Why do men only care about a womans body?

[chocolatetwopointo]

[ohsheeT]

It goes a lot deeper than that for most guys
She needs to be smart, wise, with a beautiful heart, filled with confidence, kind, who's willing to take on the world for the right reasons, who has a voice for people that don't are too afraid to use it, and there's 10 times more the outside is all just an extra bonus but she has to be beautiful on the inside and she must be able to smile and be happy.

[Anonymous]

In the beginning yes that’s what men look like. That’s what attracts men. But after that, if that’s all he’s attracted to then you have nothing else to offer other than that. Once you two start seeing each other more he will show more interest in other things about you. But in the beginning it’s almost always about what she looks like.

[LazerBean]

They don't. If a man only cares about your body, its because you don't have anything else to offer.

[chocolatetwopointo]

they do tho

[LazerBean]

For you they do

[chocolatetwopointo]

well personally i dont talk to men, so no.

[LazerBean]

That doesn't really matter

[chocolatetwopointo]

lmao it does tho

[LazerBean]

Talking is not required for them to not value you, so no.

[chocolatetwopointo]

why do u think that?

[LazerBean]

Because that's how it is

[chocolatetwopointo]

lmao and what makes u think that?

[LazerBean]

Because that's how judging works

[Anonymous]

Sounds like my husband up until he cums then we can have a proper conversation.

[chocolatetwopointo]

funny

[Opinion Owner]

No joke. I can feel his eyes on me and the next thing I know he has it out

[chocolatetwopointo]

then u should call the cops

[Opinion Owner]

Call the cops on my husband for finding me sexually attractive lol

[chocolatetwopointo]

u should leave him if he only has sex with you.

[Opinion Owner]

Sometimes I just let him jerk off over my butt while I watch tv

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay?

[BonzoInBitburg]

They only care about your body if that's all you can offer them. Men care about a lot more for someone they want to marry but if they don't think you've given them enough reasons to be in a long term relationship with them then they'll only be interested in your body

[llorando]

Most men don't, most men care about the whole package, which includes personality/mental attraction. If your man only cares about your body, either your man is part of the small group of men that only cares about a womans body, or you have nothing to offer. While it is true, physical attraction is what gets us interested in a woman, but at the same time it's mental attraction that keeps us interested.

[itsannalee]

If your man only cares about your body, it means that's all you can offer him.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i dont have one, and that wasn't my question.

[itsannalee]

So it’s belong to whoever asks about it.

[chocolatetwopointo]

what r u on ab now?

[EmmaMary]

No idea... Maybe, just mabe we'll get some sensible genuine answers. lol

[EmmaMary]

*maybe*

[BocchiDwayneJonsson]

Some do, but its seen that finding someone atractive is a nautral instinct based of getting good genes for future generations. Mostly it is to get you're self out there and try. But if they fall in love with the body and not the person they are mentally ill. Once you fall in love you most likely will love every part of her as a person. Otherwise you need some serios help

[Garud]

Blame mother nature and they slowly learn to control it over time but still, it is not only the body all the time.

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay so its always ab body bc of mother nature, but then its not smh?

[Garud]

Yes, apply common sense, you feel hungry many times a day but you eat to live, not live to eat.
The way testosterone works. It builds up quickly and goes down quickly as well.
Whereas women's lust builds up slowly remains for a longer time before going down.

[chocolatetwopointo]

so why doesn't every mans?

[Garud]

apply common sense, it is the same as saying why all women want to loot men by honey-trapping them. Is it true? nope.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah well that hasn't anything to do with nature tho

[Garud]

so what your point

[chocolatetwopointo]

onfg then u can't fucking compare it idiot

[Garud]

You are dumb but you think you are intelligent.

[chocolatetwopointo]

ONFG u cannot fucking compare smth that happens to men by ”nature” according to u, to smth poor women do out of CHOICE

[chocolatetwopointo]

fucking men.

[Garud]

You are a big fool, you don't even have the ability to talk properly, time will remove this nonsense from you one day.

[chocolatetwopointo]

so ur not even gna answer? basic man.

[Garud]

I don't have any change for your little empty piggy bank brain, move ahead.

[Apple1996]

They see womens body as a object to be used and don't acutally see us as a human. It's just how their brains work

[chocolatetwopointo]

no its not. thats psychotic.

[Apple1996]

One day you'll learn this lol it's unfortunately true

[chocolatetwopointo]

so why did u date if yk you’d be an object?

[Apple1996]

I would never date a straight man lol bi men do this to but it isn't as a bad. I also got with my husband super young so it was a bit different.

[chocolatetwopointo]

how was it different?

[Apple1996]

Different because I was young and dumb. I didn't have the life experience to know about this yet

[chocolatetwopointo]

and ur still with him?

[Apple1996]

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=GibE058a4P0

[Apple1996]

Yes I'm still with him

[chocolatetwopointo]

and why?💀

[Apple1996]

Because I've just learned to match mens energy's. If they see me as objects then that's how I'm gonna treat them back

[chocolatetwopointo]

but u js said all men do it, no?

[Apple1996]

They do but some are worse than others

[chocolatetwopointo]

so if its all, why r u still with him?

[Apple1996]

Fell into the trap of love lol. That's how men get us

[chocolatetwopointo]

then divorce?

[Apple1996]

Nah I love him 😂😂

[chocolatetwopointo]

but he only loves ur body?

