So I've been with my girlfriend for a year now. Back when we first started dating, we were talking about crushes and I let it slip that I'd had a crush on a girl we both knew around the time we got together. My girlfriend was understandably hurt and needed to take some time. After a few days, we ended up having a conversation in which I apologised and explained that I'm much more attracted to her than to this other girl (which is true, by the way). Since then, however, it keeps coming up. I've tried everything to make my girlfriend feel better including showing her my phone so she can see that nothing went on/is going on, no longer seeing/spending time with this other girl, blocking the girl on all my social media and messaging platforms, and agreeing to message my girlfriend a set amount each day so she knows I'm thinking about her.
It's been nearly a full year and this still keeps getting brought up. I don't know what else I can do and I feel frustrated/helpless. The last time we spoke about this I told my girlfriend that I've done everything I can think of and that she needs to be willing to let it go so we can move forward.
Am I being unreasonable?
It's been nearly a full year and this still keeps getting brought up. I don't know what else I can do and I feel frustrated/helpless. The last time we spoke about this I told my girlfriend that I've done everything I can think of and that she needs to be willing to let it go so we can move forward.
Am I being unreasonable?
