Am I wrong or is he?

[Moiloi89]

I know this guy, he cbased me 4 years, eventually i gave in and i had sex with him... first time i didn't care, but after 7 times i got attached and them he showed. me he didn't care about me at all. Am i wrong to be amgry?

[PrettyPriya]

Of course you are justified to be angry. Sounds like he was using your for sex.

[Moiloi89]

Im not angry but confused... like he doesn't care about me not even as a friend and now him 4 years.

[2021biguy]

Did you feel like you both had emotions for each other before you had sex? You said you didn't care.

[Moiloi89]

I didn't care i let him he knew i was vulnerable

[2021biguy]

Ok it's better to care about each other before you have sex, so this doesn't happen.

[Moiloi89]

Look he knew i was in a tough spot. He seems to not care about me at all. Not even as a person. He seem to care about the women who are against me.

[2021biguy]

I'm sorry, I'm here if you need a friend, just add me and don't worry. Not everyone is bad in this world but a lot of them are. Just forget about him, dust yourself off and move on. Best wishes

[boggboss]

No your not wrong to be angry did he ever tell u it meant more

[Moiloi89]

No... he just pretended tp care to just use. e

[boggboss]

How so as this just seems so far like the normal he was getting sex so he kept u happy to continue getting it until he got bored

[YoMan1]

One thing's for sure, go back to school and learn how to write.

[exitseven]

You should be pissed. This guy is a tool.

[Moiloi89]

He doesbt take it seriously

[exitseven]

Exactly, and relationships are not casual things. Real feelings are involved.

[Moiloi89]

But what to do now. He says i used him

[exitseven]

Forget him. You are a nice kid and you should find somebody who ap[preciates you.

[Wise4myage]

Yes, but I say you both used each other.

[Moiloi89]

I didn't use him... i trusted him

[In_Trance]

both of you are