Would you travel the world to meet someone?

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Bright_blue_eyes · Accepted Answer

I have traveled to Europe on 2 occasions specifically to meet a girl. The first time I spent 6 weeks in Dublin trying to girls. I wanted to find an Irish Redhead and bring her back to America. It didn't work. Next, I met a girl online, dated on line for a while, and I traveled to the UK to meet her in person. I loved loved loved her accent and the "idea" of the whole thing. BUT.. the reality of trying to make it work is very different from the dream. Honestly, the culture difference is enough to cause it to fail. I thought it would be no big deal, but it is. Don't underestimate the magnitude of importance that culture plays in any relationship. Finally, if your considering going to Russia, Easter Europe or Asia to meet a wife, DON'T DO IT. YES.. women from those countries are amazing, beautiful, smart, loving and very giving... but... They have an agenda to find an foreign man to get out of their countries. You won't have any trouble meeting an amazing girl from one of those places, but... Sadly you're just an opportunity to them. I have 2 guy friends who have married women from foreign countries, and both situations turned out exactly the same. Year 1 is great! ALL sex, she cooks and cleans and you have a awesome hot wife. Year 2, her family comes over and either lives with you or you help get them here. Year 3 you're divorced and she got 1/2 of your wealth. I know it's tempting, but it's not the opportunity you think it is. Sorry to say.

CentralPerk77 · Accepted Answer

Yes it’s something I’ve been thinking a lot about lately … It seems more than Reasonable that the absolute best match for you ever does not live within 25 miles of you.

CupofToffee · Accepted Answer

Yes--but you must be realistic about it. You have to prepare your emotions because you may or may not like the person when you meet them irl. Make sure your first meet up is light and fun. If your meet up is successful, then by all means keep that love alive by visiting each other.

If it is cheaper to meet midway and explore a new country together, then do so.

If you are a student or teacher, you can also check if you can discounts for museums or events.

hannahjo022 · Accepted Answer

Good excuse to travel. My ex is in the military and had to move to Germany 2 years ago. I was planning to visit him last summer but couldn't due to COVID and was really looking forward going to Germany too since I never been to Europe. We were talking on planning a Eurotrip together. Thanks to damn COVID couldn't.

JSmuve · Answer

There's two ways to interpret this question: 1) would I travel the world searching for someone or 2) would I travel to meet someone in person that I already 'met' online?

If it’s the first question you mean, then no. Unequivocally no. What a huge waste of money. That'd be an awful lot of money to waste for just "someone".

If it’s the second question, then I’d be all for it if she was some rich honey with a banging bod who wanted to spend it all on me. She could fly me out and we'd live happily ever after. But that's probably the only situation where I'd travel for a broad. I’d have to know beyond a doubt that she’s worth it and it’s what she wants too.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

I have in the past going to visit people I’ve met online and also business wise.

I am off to Australia next year to meet some people (2 girls I know), it’s a business trip but I’ve managed to sort out some internal time visiting some potential customers..

this year I have a trip to the US lined up and one of my team is going, mainly to meet a girl that lives in Boston. He’s been chatting to her all over lockdown, so i wangled it so he could be attached to my Security teams trip to the US.

He’s fully loved up, so it’s my chance to play Cupid and take him kicking and screaming to the US and our New York or Atlanta office have sorted transport out for him. He can consider this his years bonus lol.

TwistedTube · Answer

Absolutely. I've made tons of international friends over the years, and I'm excited to eventually be able to go over to meet up. Some have already come over to me instead. We had an amazing time together and I hope to be able to return the favor one day.

Dinklex3 · Answer

Like people I already know and am in relationships with? Yes. I lived in Alaska and had to fly to NY, SC, FL, and WY to see people I cared about.

TurboKid · Answer

I really find there are so many interesting strangers of all sorts of personalities to meet right outside my door that I can't see the point of traveling such a distance to do it.

TremorJay · Answer

Do you mean someone in a romantic sense? I would not. Living my life for my own personal enjoyment has served me better for the purpose of meeting someone than the act or searching ever has.

ThePolishKnight37 · Answer

yes I would. Right now I seem to be spiritually connect with a woman in England. we have been on and off again online friends. We lost touch and found our way to each other on a different platform. Divine intervention you think?

na2398 · Answer

Yes! I'm intending to travel 7406 km this summer to meet the girl I like. I won't reveal her name but I met her here. :) She's the most special girl I've ever come across and I love and care for her a lot. I hope she reads this. 🥰❤🤗

SphynxUK · Answer

No, I wouldn’t. Meet, and then what? Fly back….!

Blackcupcake · Answer

I think yeah, if I feel like the person is worth it

firestormv88 · Answer

Absolutely. I flew to South Australia just to meet a girl I started chatting to on FB... Was very much worth it. ,

420Rachel · Answer

Have you ever watched 90 Day Fiance? That would a nope for me. Nothing but drama. 😂 Only way I'd date a foreigner is if he was already living here.

JoeyG_7048 · Answer

If I was in love with somebody there's no amount of miles I would not travel to see them meet up with them. If my heart is talking I would do whatever I could do

princesacarolina · Answer

Yes I would if I was curious about the place tho 😂

Fang1991 · Answer

Of course I will. That's how I'm going to find love.

HairyPoppins · Answer

Long distance usually never works out unless you can afford it. So they better be worth it in my opinion to make a trip across the world.

Anonymous · Answer

Of course. I meet someone from India and looking forward to meet visit him asap.

OutWestBandit · Answer

Just take precautions - other than that? It will be a great story when you get older. :-)

collie22 · Answer

looking forward to traveling meeting lots of people

KrakenAttackin · Answer

To meet someone... for an hour... than travel to another place and find another chick... for an hour...

Cowboy6666 · Answer

I would travel If we both love each other and If I can afford to travel I would :)

Snakeyes7 · Answer

Yes. Hopefully with the expectation of staying with her or she comes back with me

redskies · Answer

Depends on how long I've known this person and how close we are

PeacefulRainDrop · Answer

Yes I would... one day I hope I get too!

UnicornU · Answer

Yup. I'm crazy and I would do it

Vick2727 · Answer

Yes. I just make sure the person is sane first.

humanearth · Answer

Nope, I hate traviling

the_imperfectionist · Answer

I would. But that's for another couple years.

Iron_Man · Answer

No I wouldn’t trust it

Princess__Serene · Answer

If I like someone so much, yes!

Shihab91 · Answer

They must be very special

Anonymous · Answer

Huuuuuge mistake.

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Yes. I'd like to meet Muhammad Ali and more

JosyJosy · Answer

I would

dudeinohio · Answer

Nope

roy_ricky09 · Answer

I did...

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

No EBay

Anonymous · Answer

I will someday

foxandphoenix · Answer

Definitely.

Unbeatable2 · Answer

For sure

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