My husband gets on my nerves?

[Anonymous]

So everytime I go to eat Chinese with my husband he tells me what I can and can't eat like I gave up several things when we went out the other day because he says the foods I get gross him out boiled shrimp, crawfish, cottage cheese, and I skipped all that but I got egg drop soup he don't like smell of eggs but egg drop soup doesn't stink and I even sit it aside since he complained that I got that and said you always gotta gross me out and why can't you just eat normal things blah blah blah and he always goes I ain't taking u to Chinese anymore he gets on my dang freaking nerves he says I'm inconsiderate if I was I wouldn't have given up all the food I just mentioned to me he's just being controlling anyway am I being wrong or what?

[PrettyPriya]

This is extremely controlling behaviour and a major warning sign. You need to sit down and communicate with him that you are not going to tolerate someone dictating what you can and cannot eat of all things.

That is crazy behaviour and not something I would stand for. There are things that I don't care for that my fiancé likes. I just don't eat them. I do however actually make things he likes and I do not. Want to know why? Because I am not a crazy person.

You also have to look at it like this. Every time you give in, he is going to get more bold and think that he has control over you. You have to be the one to put your foot down and stop this or it will just get worse and worse.

What is next? He might start telling you what you can and can't wear, where you are allowed to go or who you are allowed to see. The more he thinks he can get away with it, the more he is going to control and abuse his "power" over you.

[LazerBean]

You probably should have realized that was a red flag way before you married him. he's definitely an ass, so it's too bad that you're stuck with him now.

[Asker]

Thats the problem he didn't use to act like this

[Sparkie460]

He needs to toughen up and be a man. You're not forcing him to eat the foods you like. Would he stop eating something that you found disgusting? I doubt it.

[TrueConfection]

It's Chinese food. 😂 Maybe he should stick with McDonald's.

Can you opt for take-out instead of eating in the restaurant?

[Asker]

Lol that's basically what I said and maybe that'd work?

[TrueConfection]

You will probably enjoy your meal better in a separate room from the person nitpicking your food. Just share dessert. 😉

[kylee2437]

I’m not a fan of Chinese cuisine either so I get where he is coming from, but he is being judgmental. Maybe go with friends that share similar interest in that food?

[boggboss]

He is acting like a child

[Guy13]

Good…then he’s doing his JOB 😎

[Asker]

By telling me what I can and can't eat?

[Guy13]

Lighten up…. Truth is, what are you complaining about⁉️ You married him. People don’t suddenly wake-up with type of personality change. I don’t care what you say, it was evident from the beginning. You chose to marry it 🤷🏻‍♂️

[In_Trance]

So, go eat something else