Guys, If a woman goes out to work more then the man why should she have to be the only one who cleans the house?

[graffe87]

[Summeroflove]

It’s the same question of why a woman who also works but the man has to pay all the bills. Some people are one sided and if you feel it’s one sided. Break it off on good terms because that will be the rest of the relationship. Just trust me on that…

Other times people aren’t compatible as they are looking for different things. Maybe some relationships they both work but one cleans and the other pays most the money. People need to discuss things honestly witn one another. Either things can be worked out or there will be a deal breaker.

You can’t change someone who doesn’t want changed. There are a lot of people who think they can change someone or rescue someone from themselves and end up very miserable in the end. Because they really only change themselves to get someone to love them who never will.

I'm NOT saying he’s that bad. I don’t know him. But express your feelings if this is your relationship dynamic. If you feel things are one sided then talk to him civically and allow him to talk as well. As long as he’s talking civilly don’t start a argument. Listen and then respond with your questions and concerns.

[ohsheeT]

She shouldn't have to and if a guy sees a mess when he's at home he needs to pick it up and if he creates a mess he needs to pick it up if you see it do it you can't wait around for somebody else or say oh you did this so you have to pick it up that's bullcrap

[Zack-Bann]

It depends on how much contributions he brings in exchange for the cleaning.


If he covers all the bills he’s already doing his part


If he’s not then he should grab a bucket and a mop.


Every relationship ever is 50 50.
Even when one partner has a job the other has to handle everything else.


So it comes down to what each partner is doing overall, and not just how many hours they work

[molonski2]

Obviously she shouldn't be the only one cleaning , that's if the hours are genuinely equal , and you are saying you are working more !

[tzdc21]

Who said she had to be the only one cleaning the house?

[Anonymous]

Because she's punching above her weight.

Why should a guy ask an attractive woman out? Same reason.

You want the prize you have to pay the price.

[Staximus]

She needs to tell her man to get his lazy ass to work

[Anonymous]

Does she earn more money than him? If so, he should be doing at least half of the housework, more really.

[Anonymous]

Women don't have any use to men except keeping house and sex. The rest we can do ourselves.