If a guy you just met asked you to travel with him to Paris, what would you like to see?

[Anonymous]

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I know that he just wants sex

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+1 y

I’m not going to Paris with him

[Cute_Miss_Laura]

I’d politely decline, and stay as far away from him as possible! It sounds like sex trafficking. I’m not saying he would “sell me”, but he will definitely expect sex! I have a boyfriend with whom I live. But even if I was single, I would NEVER accept a trip to Paris from a guy I’d JUST met! I’m a lot of things, naive and stupid are not on that list! Besides, Paris is on the list of the top 20 most dangerous cities in Europe right now. (Paris is #15, with almost half the top 15 being cities in former eastern block nations, including 3 cities in Ukraine, which is at war!)
(Source: https://armormax.com/blog/most-dangerous-cities-in-europe/ )

[Caroline91]

The pyramids in Egypt maybe?

[Asker]

The Egyptian pyramids are not in Paris

[Caroline91]

Yes, of course you are right, thank you. I have just never had any desire to go to Paris, so I chose Egypt instead. Would you rather go to Paris or would you chose somewhere else? If so, where?

[Asker]

It’s free so I will go to Paris

[Caroline91]

Oh, and since I just met this hypothetical guy, I would let HIM go to Paris while I went to Egypt 'cause how do I know he isn't an axe murderer? Or maybe he has some diabolical plan to throw me off the top of t he Eiffel Tower, which by the way isn't in Egypt?

[Asker]

I’m running a background check on him

[Caroline91]

Good one... You should be a professional financial planner!

[Caroline91]

Think how much money you could make if you started an agency specializing in doing background checks for women who have been invited to Paris by some random dude?

[RedInnocent69]

Egypt’s nice too. A bit tougher, but fascinating.

[Caroline91]

@RedInnocent69 Have you been? I think I may be changing my hypothetical mind and going to Bora Bora instead. Only problem with that is I might never come back!

[RedInnocent69]

Yes, @Caroline91. Three times, actually. Haven’t been to Bora Bora, but imagine it would get dull after a few days, a bit like Maldives. Great if you like the beach, but you can have that experience at Sharm El Sheikh in Egypt too.

[Asker]

@caroline91 I might get rich if I start my own business

[Caroline91]

@RedInnocent69 Sounds like you really enjoyed it. I think my husband is in Egypt at the moment. I'm pretty sure I wouldn't get bored on Bora Bora although I might have to change it to Tahiti because I understand the surfing is better there. I literally crave the Pacific Ocean.

[Caroline91]

What kind of business would you start?

[Asker]

@caroline91 what you said “Financial Advisor”

[Asker]

@Caroline91 I don’t think you want to see the Pyramids, you have another reason to travel there 💕

[Caroline91]

Omg @jennz6 you are so right! I'll have to let him know I am on my way!

[Asker]

@caroline91 you are so funny 💃

[Asker]

@caroline91 it doesn’t bother you that I am a Stripper 💃 ?

[Finchie40]

For a girl , that would be risky , she be better off not going at all , if she doesn’t really know the guy whatsoever , she is best to decline his offer. He more than likely just wants to fuck her and have his way with her or he has something else up his sleeve , you are best not to go at all , not until you really
Get to know this guy, if you are interested in him. Shit , even I wouldn’t go on a trip with a girl that I barely knew , I don’t care how beautiful she is , my ass wouldn’t go with her , until I really
Got to know her, especially this day and age on how society is today , you can be playing with fire doing that shit

[Asker]

You are right, I am not going with him

[Finchie40]

I don’t blame you , it’s better to be safe than sorry

[dinojames22]

The movie "Taken"

[Asker]

Yes I saw it and I am kinda scared to go now

[dinojames22]

That's probably a good think.

[dinojames22]

That's probably a good thing*

[Asker]

Gotcha, thanks

[Asker]

@dinojames22 that happened to me

[Static_In_The_Attic]

A RETURN TICKET!

