This married man is frustating me?

[Anonymous]

So there's a guy I work with who is married and he comes on regular nights out in work. Ever since I met him at one social night he was very nice with me and even came up and hugged me halfway through the night. I have seen him on a few night since and he has been kind and offered me advice and asked me questions about myself. When I told him about my break up he asked me how many guys I slept with since and he seems to want to know how many boyfriends I have or who I am interested in even though I am single or just dating. He has told me personal details about himself and he compliments me a good bit like saying that I was gorgeous looking and funny. I told him that married men are off limits and he agrees with me but his behaviour doesn't change. Why is he behaving like this?

[Oliverlogan263]

OMG girl you do NOT need that drama. First of all, he’s MARRIED! Nothing good can come of getting mixed up with a guy in that situation.

Second, he’s clearly crossing lines asking you personal stuff like how many guys you’ve been with. That’s completely inappropriate when he’s supposed to be faithful to his wife.

I know it feels good to get attention and compliments, but please don’t mistake this loser’s fake flattery for real interest. He’s just trying to stroke his own ego and get some excitement on the side without leaving his comfortable life at home. Don’t let him use you like that!

You deserve so much better than sloppy seconds from some cheater. Tell him very clearly his behavior needs to stop, for the sake of his wife if nothing else. Then keep your distance as much as possible at work. You’ll find a single guy who can give you all the attention you want without all the baggage, trust.

[ProbablyClueless]

Because he obviously doesn't agree that married men are actually off limits.

[GoodgirlNatalie]

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