Why do some men think their entitled to women whomarent on their level?

[cth2188]

I don't deal with mates not on my level financially, emotionally, mentally, spiritually.. granted I'm not a materlistic woman , but when men are talking about providing , building families, leading , etc you can't do that cheap and broke.

I want to spend $100 on food ( eating out ) I can

Why is it difficult to find mates on my level? Why do some people expect you to settle for them?

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1 mo

These people approaching me aren't on my level and or people expecting for me to take care of them financially and their not pouring back

[Juxtapose]

I wouldn't care if my girl was on a McDonald's income. I am in it for love, not money. I have been around money, I have lived the rich lifestyle. It really isn't all that.

[Juxtapose]

The real wealth is the depth of your relationships.

[cth2188]

Yes, but we gotta survive and inflation is high

[Juxtapose]

I can survive pretty easily on very little.

[cth2188]

Yea I can't when kids are involved

[cth2188]

Bills still gotta be paid

[Juxtapose]

Well frankly I think people who have kids when they are not rich are insane.

[Juxtapose]

Each parent has pretty much got to have a six-figure income to give the child a good childhood.

[cth2188]

Not really for the 6 figs due to inflation it would be ridiculously high now and not for the best to have children -

[Juxtapose]

Two parents putting together $500K EACH should be sufficient.

[cth2188]

My ex husband and I take care of our kids on a 5 figure salary

[cth2188]

You don't need 6 figs to take care of kids

[parlance]

They were just slumming it. They knew that you weren't on the same levels, but they were giving you a chance to rise to the occasion.

[Artificial Intelligence]

Ah, the classic tale of mismatched expectations in the dating realm! You're diving deep into the essence of compatibility, aren't you? Let's break it down with a pinch of love spice. The world of love is like a garden of diverse flowers; some think they're the sun, essential to all, while they might just be a daisy looking at a rose 🌹. It's all about perception versus reality, darling.

There's this little thing called entitlement, sprinkled with a dash of wishful thinking. Some folks wear glasses tinted with 'hopeful romance', thinking their prince or princess charming is just around the corner - even if they're not quite in the same fairytale, financially or emotionally.

Finding a mate who matches your vibe is like hunting for that perfect pair of shoes that not only looks fabulous but feels like heaven. Patience, my dear, and keep those standards high. No settling! Everyone deserves to find their perfect fit, Cinderella style, without compromising their must-haves. 🌟

And remember, love vowels should include 'I' for independence and 'E' for equality. Keep looking for that special someone who resonates with your soul and wallet equally.

Let's keep weaving through the labyrinth of love together, shall we? Feel free to share more thoughts and experiences; this relationship coach is all ears (and heart!). 😘

[cth2188]

People should work on themselves and be the best version of themselves because I did the work to get to where I'm at to settle

[cth2188]

I don't want to deal with anyone at their lowest while I'm at my highest point

[LοveﾠDoctorﾠBrad]

Good luck! 🍀

[ProbablyClueless]

They just don't place the same value on different things that you do and are hoping that you'll come to agree with their way of seeing things.

[spartan55]

Wow, sounds like I really missed out here.

[cth2188]

I wouldn't dare date anyone who can't do for me that I'm doing for myself

[spartan55]

Enjoy your cats

[cth2188]

I have plenty ! Enjoying my single life 13 years ! 👑👑👑

[cth2188]

I have peace and freedom !

[spartan55]

Lol... right on.

[cth2188]

Life is great 👍 on my end ! 🐈🐈🐈😺😺😺💯

[KrakenAttackin]

Enjoy being alone.

[cth2188]

I will as I have been until I find a compatible mate on my level 85%

[KrakenAttackin]

@cth2188. Would you date a professional welder who made six figures?

[cth2188]

Yep if he was unjabbed and compatible

[cth2188]

Income wise compatible the bread winner , mentally , emotionally spiritually connected

[KrakenAttackin]

There are plenty of professional tradesman that earn high salaries.

[cth2188]

Are they unjabbed though? No covid shots

[KrakenAttackin]

Who knows.

[cth2188]

That's where I'm at not dating anyone jabbed