[Asker]

The Eiffel Tower, plus the Louvre museum and the nightclubs

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Also a memorable night out in Paris and with a little sightseeing & a gourmet meal aboard a luxurious dinner cruise along the Seine River. Float past the city’s famed monuments, such as the Louvre and Notre Dame, and admire the beauty of the Seine's riverbanks.

Read more about Bateaux Parisiens Seine River Gourmet Dinner & Sightseeing

[Asker]

I will read up on it

[Static_In_The_Attic]

In addition don’t forget to have French fries too.

[Asker]

@static_in_the_attic McDonalds right?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

I still would want to see a return ticket & if the joker can’t show you that ticket RED FLAG don’t go.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

I’m sure there is a McDonald’s there however it’s probably far from the McDonald’s we have here in the UNUnited States.

[Asker]

I might not go, I want to save my money and maybe go with my girlfriend

[Static_In_The_Attic]

I never asked & I have a question in regard to your question. If a guy you just met asked you to travel with him to Paris is he paying or do you have to pay your own way?

[Asker]

No he said that he would pay for everything

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for your girlfriend make sure she’s the one before you go there.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

If all expenses are paid I would start packing my bags. How well do you know this joker?

[JustFiveGuy]

Eiffel Tower

[northerngal]

Well I have been to Paris quite a few times... amazing by the way... so I am not in a panic to see Paris... so I think before I jet off with him I would like to see him at a coffee shop to get to know him a bit first.

[Asker]

You’re right, but I was so excited…but I know what he really wants

[Caroline91]

Wise woman. Then, if you like him and decide to trust him, why choose Paris instead of somewhere you haven't been yet, right? Personally, I think Bora Bora would be a great choice.

[northerngal]

@Caroline91 Oh now that would be exciting... no rush. Paris is not going anyplace.

[Caroline91]

I know, right?

[northerngal]

@Caroline91 But you do have to go sometime... Paris is pretty amazing. I love to just sit at a cafe sip my coffee and watch the world go by. People in Paris (and Europe) work to live not live to work...

[Caroline91]

@northerngal I have heard that about work there and surely wish the US would pick up on that idea. We'd actually probably see better productivity. Thanks for all of your wonderful thoughts on Paris!

[Dinklex3]

I’d think of human trafficking.

Thank you for deciding not to go ❤️

[Asker]

@dinklex3 that happened to me when I was 14 years old

[Dinklex3]

I’m sorry that happened to you, that’s so young 💔
If you do decide to go with a friend trust no one and don’t let them know where you’re staying.

[Asker]

That’s my plan

[PeachyPie93]

Id want to see the Eiffel tower, some food places, Seine river, Pont des Arts, the typical tacky things everyone goes there to see LOL

[SecurelyInsecure]

@PeachyPie93 doesn't sound too bad! :)

[PeachyPie93]

@SecurelyInsecure lol yeah :P

[SecurelyInsecure]

I mean, people visit there for that, its not like outsiders have any sort of special information about the "these are our secret places" places lol

[PeachyPie93]

@SecurelyInsecure LOL yeah very true, not sure if it was with a guy I didn't know, if it would go too well, but you never know, if you survive it would be cool 😂

[SecurelyInsecure]

SURVIVE? what are you expecting to happen?

[PeachyPie93]

@SecurelyInsecure I don't know, she said its with a guy you just met? So you never know what could go down, but if he is nice it would be a cool trip.

[SecurelyInsecure]

So, we are talking like... random sites, random sex, and then random murder?

[Asker]

@peachypie93 you should go too

[PeachyPie93]

@SecurelyInsecure Perhaps? LMAO I don't know

[PeachyPie93]

Maybe one day.

[SecurelyInsecure]

@PeachyPie93 sounds fun I guess

[SecurelyInsecure]

@jennz6 for the random sex?

[PeachyPie93]

@SecurelyInsecure Sure but I'd rather go by myself since then I know I can go to the places I want and not have to have sex with a rando :P

[SecurelyInsecure]

@PeachyPie93 haha fair enough. Mind chatting? I have plansss for today, and a bit freaked out by them.

