Girls, do you get annoyed with men who think women are supposed to do all cooking and cleaning?

[Kingofkings1992]

Yes 😡😤

No. I'm traditionally feminine, and don't mind one bit

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[4ngelic]

Personally yes.

Cooking & cleaning isn't a biological feminine task. Women taking care of the home fully all by themselves is from a time when men took care of all or almost all of the financial burden. To me in that set up it makes complete sense for women to do all the cooking & cleaning, it's a way of giving back and not being a leach to the husband.

But nowadays it's usually 50/50 for the finances, and women tend to work the same long hours and same types of jobs as men. In this set up it's unfair for one person to have to do all the chores, especially if they have to take care of children on top of that. Depending on how big the place is, how many live there, food behavior, etc it can take a lot of time out of the sparse free time you have everyday after and before work, and even on the week-ends you have less time to rest for no real reason. It's not like cooking is an enate female biological role, it's a social role. There's no valid reason a man who isn't the sole provider can't cook sometimes, or take care of some chores at home.

I think who does most of the cooking & cleaning, should be decided by who brings most of the money home not gender. If a woman doesn't work, she does everything. If she works part time, and the man full time, she does most things but he helps out a bit, if he doesn't work and the woman is the breadwinner, he should do all the cooking & cleaning.

[4ngelic]

Personally I wouldn't mind doing everything, if the man footed the bill. But or else, I feel like it's unfair.

[7Phoenix7]

I prefer a relationship where we both know how to cook and clean lol especially since I’d be working too but… i also wouldn’t mind taking care of the household if my man was the sole provider and all that and we were financially comfortable enough for that arrangement…

I actually enjoy cooking and taking care of my home. I just don’t believe those responsibilities should automatically fall on the woman just because she’s a woman. It should be whatever works best for both people u know?

[Kingofkings1992]

Hey hey 👋. I'm moving to California next year 🙂

[7Phoenix7]

Haha nice !!

[Kingofkings1992]

These days would need a very high salary to live on just the man's income. He better be making at least 12-15k per month. Lol

[Anonymous]

Then he better think men are supposed to pay for everything, see his money as her equally her money too, make sure she’s financially set and safe even if/when he dies or the relationship is over and value and appreciate what she does around the house. If so, sure I’d cook and clean. The whole ”split costs 50-50 but she still have to do everything at home” bs thing men nowadays want is a huge no. So is the ”she just gets to sit around at home all day” or ”I’m the one who puts food on the table” or ”it’s my money, I get to make the decisions” or ”no I won’t do that, that’s your job even when you’re sick”.

[lilBigPotato]

Absolutely. I don't see why it should be limited to only one person, especially not just because of the gender. Household chores should be shared unless there's a good reason not to.

[Account]

Definitely.
Yes 😡😤

[Kingofkings1992]

These men aren't looking for a partner, but a second mommy lol 😂

[FreyaRed]

"Annoyed".. no
Do I ignore such guys? ... yes, somehow reducing anyone to specific tasks is very infantile.

[LazerBean]

Not as like big as he also believes that she doesn't have to work, it's his job to make all of their money and fixes everything that breaks.

[queenofcardio]

I'm not traditional so yeah