Do women who have children from two or more different men, bad at relationships? Or they designed their life to have more than one baby daddy?

[TenderFantasy]

They're not as choosy or they are just "too free".

[Avicenna]

They may well be bad at relationships, but I don't fault them for wanting another child or children with their new partner. I wouldn't date a woman who had kids with two different men, though, under any circumstances.

[Guardian45]

Why not?

[Avicenna]

@Guardian45: Id have thought it’s obvious why not, but she has too much chaos and drama in her life, and maybe financial problems as well. She needs to take care of her kids rather than bringing more men into their lives.

[Guardian45]

I see. So you're not a believer in Love can conquer all?

[Avicenna]

@Guardian45: LOL, not in these situations. Have you ever dated a woman with kids by multiple men?

[Guardian45]

I have in the past.

[Avicenna]

@Guardian45: How did it work it for you? Were you a father figure to them?

[Guardian45]

I was, but it didn't work out for other reasons.

[Anonymous]

My ex wife has had kids with 3 different men including me, she is on her 3rd marriage. Most women are never happy with what they have and always trying to find better but they never will feel satisfied

[TenderFantasy]

That's interesting.

Lol I have had NONE from any of my exs. Gues she likes it bare haha. And she likes children too much. Sorry no disrespect to the ex, no really.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah she likes having kids and it raw , I gave her girls, she kept having boys before me

[Guardian45]

I'm sorry for your unhappiness that "Most women are never happy with what they have and always trying to find better". I think the word 'some' is better choice than 'most'.

[Opinion Owner]

@Guardian45 well I’m still looking for one that doesn’t keep trying to update, they have to be out there

[LazerBean]

Theyre usually in that situation because they were using their genitals to make decisions rather than their brain.

[Guardian45]

Not only is that crude it is inappropriate. Do you have multiple children from different men? If not, then you can't condemn someone who's shoes you have not walked in.

[LazerBean]

Looks like one of the baby daddies got triggered. And no I do not, because I used my brain.

[Guardian45]

NOT that it is any of your business, but I am NOT a baby daddy!

[LazerBean]

Not that you know of lmao

[Guardian45]

Actually, I do know. Obviously, you are a miscreant.

[TenderFantasy]

@Guardian45 How is that inappropriate? Why are you DEFENDING bad or promiscuous behavior? ? ! I think you are the one that is being inappropriate just because you disagree with what she is saying does NOT make her a miscreant honestly. I had to look that up. It means someone who is bad or is breaking the law. I don't see her being any of that here. She is just stating her honest opinion and she is ALLOWED to have that just like you are!..

I guess you WISH you were a baby daddy? ? ! Because I don't see how you'd get offended by a simple comment!

[Adam1978]

They are either bad at picking relationship or the problem in the relationships.

[Guardian45]

Possibly, but not exclusively.

[007kingifrit]

they're stupid is what it comes down to. this is not normal or healthy or a choice it's a failure.

[Guardian45]

Clearly, you haven't given considered thought before you inserted your foot in your mouth.

[007kingifrit]

@Guardian45 no it's trashy and you're just a simp

[Guardian45]

I think its possible they just had bad luck. My own marriage was a disaster!

[TenderFantasy]

Bad luck? Then why do people say that "children are a gift from god"? ! I never had any children from any of my exes. She could have used Birth Control but she didn't. She was lovely enough to want a living, breathing souvenir of your relationship lol.

[meetkitty123]

@guardian45
Why invite me to this? Honestly some questions are not worth people's time

[TenderFantasy]

@meetkitty123 Hey that's mean not to mention immature. You brought attention to yourself lady. He had every right to answer my question. I was just curious, no need to be mean!

[Guardian45]

Children ARE a BLESSING!

Contrary to what you believe, BC is NOT 100% effective; failures are more common than you think.

And then there is also the possibility of rape!

It DOESN'T mean they are "bad at relationships" "or they designed their life to have more than one baby daddy".

[meetkitty123]

@guardian45
Well said Viking. I'm sorry Vike but I just was not in the mood to answer this. Its hateful rude and presumptuous. Such questions only lead to hateful comments and there's truly no point in them other than to be cruel and inflict Petty improper opinions upon other people