[Apple1996]

Also all the guys saying no in the comments are the same ones who will marry a ugly nice girl but then be buying OF/liking insta pics of beautiful women online. They say one thing then do another.

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay

[236color]

At 16, I had hormones roaring so loud in my ears I couldn't hear anything else.

[chocolatetwopointo]

and?

[236color]

And because of that, her body is all I could think of. Now if at that time, she had decided to have sex with me 3 times a day, she might have had a chance to have encountered my actual personality. That is not a suggestion to try and fuck a 16 year old boy to a stand still, for a number of reasons. First, they have a hormone load that's going to make it difficult to do; second, sex obviously comes with a lot of complications that can be difficult to deal with., especially the younger you are. Lastly if you do manage to drain off enough testosterone to actually meet the person under the sex drive, he might not be a nice person, or you just may not like him. Now you can try dating guys at this age, but I would advise keeping it light and not expecting too much, they just aren't capable of much more. Use this as practice time. A good thing to practice is setting boundaries. That will be a useful skill throughout the rest of your life.

[chocolatetwopointo]

couldnt u control urself like everybody else? i won't date. im not gna practice a relationship thats silly. it really won't.

[236color]

There's a difference between controlling myself, (I never raped or assaulted anybody) and being able to develop a lasting relationship where I actually knew her as a person. The idea that you are only going to date for the purpose of, what, marriage I guess? That seems pretty self defeating. Guys don't date looking to marry. The idea comes to them when they decide they don't want to lose what they have. This idea generally doesn't occur to them until their late 20s. Even then, if you make it clear you are lookimg for someone to pay your bills and father your children and by the way you find his sex drive unseemly, well, good luck with that at ANY age. As for the "practice relationship", that isn't what people are usually trying to do, but I'm saying that you will probably have at least a few shorter term relationships of varying intensity, before you come to the one that succeeds. My suggestion is rather than view the shorter term less intense relationships as failures, consider them lessons. The percentage of people that meet their spouse to be at 16 is miniscule.

[chocolatetwopointo]

so guys js wanna use girls when they date? thats exactly why i won't date. literally who said id wanna find a spouse?

[236color]

Well then why do you care? Go to the movies with your friends and ignore what guys do.

[chocolatetwopointo]

bc i want to know? and im trying to warn my friends too, cuz they’re always with guys

[oldpigg]

I also care about a woman's university career, I would only associate with a woman who studies medicine.

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok good for you, still didn't answer my question.

[ehatsham_hussain]

Not only care about body ,
But yes a natural attractions always works towards their body ,
But men also care about women's feelings and emotions too..

[chocolatetwopointo]

do they tho?💀

[ehatsham_hussain]

Yes definitely do..

[chocolatetwopointo]

doubtful

[ehatsham_hussain]

It's on you,, but they do.
Men works hard for women to keep them peacefully and restfully..
It is men's responsibility for women.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah no, women can take care of themselves and so can man

[ehatsham_hussain]

I am still with my opinion that not every men care about only body of a woman..
I hope you change your thinking about men.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah no thanks

[Alex-Snow]

I disagree somewhat. While I certainly like attractive women... their personality is the most important. ur thoughts?

[Graptemys79]

The real men care about more than just looks.

[chocolatetwopointo]

idc, im asking for men in general.

[Graptemys79]

My point is, there are lots of men who also care about intellect, personality, and character. It will become more apparent as you get older. That is, if you hang around decent people.

[chocolatetwopointo]

well i won't, hopefully

[Graptemys79]

You won't what? Be around decent people?

[chocolatetwopointo]

yes.

[Graptemys79]

If you associate with low lives, then you can expect the men to only think of you as sex holes.

[chocolatetwopointo]

well i dont date, so i won't be a hoe.

[Graptemys79]

So, what is it exactly that you want?

[chocolatetwopointo]

to know why men only use women’s bodies.

[chocolatetwopointo]

isn't that quite obvious?💀

[Graptemys79]

I'm telling you that you can't say that all men do something any more than all women do something. There are billions of each, and they all have different backgrounds and personalities.

[chocolatetwopointo]

nahh i never said all lol. yeah true, but still

[Anonymous]

Why do women who have nothing more than sex to offer assume men don't want more than sex?

[chocolatetwopointo]

so what do men offer?

[Opinion Owner]

It depends on the man, but it's beside the point.

Good men care about a lot more than a woman's body.

Low quality men care only about a woman's body.

Low quality women (like you) are only capable of attracting low quality men.

Be a better woman and you'll attract men who care about more than your body. Maintain the status quo and you'll always be stuck with low quality men, or in your case, just single.

[Abdulwahh]

We like kindness and respect too. It seems shallow but a womens physical looks plays big role in sexual attraction.

[In_Trance]

Because most women have nothing further to offer

[chocolatetwopointo]

so what do men offer?

[In_Trance]

Depends on the guy

[chocolatetwopointo]

then how come it doesn't for women?

[In_Trance]

I never said it didn't. If you look at my first response I specified most women not all women

[Anonymous]

Not true, I prefer the face.

[Anonymous]

They don't

[chocolatetwopointo]

they do.

[Opinion Owner]

They don't

[chocolatetwopointo]

they do.

[Opinion Owner]

They don't.

[chocolatetwopointo]

they do

[Opinion Owner]

They don't...

Why does it let you keep saying "they do" but gag yells at me for spamming? Sorry, typing my thoughts. Anyways, ... they don't.

[chocolatetwopointo]

lmao, yeah they do