[PeachyPie93]

@SecurelyInsecure Okay? Sure I guess lol

[SecurelyInsecure]

Sweet! hit me up if its okay

[Asker]

@SecurelyInsecure I think that is what he wants

[SecurelyInsecure]

well if they she is okay with it, then its her choice I guess haha

[RedInnocent69]

The catacombs, Montmartre, the Opera House, and a performance at the Moulin Rouge. I feel like I’ve already done the other big things, Arch de Triumphe, Eiffel Tower, Louvre, Napoleon’s Tomb, Notre Dame, and Versailles.

[Asker]

@redinnocent69 yes, I want to see everything

[RedInnocent69]

You’ll need lots of time. Louvre and Versailles are each a day on their own. And the food…

[Asker]

I’m not sure if I like French cuisine? But I know that there is a McDonalds there

[Caroline91]

@jennz6 Of course! Everyone travels to Paris just to go to McDonald's... Ronald's gift to the world! Just think of the stories you could tell when you got home... Well, first we went to McDonald's and then to the McLouvre, next the McEiffel Tower, then the...

[TheRealPepperPotts]

@Jennz6 I think French cuisine is amazing. If you haven't tried it, you're in for a treat! I would be sad if you only went to McDonald's... There are markets with delicious, fresh produce, patisseries with wonderful baked goods and desserts, and restaurants that prepare and cook everything to perfection so that you are getting the best flavor and quality of the food. I use French cookbooks often and much of it is technique to make simple foods taste fantastic.

[Asker]

@Caroline91 I really don’t like French cuisine

[Caroline91]

@TheRealPepperPotts Thank you so much! I can’t believe someone has finally given me a reason to want to go to France. Next stop, Italy…bruschetta all the way…mmmmwuh!

[Caroline91]

@jennz6 Perhaps Italy then? I’ll meet you there and we can eat our way through Rome?

[TheRealPepperPotts]

It sounds like you've tried it before?

[TheRealPepperPotts]

@Caroline91 I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not...

[TheRealPepperPotts]

The Louvre [sigh]... I would want to spend some time there.

[TheRealPepperPotts]

@Caroline91 Why the sarcasm?

[Caroline91]

@TheRealPepperPotts well thanks for asking for clarification. I appreciate that. I am rarely sarcastic with people I don’t know very, very well and who understand my odd sense of humor. I can also be a bit macabre so I have to be careful of what I allow to actually go from my overly imaginative brain out of my mouth. So, I mostly try to just let the silly, fun loving side come out. Short answer: no I was not being sarcastic. I love to eat, all kinds of food from all over the world. It is amazing that I am not seriously overweight, but size proportional to height. You are literally the 1st person to ever give me a reason to want to go to Paris. Since I grew up in the San Francisco Bay Area and San Diego, I’m not terribly inclined to subject myself to the rigors of travel without a truly good reason. So, what are you thoughts on sarcasm?

[Asker]

@Caroline91 let’s go together

[TheRealPepperPotts]

@Caroline91 I wasn't sure after the remark about just eating at McDonald's in France (which would be tragic, in my opinion). You know, the "McLouvre, McEiffel" remark. Then, the next comment could have been genuine, but after the previous one (sarcasm) I just couldn't tell. Thank you for clarifying; it makes such a difference! : ) I hope you get to go; it would be an awesome experience.

[Caroline91]

@TheRealPepperPotts It would be tragic, certainly for a foodie like me. My comment about the McLouvre, etc. was intended more as making a point about what American businesses do overseas. I have lived in two countries besides the US and seen what happens from what I call the McDonald's Effect, but I shouldn't expect other people to get that comment without putting it in context. Ya done good, girl. Thanks for your graciousness.

