Why is my husband so mean to me?

[Anonymous]

I told him that I want a separation ( he just will not change... long story). But anyway we have a one year old and a baby on the way. Me and the baby is staying at my dads for a little. I'm trying to work on co parenting so we can work together as a team and we don't have to go through the system. We agreed. Now he's being a jerk. He's rude to me... he be say duh to me and other things. Very sarcastic. He told me that he put his mom and my mom on the phone to talk about our problems. They was on three way. He's been talking about me. I told him to stop obsessing and worrying about me. He says ewww who would obsessed over you disgusting... or nobody is worrying about you... Like why is he being so mean to me?

[GurlMaster40]

Girl. Take it from me who is going through my parents getting separated right now and seeing my dad be emotionally abusive to my mom and me and occasionally my little sis. If your kids grow up without someone like how he seems then it might be better for them. I had to and still have to daily learn how to treat people differently because I am so afraid of treating people the way my dad does. Studies show it is better on the children for their parents to get separated at a young age. I got so much depression from growing up with my dad, suicidal thoughts even lingered in my head. I know you might still love him. And that’s ok. Or you might want to forget him and forget he ever exists and that is ok to. I would say go with your gut. Do you want to stay married to someone who treats you like that and will most likely treat your children like that. My parents didn’t get separated because I was born so they didn’t and also they are very stubborn but, now they seem to regret that as everyone has not been treated well by my dad and he treated people worse over the years. I don’t want your kids to grow up like I did. If you still think there is hope to fix things then go ahead and try. But if you think separation feels like the right things, don’t wait for 13 years like my mom did. Counselors and others tried telling her to do it but she was blinded by the “love” she sees between them. She is hurt daily mostly emotionally by his actions. I would hate to see you get hurt. I hope whatever decision you chose ends well not only for you but your kids! I am praying for you!

[Anonymous]

wow. totally uncalled for. he could be very nervous about having another baby. this is sad, but the divorce may happen pretty soon... it's not fair to you or the kids that he's acting like this. going to have to sit him down and talk to him. tell him to talk to YOU and not about you to other people. these problems should just stay between you two.

[Gent207]

Your husband sounds pathetic and I'm sorry you are going through this. Rest assured you are doing the right thing for your kids and yourself.
I have no doubt you'll find a real man out there that will love you and your children. As well as treat you with respect.

[boggboss]

Because the feelings he had have now turned bitter so he will dislike u with the same passion he liked u

[Dkc123]

As per diss.. I think he wants to save your marriage but you don't may that's why he's being mean!

[WhitneySnow]

He’s pissed cause you broke up with him

[Anonymous]

What do you expect? A bouquet of flowers?

[Asker]

Look no I don't. Lol But I'm showing you respect show me the same. He's the one stepped out not me.