I messed up, he's ignoring me, what do I do now?

[Anonymous]

I've been seeing this guy for about a month. His birthday was two days ago and I stayed over at his place and he bought wine. Things were starting to take a more serious turn than just casually hanging out. Last night he went out to the bars and called me at 3 am drunk. He told me he was going to walk over to my dorm, I live down the street, and I thought he was joking. I told him I was turning off my phone so I could sleep. The next morning he texted me saying I walked to your place last night. and i said I didn't think you were actually going to sorry and he said "sike thats why you turned off your phone" i replied yeah so you could stop calling me and i could sleep" at the time i did not realize that this sounded rude, I apologized and asked if he was mad at me and he stopped responding. I really like this guy and I didn't mean to make it seem like I am not interested in him that way. How can I fix this?

[Keeper]

Haha. Don't worry too much about it. He shouldn't be calling you at 3 am drunk. And you did the right thing by not letting him come over, even if it was by accident. If he really likes you, he won't hold a grudge and will still make an effort to hang out with you. If he was just looking for a hook up, then he's not worth your time unless you're just looking for a hook up also. A 3 am drunk call is a booty call. Especially when it's asking to come over. Don't accept those calls until you two are in a serious relationship. If you accept them, the guy will lose interest in pursuing a relationship, or he was never looking for a relationship to begin with and you saved yourself a lot of time and anguish where you could have been thinking about another guy who is worth your time.