What do you think of men who have babies from different mothers?

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What are your thoughts when it comes to men with multiply baby mamas?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Huge red flag. But it also depends on why their relationships ended (the actual reason, not just what he tells you), how their co-parenting relationship is going and how involved he is with the kids. If he has the kids less than 50% of the time it’s a big no - unless the kid is a little baby and they haven’t started 50-50 living arrangement yet but plan to when baby is a little older. If he cheated, was abusive physically mentally and/or financially, left for someone else, ”lost feelings”, ”grew apart”, was a bad partner, did nothing around the house or isn’t as involved with the kids = bad, avoid like the plague.

Edith06 · Accepted Answer

Is he divorced? If so, why? Did he ever marry? Does he have kids with another woman plus me, 2 women before he met me, or 27 different women entirely? Is he a widower?

Context matters, and there are a nigh infinite amount of situations a person could end up having children with more than one individual. I would need to know the specifics.

If he just sleeps around and doesn't care who he gets pregnant then obviously he's a douchebag and I want nothing to do with him, which is what I assume your getting at with this question (though I don't really like the conflation)

Static_In_The_Attic · Accepted Answer

Some call them Players I call them Freelance Sperm Donors & as for those freelancers although they are helping populate our planet someone has to tell those dudes that Condoms Prevent Minivans. Ladies A Blowjob A Day Keeps Side Chicks Away & if your man isn’t having enough sex in a relationship just remember he is probably having it outside of the relationship.

DannyUk2017 · Accepted Answer

Player... Just likes to "empty his sack" and nothing else... what happens after is "someone elese's problem", not his... a narcissist, does not like/want to take Responsibility for his actions/doing... that is not a Family guy.. so if he has multiple kids (with him) that means he is "forced" to look after them, if he doesn't want to pay child support.

Anonymous · Answer

So I know a lot of people said no not for me, irresponsible, etc, etc. But everyone has different circumstances. Example, my cousin. He was w a girl for 5 years, they weren’t married. They had 2 kids, 2 sons. She died in an accident. Eventually he moved on after a while, met another girl. After about 1.5 years she got pregnant, one daughter. She’d ended up cheating on him. So now he’s not even sure if he wants to meet someone else. Some people may say he should have married the girl first, which yes he could have but at the same time would marriage have stopped it from happening? Not sure. So to me everyone is different. I think the same for women. I don’t think women go into relationships thinking he’s going to cheat on me specially after we’re married, have kids, etc, or their spouse dies.

RebelinSteel · Answer

I love how people jump on these without context or specifics. A lot depends on the context, is it a guy who was married and got divorced a couple of times for various reasons (not always his fault), for the title of the question, people get married have kids and a parent dies, they then remarry and have more kids.
You then of course have those who just fuck around irresponsibly and don’t care if they have kids or not.

molonski2 · Answer

Well , if I were your age , and lets say the guy is 27 , I'd be deeply concerned , now everyone can make a mistake but to have multiple mothers at such a young age , shows a lack of responsibility , and there is also the financial element.

It also potentially ( in some cases ) mean , who were these women? And what was he thinking?

I'm not absolute on it , but I'd be very careful , last thing you need is to be next.

LadyKitty · Answer

It depends of how many baby mamas there is. Is it related to more than 1 marriage with divorce but then i'd ask about that. If its out of marriage i'd think he is reckless and perhaps not using protection.

HelpfulWoman · Answer

probably take the hint he's not one for longetivity.

Rei13 · Answer

It’s a huge red flag. Context is important too. How did the other relationships end/is he involved in the children’s lives etc, but generally speaking probably not the best partner.

Mr_twoface · Answer

No issues with that, as long as, the man takes his responsibility, pays alimony and loves the children whenever he wants.

Radiate143 · Answer

Usually they are irresponsible boys in men's bodies who can't bear being alpne so they us babies to keep access to many different women. In short, unnattractive.

LazerBean · Answer

Unless he was married, then I would just assume that he was a bastard child himself and was not raised to be more intelligent than that.

Kelley1 · Answer

That is how it should be be. The top 10% should impregnate all of the women and undesirable males should be neutered.

dustybiker2 · Answer

I think the answer puts the question to shame. Life isn't so simple, it is so much more complicated.

Apple1996 · Answer

I imagine they have a lot of child support to pay

WhitneySnow · Answer

Unless they were married to them, I would think they were very careless about using protection

DishLady · Answer

That’s a very loaded question and really depends on the situation.

Drewtate · Answer

Sometimes relationships don't work out and women are usually the ones who initiate divorce.

Brittanyroseee · Answer

Gross. Same thing with women who have multiple kids from multiple dads😂

SotiCoto · Answer

It is biologically normal, but socially frowned upon.  I guess technically I'd blame the women for letting the guy get away with that.

ManInChains · Answer

They must pay a shit load of child support and alimony...

spartan55 · Answer

My ex has four kids with three guys and she has morons running at her nonstop.

Anonymous · Answer

People can lie all they want on here. If that man is sexy and has money you'll get with him. It's not a logical thing. It's an emotional thing. So keep lying girls.

sheenagwapa · Answer

Want went wrong in the relationship? babies are gifts from heaven

Rangers · Answer

He's a damned f*ckboy who had damn well better take care of those babies, or he'll have a thrashing from me waiting for him

DrPepper12 · Answer

That they are trouble. They are impulsive. They are poor decision makers. They are financially, emotionally and sexually less mature.

OtterMan68 · Answer

They have low standards. The women they are knocking up aren't exactly the sharpest bulbs in the forest.

AngelLily · Answer

A Man like that is a man with low self control

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Sucks for the women that are stuck with him I guess

Unit1 · Answer

He's popular among some women and that is indicative in itself.

dfdfdffffdfdf · Answer

they are womaniser and desired by many women at same time one of most popular example , cristiano ronaldo

handsomelad70 · Answer

Not much other than he better support his kids or he's a deadbeat loser !!!

Still-alive · Answer

Pull out game = weak and hasn't heard about condoms yet.

FuqUFggt · Answer

Based. Why stay with one whore if you can afford it?

hafinjun · Answer

I don't think I can answer that question in a civi fashion.

nawtee_me · Answer

I think they should have to support all of them…

GawkVoidArisen · Answer

what about mothers that have different babies from different men? :O

Finchie40 · Answer

Stay away from them , don’t fall into their trap

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

They are generally ignorant and irresponsible.

MsProsperity · Answer

It’s a no, from me. They ain’t my type

MemeMaester · Answer

Same as a woman with kids from different men

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

I think its irresponsible unless he was married.

jahaims · Answer

They make poor decisions

rapfan107 · Answer

They're dumb I know another guys like that

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Irresponsible.

Cheerguy · Answer

They are loaded

dolemite58 · Answer

They’re morons

sheikalana · Answer

They can't commit.

Booklover_90 · Answer

Irresponsible.

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Chad

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Trash af

Anonymous · Answer

Pathetic.

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