For exactly the same reasons so many women feel entitled to men's time, money, and attention.
Women want men to approach them. They want men to ask them out. To talk to them. To text them throughout the day. To plan dates, to pick them up and drive them, to pay for everything, to listen to all of her stories about a bunch of people he doesn't know, etc. He needs to have his own place, even if she lives at home and doesn't drive. They want a man who is in the top 10% in height (6' or taller), who is ALSO in the top 12% of income ($100,000 a year or more), and who matches her laundry list of other attributes and standards. And this is all just in the dating process.
Men want sex.
Well, guess what: men have learned that if we don't push for sex pretty strongly, that many women with take, take, take, take, take from us and give us nothing in return. Do I need to start posting articles where women are advising other women to use men for free meals and entertainment - leading him on and using him for his money and attention, with no intention of ever being physical with him?
Men have had enough of that. Too many women are all too willing to take and keep taking, and we're not going to be used like that with no return. So if you are accepting dated with men who you don't intend to have sex with, then it is YOU who is doing it wrong. in my opinion, he should be able to expect sex with you by the 5th date or sooner, and if you discover by the 2nd or 3rd date that you wouldn't have sex with him, then you need to end it right there. If you are going to keep going, then it needs to be with the understanding that sex is EXPECTED. If you can't handle that, then don't date, OR, make your standards known before you even go on the first date, and let the man decide whether or not to move forward. It's that simple.
Maybe you don't do what many of these other women do, and that's great: but a guy has no way to know that. We DO know that tons of women do those things, and we've all experienced it. We also know that a really hot guy can do NONE of those things and still get in that pussy the same night, so it's not really that you're overly protective of your bodies - just your entitlement. So, men are going to continue to expect sex if we're dating you, and nothing anyone can do is going to change that.
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Because they are taught that by men and the way women act/present themselves to men often times reaffirms that thought pattern. And yeah history probably plays a role too. Many cultures push this too. Men conquer and dominate, that's how their self worth is gauged. Maybe instead of focusing on all the problems surrounding women we need to focus on a better way for men to conduct themselves in the modern world. Perhaps start with explaining that it's not "cool" when you are a man slut. In fact lets just get rid of the "cool" image of everything and everyone. Anyways it's a fact that men tend to respect the women in modest/conservative attire more than girls with overly sexualized outfits.
Their eyes avert from your face to all over and in no time flat they ignore the woman's humanity and only think about banging her like a piece of meat. Those old religions about women covering their bodies? Lots of wisdom to them in some ways. While a woman should be free to wear whatever she wants the fact is that men are going to think certain ways based on how you dress. And tbh women feel the same way based on how men dress. Men just get the "loser" status and women just get the "slut" status. Its not really nice thinking about but it seems to just be how our lizard brains work. What can I say? Humans are a very disappointing species in many ways XD
Either they're not corrected/taught about such things at a young (er) age, or they have crazy old-fashioned parents. So they end up getting influenced by all the wrong people, and grow up to be assholes. Don't get me wrong though, I've seen such things on all sides of the gender spectrum. People in general just need to do better..
So I'm not a man but I think the question is interesting. Do you think men, in general, think they are entitled to women's bodies regardless of relationship status with a woman or are you referring to men in a relationship? I think in a relationship, most couples feel a certain privilege to the other person's body, not necessarily entitlement but they feel they've crossed a certain threshold where sex and intimacy will be expected on some level.
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Oh please just STFU about the āso many men feel entitled to womenā. Just quit it.
The vast majority of men know damn well what is and is not consent. But women EXPECT men to approach. They EXPECT men to make a move. They EXPECT men to initiate sex.
So unless a man takes action the chances of women initiating on him a extremely low. So heās constantly taking risks. When you take risks you sometimes get accepted and you sometimes get rejected. But again itās almost always a gamble for us. The man is after all expected to be āassertive and confident.ā
I am just so fed up with women who expect men to magically read their minds. Itās not that hard to understand that we donāt possess that ability.In most situations itās religious beliefs or some sort of similar conservative beliefs they were told growing up. If itās not that then itās insecurity in my opinion. I donāt believe im entitled to shit in the dating market, I just hope I donāt date someone with a crazy amount of baggage or issues.
Itās one thing if they want to date a fellow virgin which makes complete sense. If someone isnāt a virgin and they demand their lady must be a virgin then Iām like nah thatās small dick energy to meI'm a dude (obviously). I want to know the answer to this too.
I don't know if it was how I was raised or what I've experienced, but I've never once felt entitled to anyone's body, male or female, and I'm honestly bewildered by men who do.
I'm human, so of course I have my fantasies, but dear god, I couldn't imagine forcing myself on anyone. Just... how are you so bold to assume that every woman wants you?WHAT DO YOU THINK Natural Evolution evolved 'allure' and 'desire' FOR?
In 70 years living, I've most often found that for every male aching with desire
somewhere exist a female reciprocally hungering to BE 'desired'. Otherwise
in the long game... mere existence serves NO greater purpose.
Perpetuation of your hereditary DNA recombinant with YOUR choice of partner
and then nurturing and educating your offspring's NEXT generation
is the PRIME DIRECTIVE of Creation;
all else that doesn't further your species longevity is merely 'busy work'
to pass One's time.
THERE is the 'litmus' test to the futility of homosexuality.