[TheRealPepperPotts]

@Caroline91 I see. That's a good point and very true. Thank you for being willing to have a conversation! Awesomeness. : )

[Caroline91]

@TheRealPepperPotts Well, give yourself credit for starting it! I will always respond positively to the way you approached things, What I don't respond well to is catty or snippy women, although I will still be polite, I don't engage. Feels good to have gotten here together. Thank you :)

[TheRealPepperPotts]

@Caroline91 Awww! Thanks for working with me towards the goal of understanding, and I hear what you are saying. Hope you have an awesome Mother's day!

[Asker]

@Caroline91 yes, great idea 💕💯

[serious]

If this is the very first time they are meeting in real life then that is very risky. In real life the girl has to know the guy very well in order to take such a decision and to know and trust the guy well can take time.

[Likes2drive]

I’ve been there and saw most of the good stuff, if you trust the guy and go you must see The Louvre, The Eiffel Tower The arch of triumph and go to a good café to eat crepes and coffee

[Caroline91]

@Likes2drive Or perhaps she should decide not to trust the guy and stay home and watch travel documentaries about Paris?

[Likes2drive]

@Caroline91 it’s definitely risky going with someone you don’t know, maybe she should go out a few times with him before that

[Caroline91]

@Likes2drive Or go by herself. Women greatly underrate the benefits of doing things with ourselves as our own company. There's nothing that says he was gonna pay for it all, so why tie herself down to a man she hardly knows. I would take the trip and then go out with him when I got back if I were interested. And, as an aside, Paris isn't where I would go... It would be Bora Bora!!

[Likes2drive]

@Caroline91 Yeah my sister travels by herself all over the world

[Asker]

@likes2drive
@caroline91
I might go with Caroline, right?

[Likes2drive]

Or me 😊

[Asker]

@likes2drive no, I would rather go with Caroline

[Likes2drive]

Oh well, i’m probably going to Austrian and Germany in July anyway

[Caroline91]

@jennz6 @Likes2drive I'm not getting in the middle of this. But yes, in a world where I am not a mom to 2 young children... It would be me and my girl, Jenn, all the way to Paris. And I'm her wing-woman when we go clubbing! YOU call the shots, girl. You're smart enough to do it.

[Asker]

@Caroline91 yes ma’am

[Asker]

@Caroline91 why won’t you message me?

[Caroline91]

@jennz6 already did

[Asker]

@Caroline91 thank you sweetheart

[WhitneySnow]

The Louvre. But like you I wouldn’t go with a guy I just met.

[Asker]

I changed my mind about him and I will go with my girlfriend when we have enough money saved

[WhitneySnow]

Great! Have fun 😊

[Asker]

I’m not going

[TheRealPepperPotts]

@Jennz6 I think that's prudent.

[Caroline91]

@jennz6 Live it! Can I come too?

[Asker]

@Caroline91 you pay your half of the trip?

[Caroline91]

@ABSOLUTELY. But actually it’s just wishful thinking for me right now bc I have a 4 year old and a 1 year old hanging off my leg at the moment lol. But I sure wish I could.

[Asker]

@Caroline91 I understand

[Caroline91]

@TheRealPepperPotts Hi. I have been trying to find the spot where you asked me why the sarcasm. But there have been so many back and forths on this thread that I’m having a hard time finding it. You did ask in 2 different places and I gave a long reply the first time you asked which may be why you asked the 2nd time because I was still typing. I hope you saw that answer. Long answer short: I literally meant you are the 1st person to ever give me a reason to want to visit Paris. I have never been interested in visiting there, but my husband and I are foodies and your comments about the cuisine piqued my interest. I do not use much sarcasm period and if I do, it is only with people who know me very well. Sarcasm too often causes hurt feelings, can be unkind and can also be used passive aggressively. Since I don’t want to be any of those things, I avoid it. I appreciate that you are the kind of woman to call things out if you think something is iffy. More of us need too do that more often. I also admire that you did it in such a way that made communication open and possible instead of attacking. If I offended in anyway it was unintentional and I am sorry if I said anything that could be interpreted that way.. Peace?

