+1 yWell... To simply sustain ourselves once we're born and out of infancy, we do not need women at all (as long as we can obtain our nutrition and other necessities from male suppliers or get it ourselves, I guess). However, in order to fulfill most more advanced goals in our lives, we need women as faithful partners who will stand by our side. A woman's body is definitely an important asset regarding demographics, but in order to establish a proper family, her character is important as well. I guess if someone tracks my opinions on different matters, they might think I'm a bit obsessed with a certain subject at this point, but I believe an Amber Heard-class life destroyer is a good negative example. Biologically, it's possible to have children with her. However, it's impossible for me to establish a healthy family with someone who is actively hostile and demeaning to me. Even if I decided to endure the pain, our children would never be able to get accustomed to the society and grow into successful adults, capable of at least pulling their own weight (forget transforming the family into a renowned clan). Then... If I did snap at some point before she decides to divorce-rape me, our children would potentially have a murderer for a father. Not really a dream family, right?
Now... My primary goal in life is to establish a proper, healthy family in order to further my bloodline and my legacy to the next generation (and for the generations to come). To achieve that goal, I'm going to need a woman who will be a reliable partner for me, having similar values, an understanding of our mutual goals and the will to cooperate with me in order to fulfill them. The only requirements for her body are for it to be healthy, in order to prevent any serious health risks for our children. She doesn't have to be a model, and frankly, she should not be one, as the models' diet is apparently a nightmare, just a different one than the one of those ignorant to how gluttony can deteriorate one's health. What's far more important is her mindset. I guess I can split it into mind/brain and soul. I prefer the term "mind" to "brain", as it evades the potential claims of my wish being to possess her like one might possess their property, since "mind" is an abstract idea and cannot be held in confinement, while the brain is a part of one's body, so if one's placed in some form of confinement, it can be said their brain is in someone else's possession. And it's precisely mind and soul that are the most important aspects of a human, women included. Out of the qualities of the mind, the most important one for me is responsibility. Out of the qualities of the soul, I'd say loyalty and kindness are the most significant.
My secondary goal, partly achieved through the primary one due to demographic and therefore a partial ethical expansion, is to make the world a habitable place for regular people, and again, I can't achieve it on my own. That goal would require my partner to be a bit adventurous, as anything beyond the aforementioned demographic expansion would most likely require travelling to distant places, talking to absolute strangers, and taking part in risky initiatives.
So... Yeah, if I just want to sustain myself, I do not need a woman. If I want to achieve any noble goal in my life, I need a woman who can be my partner for life, body, mind and soul, and not as my property, but as a mostly independent, if allied, decision maker.
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+1 yWell this all depends on the dude. There are dudes who have standards for themselves and some who don’t… I suppose the same goes for women.
If a man picks a woman only because she’s hot and only uses her for sex. But he thinks that this woman allowing him to use her as a sex object is gonna… Ever love him or be a genuine woman is a idiot. Whose gonna find out later on that the kids aren’t his, she’s cheated with 100s of men, she has a disease that she spread to him, and she tries to fight him in court. The same for these women they think they will come out on top as well and end up sorry. Either they end up homeless. Or they get a lot of his money and stuff and blow it
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874 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Both but thats not even the complete list. Mind, body and soul. And thats why its so hard for me to find someone I can love. The body is usually not the issue, there are so many beautiful girls out there. I just have to walk on a busy street and ill walk past a hundred girls who I'd find great looking. But finding a girl with the kind of personality I love has been extremely hard because I know its more rare and you just can't tell from the outside.
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+1 yHonestly both are needed. I prefer brain, I can't imagine being with someone who doesn't have basic intelligence or is as smart (hopefully smarter) as me. I am currently an honors and AP student in college on a pre medicine track with a major in Biology so yes I'd like someone who is very smart
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+1 yBoth, what's the use of a body without a brain, it's because i want a girl for marriage and not sex doll!
30 Reply Well if the womans brain brings the "entitled" attitude that a lot of people has nowadays, then the brain is not welcome.
But many times if the personality is balanced, we definitely want the brain.00 ReplyI don't want to be with anyone I can't have a conversation with or listen to what's on her mind.
I need both, I need to enjoy being with her the other 23 hours of the day too.
00 ReplyI like it when she has a brain. It would get really tiresome having to position her and move her around the house as I do the chores, otherwise.
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+1 yPersonally, I don't NEED either. But unlike the rest of the human race I can't speak for everyone else.
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+1 yI would never go out with someone just for her body. I need to have a connection, and she needs to be able to carry a conversation.
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+1 yI need all of my wife. Her body, her emotions and her brain. Her approach to life is different than mine and sometimes that is a good thing
00 Reply446 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. I prefer them with at least some basic level intelligence like it would be good if she doesn't freak out for no reason and doesn't fall for some obvious scams.
00 Reply3.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. A body is good for starters but it can only get you so far
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+1 yI just need the body, I think I have a brain laying around somewhere.
00 Reply1.4K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. I need their love and loyalty more than their body and brain
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+1 yI don't "need" either, but if we are a couple then it should be both.
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+1 yTwo-thirds body, one-third brain.(I can't help being a boy !!!)
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+1 yGuys need more brain than body. A stupid woman is a turn off for me.
00 Reply1.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. I mean, can’t fuck a brain. can't have a convo with a corpse. So both.
00 ReplyBoth, a super hot annoying woman is not interesting
00 Reply2.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Both, assuming their brain is working normally.
00 ReplyI think beauty in bodies passes but beauty in minds does not.
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yNope, just their bodies. A woman's brain is good for nothing since they're less smarter than men.
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+1 yBrain's gotta be there too!
00 Reply I want both body and brains
00 ReplyBody, mind, and soul.
00 ReplyI need both, for research purposes.
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+1 yPut a poll. It's the brain as well.
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+1 yBody first. Everything else comes later.
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+1 yif not gonna marry, body is enough😄
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+1 yMind, body and (most importantly) heart
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+1 yBoth, first brain, then body
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+1 yBrains are important for life
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+1 yIs this for one night or several
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+1 yBoth for me.
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+1 yWomen's have brain?
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+1 yGirls have brains?
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