Polls: Guy's Behavior

I met this cute guy last night over coffee
He was genuinely interested about me
Asking questions
And he told me that he's working in the EMS and he works various hours

He dropped me back home and asked for a hug so we hugged
and then he messaged me after saying he had a good time and wants to see me again

But today he hasn't messaged me

Is he not interested?
wouldn't a guy thats interested still message even if he's busy?

I saw two Guys on here saying that women don’t care about looks and we only care about protection. There is no way guys can be so stupid right? Oh is that why ugly guys approach and get rejected all the time? Don’t you think hot men wouldn’t be able to get famous just by being hot? There would also be no male models. These fools must be trolling and they have got to be unattractive.

Every time I wear these sweatpants this one guy hmu

Avoids looking at her at close up, but staring at her from across the room.

My husband often seems to worry about this, he often asks ‘did that sound creepy’ it’s not something I’ve ever worried about and I’m wondering if other men have concerns about this perception.

If you're not one of these guys then I'm not referring to you. Anyways, I've noticed a lot of what I would refer to as not men but boys always pull the age card as if its supposed to offend someone. The only one who looks bad is generally you. It looks as if you're insecure, unattractive, not secure mentally, emotionally, nor financially. Also, they tend to say," keep that attitude and you'll be alone forever." Like who tf are you bum and who tf cares. Anyways , what's with the insecurities.

I met this really cute guy on dating app last week
And then met up in person today
he's really really cute
So I was really shy lol
And he's mainly asking me questions about my life
And then he remembers most of what I tell him

He picked me up and then went for coffee
Talked for 1 and a half hours
And then dropped me back home

Then he sent me a message:

So what happened is I told my crush I like him and that I hope we can still be friends boyfriend I get you don’t like me and don’t just drop me. He ended up saying he never said he didn’t like me, he later called me beautiful and talented and more then said this:
“And anyways, I bet you are amazing at lots of stuff, such as I get you are a great cook, you just need to find someone in your life that is good at the things you are not, life is not about being able to do everything by yourself, it is about being able to do everything with the one you love, that way you can rely on eachother”

We continued talking about why he was upset because something was really wrong and he has never confessed or vented to me and he told me a lot and then said this:
“... You are one of the few people that I know truly likes me for who I am”

and then I calmed him down enough to sleep and well here I am now kinda really confused?

Is cliche that guys dislike love stories, and I've heard so to be said many times from guys themselves. However, I've also seen some guys enjoying love stories, or most frecuently not liking majority of love stories but enjoying a few.

How do you feel about romantic stories? Like them? Dislike them? Like a specific type of romantic story? What would be necessary for a romantic story to be interesting in your opinion? Any example of a romantic story or thread you enjoyed on books, comics, anime/cartoons, series, films? Or there isn't anyway a love story could be interesting for you?

This question is specially for guys but I'm not going to deny girls the option to answer because it feels nazi for me :V

What’s your thoughts on this, he told me truthfully today that when his friends show him photos of girls, he will say they’re very fit or hot. He reassured me that he never actually thinks it and he only has eyes for me and it’s just to fit in as it makes his life a lot easier at work, wether that an excuse or not I don’t know.
Do you think this is okay? I think I’m so shocked because I’m probably one of the loyalist girlfriends you could meet, it’s probably an annoying trait as I go over the top. I don’t say other guys are hot as it makes me feel like I’m cheating, or like I’m in the wrong, I don’t even like to think about it, maybe that’s why i’m So against it.
What do you guys think?

I met this guy, he was respectful paid for my coffee (even if i wanted to do that) , during the conversation he was asking many questions about myself , at the end of the the date he asked when can we meet next time , hugged me and kissed softly on lips? We didn't talk nothing sexual during date

I've met random guys that always tell me "you're really cute"

Wtf?
What does that even mean?

Do I look like a child?

I've noticed that white males in particular refer to women who are curvy as "fat" or "obese " when in reality the woman has a womanly figure. I was recently called "fat" on here when as you can see ik clearly not. here's a perfect example of who white men consider "fat". What's the issue?