[Asker]

@Caroline91 I sent you a private message

[TheRealPepperPotts]

@Caroline91 Oh, totally!! I just couldn't tell and it's so difficult with just a comment to know where someone is coming from. I want to understand before I assume someone is being a pill. : ) You would love French cuisine if you are a foodie! You seem like a neat person to not take offense, too; I appreciate it. I hope you get to go to France someday; it would be so neat.

[Surely]

If I were a woman. Just meeting a guy. That asked me to travel with him. I would want to see his criminal history report and have references!

[Asker]

Good idea thank you

[Caroline91]

You would make a very wise woman!

[Surely]

@Caroline91 Thank you

[NathanDavis]

the trunk of the car on the way to the airport...

and a few other spots which I know better, to check for first...

[XXblack88]

🤔 If I just met him I'd probably turn down that offer.

[Asker]

@xxblack88 thanks for the advice honey

[XXblack88]

@jennz6 your welcome

[bobalife]

Although Paris sounds fun… but it’s giving stranger danger vibes😬 I’ll politely declined & make my way out asap.

[molonski2]

Well there is this tower..

But yeah of course as you know Sex is part of the trip , you are not stupid.

[DryGermanGuy]

Is the guy’s name „Jim“? 🤔

https://youtu.be/tTtf0m4Qe-Y?si=hTJCmYIF9sLRyFLa

[Chazmatazz269]

The next day. That guy intends to wear your skin. But go on ahead. We’ll watch the true crime documentary about your “untimely demise”. Ell oh ell!

[Bricealan]

@jennz6 Smart woman Jenna, go on your own. Meet ME there at the top of the Eiffel tower, and we can have lunch and then tour the Louvre?

[Iron_Man]

Don’t do it too risky you don’t know him you don’t travel with strangers that you just met a week ago

[Iron_Man]

go on that cruise ship and get together with all the sailors that you talked about in the past lol 😂 joke

[menina]

Nothing. I'm not interested in visiting Paris or any other European city.

[sheikalana]

I wouldn't travel abroad with someone I just met.

[Kit_Kat88]

I wouldn’t go in the first place and I don’t want to go again for a long time

[TacosRAwesome]

Louvre, Moulin Rouge, the croissants and pain au chocolate. And the cheese.

[AviatorTom]

If I'm the guy, I'm hoping she'd like to see the tourist sites with me, and then see something a bit more personal.

[Nifrayu]

Just met? That would be way outside my comfort zone.

[Anonymous]

Sound fun if you are fantasizing about it but i won't go in real life lol what if he traffic organs

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

His criminal record...

[FuqUFggt]

A lot of money or a fat dick

[Asker]

Both lol

[Tstrbrainer]

If I ask you to come with me to paris, will you?

[Asker]

@tstrbrainer I don’t know you either

[Tstrbrainer]

Well, you should know this, I'll take you to the top of the Eiffel and kiss you there

[laly520]

I would walk off

its creepy

[LaurenM1997]

The Eiffel tower

[rikaleaks]

If he can afford the trip why not

[Asker]

Because he wants sex everyday

[Celticwolf78]

It sounds to good to be true

[Asker]

That’s what I think too

[whistlingwh0res]

I want to see the palace

[Static_In_The_Attic]

I wonder if they sell French Fries there?

[Asker]

@Static_In_The_Attic they have a McDonalds

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Do they have happy meals?

[Asker]

@Static_In_The_Attic maybe lol

[Static_In_The_Attic]

What about a 20 piece McNuggets?

[Asker]

@Static_In_The_Attic I can’t eat that much

[Alex-Snow]

The museums and ofc the efiel tower

[12karen]

I'd say no and I'm not into France

[Anonymous]

his probation officer

[LunarEclipse433]

Historical sites and museums

[SecurelyInsecure]

The typical places! :)

[Amur8711]

I'd say no

[Asker]

Yes, I know what is on his list of things to see and do

[SotiCoto]

Not Paris.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nope no way