Short of adoption, their specific genetic DNA ends THAT generation~
Even the RARE phenomena of 'parthenogenesis' which only occurs to females,
results in but a younger FEMALE clone of the birth mother
(no NEW DNA save random mutation; NO 'Y' chromosome)They don't, they just pursue them. Men like women's bodies and would like access to them, so they pursue them. Women just decide to act aggrieved when the wrong guy pursues (or even just admires) them. But they act equally aggrieved when the RIGHT guy DOESN'T pursue them, in exactly the same way. When a woman actually grabs access to her own body, but feels bad about it, she STILL blames the man.
Some guys take it too far. Go ahead and mace them (after you've made your feelings explicitly clear). But the vast majority of incidents where a guy is acting "entitled" to a woman's body, he's actually just seeking permission, and can be deflected without harm.Why do women feel entitled to men's resources after a divorce? Let's talk about that. Let's talk about how she can take 50% if not more, the custody of their children, the house and the car, and have him labeled as the villain, even if she cheats on him. So by your own words, women should stop requiring men to make more money than them, because then that would make them entitled to their money, just like you don't want men to stop their wives from thotting it up and embarrassing them in public. Now that's equality. Otherwise, men should start going out shirtless and in grey sweatpants in front of other girls, because "he's in charge of his own body" whatever tf that means.
Entitled to their bodies , seriously? Look , man is the hunter , he is always going to try and get into your pants , he may use many tools to achieve such an outcome , it can be talk , it can be money , it can be status , it can be intoxicating beverages , or other , its not a case of entitlement , you'd be the first to complain when menopause hits and no one gives a sht anymore , fertile , slim , fit women will be pursued by men , and men will do whatever it takes.
So know that from the start , and if some guy is looking across the room at you and saying " Hey buy you a drink " ? Its not because you've completed two degrees , get with the program and enjoy any attention , because it won't take long and you'll be out the other side , facing the black dog of menopause.Probably because some women go through great lengths to advertise their bodies and be looked at.
You women are lucky that most men have sex crazed mind and they seduce you all the time and keep you entertained with their bodies whenever needed all you have to is just suggest so you don't value it.
And use it to your leverage and manipulation.
If the guy won't give you attention and not feel entitled to you as person with body and mind then you are just a known stranger.
I bet if they didn't feel entitled about your bodies and didnot approach or just neglected you would still complaint.
The thing is women also are entitled to a man's body but in this case men are more than willing without using as source of manipulation.
It's just that women won't accept the fact it's just that it's already surrendered to you that you no need to ask yet you get the things.This is a stupid question. Wtf do you want us to tell you? Are you a feminist or something? lol
Sure, some men feel entitlted to anything that they so desire but that is a horrible generalization to make. And shame on you if you use such a petty generalization and place it upon each individual. Sick.
Grow up lady you're 24 years old. This is so ridiculous.I've never been with a guy who felt entitled to my body, and if he felt that way, he wouldnāt feel that way for long.
A lot of male answers also made great points about women being entitled to menās money. Both sexes can be guilty here.For the same reason that so many women feel entitled to men's time, attention, and money investment while giving as little of themselves as possible; it's just selfishness. I'm not sure how many men actually feel entitled to women's bodies, but I do know that there are a lot of men who invest time, money, effort into women who just use them and blow them off; which is equally uncool. The men who get angry with women for not giving them sex are generally the guys who have gotten used a bunch. There comes a point where it's less about feeling entitled to the woman's body, and more about being feeling tired of being lied to.
Ohhh I'm so sorry Cynthia, I mean can you believe we still live in a world where men are supposed to have the active role in getting sex so they actually decide to act like it? Very evil of them to do so I mean if they were just a bit more attractive you would have used a word much nicer than "entitlement", right? - I do understand your point of view (I'd be mad too if unattractive guys acted like I owe them something) but at least try to understand some dudes' point of view and circumstances..
Because nowadays unfortunately, sooo many girls and women are flaunting their bodies all over Instagram and social media platforms for attention, so guys just assume that their bodies are available for them I guess :/
Because evolution made us go crazy in our mind when we see a woman in revealing clothes.
Because porn taught us that it´s ok to do so.
Because many guys are learning by doing characters meaning we learn by experiencing. If we experience that girls don´t like our behavior we try to change.Sometimes men think that once theyāve been given access once they always have access. Plus they donāt like to give that kind of opportunity up, itās like a primal drive. But if you use the other part of your brain that is capable of reasoning and thought usually you realize that your not āentitledā and that person doesnāt alway want what they wanted in the past or that other women are so keen to give their body over to a man.
LOL is this real guys really do this I mean I have a title for my house I have a title for my car my boat I didn't know you need one for boobs I don't think I want a title for boobs I think it'd be better if she just shared them with me I mean they're on her body. you can't own them I have learned quite a bit on this app that's for sure about guys
There's way more women acting like whores than men treating women like whores so ask women why they beg men for sexual attention. Feminist call it being empowered.
Expections swing both ways. Get off your high horses snowflakes and feminazis, Wokeness is a mental illness. A woman can file for divorce in some cultures where divorce isn't usually an option if the husband isn't having sex with her. Both a men and women need to take care of each others needs at some point. If you are put off by the idea of having sex with each other you need to sort it out or stay single.
I find these topics fascinating! At 63 I spend so much time with ladies over 30 who just want ONSs with NO complications. Both of us know how the night will end. We go out enjoy a meal, have some drinks and most of the time go dancing. Back to my place for a nightcap and sometimes a small snack and go to bed. You youngsters, are really overcomplicating this!
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