Why is my husband like this?

[kaliedeboer]

My husband always hides when he gets dressed it’s like he doesn’t want me to see his body.

can anyone explain to me why he is doing this?

before we were married he was like this but not as bad but I just figured it was because we weren’t married

[TrimmedTip]

His behavior likely stems from one (or more) of these:

Body insecurity – Even married men can feel vulnerable about scars, weight, or perceived flaws.
Upbringing – If modesty was strict in his childhood, nudity = discomfort, even with you.
Autonomy quirk – Some people just need ‘private’ rituals (like dressing alone) to feel in control.
How to fix it?

Ask gently: ‘Hey, I’ve noticed you dress privately—is there a reason?’ (No accusations.)
Lead by example: Normalize casual nudity without pressure (walk around in your underwear first).
Reassure him: ‘I love your body, but I respect your space too.’
It’s rarely about you—it’s his internal script. Patience > pressure.

[bowenw]

He may not want you to see him until he is looking his best or is hiding something he is embarrassed about. Does he also try to hide his body during intimacy?

[Screenwriter]

Have you spoken to him about this? Maybe someone shamed him about being naked as a young person and he took it to heart.

You might mention to him that you like seeing him naked and encourage him to be relaxed around you. See where this takes you. Be kind, patient and encouraging.

[leahzrc]

have you judged his body before? lol maybe he scared you gonna call him fat 😂just joking but still a possibility

[slatyb]

That is very odd. Have you ever seen him without clothes? If not, he's definitely hiding something. How are things otherwise?

[spartan55]

Seems like a question a wife could ask a husband... Wtf?

[Abbycado]

Perhaps ask your husband. How would we know more than the person married to him?

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he is self conscious about his body. Do you know what would have made him self conscious?

[Anonymous]

Maybe he gained weight and doesn't want to feel embarrassed

[OneViewpoint]

OK, no clue. That's a weird one.

[jahaims]

You can't communicate with your own husband?

[Anonymous]

You should definitely ask him.

[Anonymous]

Is he overweight?