morning he told me he felt like a bother and that he was inconveniencing me. I told him I was sorry and now he's not responding. We're currently ldr. I'm super confused and I dint know what to do. I took slightly longer to reply than usual, but nothing over 1 hour. I hurt his feeling accidentally what di I do?

[CuriousHubby]

This is hard being so long distance and it's hard in person too!

But ldr they take it more personally. If my wife needs to sleep then it hurts but she needs her sleep.

Call him and talk phrase it more like you just needed that time to rest. He should accept it but if he can't accept a need... How will he accept other things?

Give him some space and call him. Be honest and good luck hopefully this small snag won't end it!

[Elliejelly990]

I have given him space, I've apologized and I've made sure to try to call him and he won't answer. I'm trying to text him and ask him about his day and such and he's giving me cold replies. I think he thinks I cheated in him but I was out getting coffee and groceries for the week with my best frinds who is also a girl.

[CuriousHubby]

People will think what they want to and right now he is punishing you for well loving your life!
Sorry he is being an ass hat!
Your wonderful and just needed a day and a night.

If he can't accept your truth then... You deserve a reply or a call back! How rude!

[bowenw]

You apologized. I'm not sure what else he expects you do to. Hopefully he will act like an adult and reply to you instead of playing games.

[Maybeyoutoo]

Very interesting