Tell us your fuckboy/ player stories too!Comment different ones that were not found in the poll! But Please vote which name is more Fuckboy in your opinion!

It's nothing important but I'm curious lol, do guys even notice nail polish or fake nails and stuff?

Not that girls do it for your attention, (and if they do its also totally okay), i dunno.

My boyfriend likes them, he says it's pretty the way I do it (but i mainly put nail polish because otherwise I bite my nails off)

He did mention that he wouldn't notice if I didn't shove my fingers in front of him every time 😂😂😂

What about you? (my hands look odd im sorry)

How would you react?

Select which one most describes you⬇️

If you’re single, just imagine a hypothetical girlfriend.

What would you do if you found out they had kissed?

I started liking this guy about 2 weeks ago and I’ve been dropping pretty obvious signs of interest so I think he probably caught on. But I noticed for the past few days he’s been smiling a lot around me to himself. So I dunno, does he like me back? Or is it funny for him that I like him?

I thought this only happened between females. They usually compare each other and are passive aggressive and competitive when there’s a male present

What are your opinions/experiences? :)

Guys, why would you watch a girl from across the room and look at her when she's talking to other people?

Is it shyness?

I feel we are stuck. He would text everyday, we had 3 dates, live 1.5hrs away from eachother. He’s 3years younger, his past relationship was 4 years long.

Anyways, I noticed he’s very affectionate and it takes me time to be really affectionate. He gets nervous and overly excited when we kiss. He’s texted drunk trying to meet me at 2am, we discussed what I’m looking for which is no flings and more serious, he was ok with that, yet we are having small communication. He compliments me on social media and yet isn’t really texting me, last night he asked to see me around 11pm.

What should I say or do? Why is he acting weird.

By old-fashioned I mean a woman who have moral values. She doesn't get into "casual" relationships, wears modestly and appreciate romance and chivalry.

I might get something similar

So this guy who asked me out when I was new to school 3yrs ago and I said no but then started liking him and we were friends. He gave me his # at the end of the year too. We had no classes and never talked ever. I texted him like 2yrs later and then again (no answer) this summer and confessed that I liked him for this whole time. He snapchated me asking about it and told me “he had a gf” then I told him “I didn’t want to date him” and he was like “welll” and I tried to say I wanted to be friends. I said “I love you” cause it was on my story that the 5th viewer I had to send that. Even tho I told him he saved that one message. Anyway he’s in one of my classes this year for the fist time in 3yrs and he looks at me and he’s touched my hand a couple times and talked to me and said “I’m so smart”. Also in the hall when he’s with his girlfriend I feel like we always look at eachother. When I had a boyfriend my friend told me he was STARING at us for a while. He also always sits at the lunch table near mine. I don't know but it’s weird.

pretty much, this guy I used to have sex with a lot hasn’t asked me lately. I’m not too sure what the issue is? Or if there even is an issue. I want to know how to ask him or how to get him to see that I want to have sex. I’ve tried a few things already but haven’t straight out asked him 😣.

Also! Another little question for guys. If a girl was to ask you for sex and you said no, would you feel embarrassed for her? I really don’t want him to feel sorry for me or whatever and if he says no I want him to kinda forget that I asked

A guy said this to me earlier, i tried to keep a neutral facial expression... to try to stop myself from laughing and cringing 😂

Why do guys say stuff like that?
Are they trying to show off infront of a girl they like?

I'll give a example say if you were out drinking with a couple friends and a girl approaches. She's dressed very scantily clad, with a face full of makeup. I'm not saying all girls who like one night stands are like this okay. You personally don't find the girl too attractive or have any romantic interests but she's decent and she's asking you if want to come over to her place for the night. Would you reject her or would you go home with her.

Please answer honestly and I'm not judging. I just want to understand how's mens minds work because I constantly hear but they only think with their dicks and I really hope this isn't ture.

To me that sounds childish and vain. If he liked me without makeup why would he want me to cake my face? His friends said he thinks if a girl likes a guy she should put on make up to try to look nice for him. Thats her way of showing effort. In my opinion that is not the right way. The right way would be showing attention and trying to talk to him. How many of you guys agree with him that a girl should do this if she likes someone?