Why is my husband such an asshole?

[Piano34]

Hello!

I am a 29 year old woman who loves playing the piano and watching sports. But I have some negative things that I am facing.

When it comes to romantic relationships, many males never took me seriously. They cheated on me multiple times. They do not want to commit to me. Thankfully, my romantic relationships with all of them ended.

Right now, I am the wife of a 25 year old narcissistic jerk male. This jerk male became my husband when I was 25 years old. He doesn't cheat on me but he abuses me physically and verbally. I don't know why.

My current husband abuses me physically and verbally and he doesn't tell me why.

Is it because I joined his whole highschool class in bullying him when he was in highschool? I was trying to fit in and I didn't know any better. He should understand that now.

That was the past. Why can't he let go of the past? Why can't he move on?

I was also his highschool girl crush so why is he such an abusive narcissistic bastard to me now?

[BoopBoopBeep]

So you're a bully, number one, number two, you married a guy you bullied... was he abusive before the marriage? and three, why can't you just "move on" like you expect him to do. If it sucks so much go somewhere else. If you're "stuck" in a relationship that sucks because you were shitty to your spouse, fix yourself. Take some accountability for your actions. The bullying, the dumb marriage, and the sticking around.

[TheThingALing]

Given your experience with dating,

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When it comes to romantic relationships, many males never took me seriously. They cheated on me multiple times. They do not want to commit to me. Thankfully, my romantic relationships with all of them ended.

Right now, I am the wife of a 25 year old narcissistic jerk male.

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Perhaps you should consider that maybe you are part of if not the problem.

[DextroShade]

Why did you marry this guy? It seems you have a habit of picking dudes who treat you like crap, and then you complain about being treated like crap. There is no shortage of guys who would treat you well but they are invisible to you, and when 1 in 3 men is either a virgin or hasn't had sex in a year I have no sympathy at all for you.

[exitseven]

sounds to me that all that bullying in high school just turned him mean. you can beat a dog snd sooner or later the dog will bite you. didn;t you see this before you got married?

[spartan55]

This story is as fake as that Christmas tree in my attic.

[Mangospacho]

Why did you marry him anyway if he is a ‘narcissist asshole’?

[Iron_Man]

You don’t make good wise choices. Where are you meeting these guys at

[Anonymous]

Why are you still with him. You deserve better.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Oh haha you must not have read the whole post. She was a bully. She got exactly what she deserved.

[Anonymous]

It's a good thing you love him so much now...😆😆😆

[slatyb]

Why are you still married to him?

[SnowedIn]

I call BS on this story. Troll.

[FunkyMonkee]

Isn't that what girls USUALLY look for?

[In_Trance]

If he is, why are you with him?

[Mettbltt]

what does he say to you

[Anonymous]

He's always been like that.

[shades777]

play him a song

[KrakenAttackin]

Bullshit

[Anonymous]

LMAO!