I asked him if he just doesn't love me anymore and he looked at me like I was crazy and asked me how could I even think that way. So I asked him if he didn't like me anymore and he said, "Well, of course I do!" But it doesn't feel that way. No, not at all.
I feel like every time I open my mouth I'm burdening him and he just wants me to leave him alone. So I talk to my family (I have no real friends anymore, just acquaintances) and they tell me that they don't know why he's being this way either. My mom just says, "Men are a##holes" and my dad tells me to leave him if he's going to be treat me like this. So, really, I can't talk to them either. I feel so alone and I don't know what to do. We have 3 kids together and I can't see him ever treating one of our daughters this way. Why me? What did I do wrong? I've read all that self help, marriage counseling stuff and it doesn't help either. No matter how I approach him the end result is the same.
I love him, I really do, but I feel like our bond is broken. There's not another woman, I know that, because generally he despises most women. Supposedly, I was one of the "good ones". I guess that's not the case anymore. What can I do to fix this? Can it even be fixed?
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