Am I being unreasonable?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been with my partner just over a year. In the last year I have gone through her phone a few times and found messages to her ex (the kids dad) saying she still loved him and stuff. I know I should never have gone down her phone but I did so we was both wrong. Lately I have had a really bad feeling that they are talking again so I asked her if I could see their messages but she said no and I need to respect her privacy. It even got to the point where I told her if I don’t see them I can’t be with her and she still said no. Am I wrong for wanting to see them or do you think she should show me?

[LazerBean]

Just dump her. She is telling another man she lived him and hidng stuff on her phone. That is by far all the reason you need to realize that you do not have a good future with her.

[LazerBean]

Loves*

[Asker]

Do you think I’m out of order for telling her to show me their messages though?

[LazerBean]

Not at all.