Hi I started flirting with this girl at work and before we did anything she had a Boyfriend which she broke up after the 1st week of us talking. Why she broke up with him because according to her he's an asshole and he doesn’t know how to treat her so she's fed up with it. Btw she’s mentioned to me a few times how hot she thinks I am.
Well its almost been a month we’ve had sex and hung out a few times like twice a week because of school and job schedules so we only get like three free nights a week. Now she’s not on me 24/7 she does text me everyday but after she’s done doing what she has to do. She doesn’t go out of her way to see me or be with me. She’s sold me out a couple of times . BTW she has told her friends and mom about me and I've met them if this means anything.
She’s a wild girl she like to party and have fun and the guy she was with cut all that off so I guess now that she’s not dating anyone she feels free and on top of the fact that I told her that I didn’t give a sh*t about what she did as long as she wasn’t sleeping with anyone else while she was with me. Its funny to me cause I asked her jokingly if she was using me for sex and she said yea pretty much. So that explains a bit of it. But the confusing thing is that the first time we had sex she didn’t cuddle with me then the second time we went and ate a bit cause I was hungry but I did tell her that if she wanted to leave that it wasn’t a problem and she willingly stayed. And then the rest of the times that we have hung out or had sex she cuddles with me and tells me how she would like for me to stay over her place and sleep the night with me.
So from what I can tell/notice it seems that she is catching a bit of feelings slowly but then again I think I'm also catching feelings because she’s been in my head the past few days which in a way I don’t want 2 cause she has me confused it seems the more we hangout the more open her emotions are which its been very small but its opened up but then again she had the chance to hangout with me twice before she left on vacation and she only hung out with me the first day the second one we planned but she ended up going to dinner with her mom and got wasted and it didn’t end up happening.
I seem to have the first thing we notice in a person which is physical attraction and I seem to have what she likes. Also we have a lot of things in common foods shows movies places to go so I have mental connection and social connection with her. She’s been on my mind lately which I told myself in the beginning that I would keep it strictly sexual and not get attached but for some reason it seems like she’s wining the battle.
So how can I turn the tables on her and make her start wanting me more or are things going how they should and it’s just a time thing and its normal the way she’s acting since she just got out of a relationship and is taking things slow because she rushed into her last one?
Well its almost been a month we’ve had sex and hung out a few times like twice a week because of school and job schedules so we only get like three free nights a week. Now she’s not on me 24/7 she does text me everyday but after she’s done doing what she has to do. She doesn’t go out of her way to see me or be with me. She’s sold me out a couple of times . BTW she has told her friends and mom about me and I've met them if this means anything.
She’s a wild girl she like to party and have fun and the guy she was with cut all that off so I guess now that she’s not dating anyone she feels free and on top of the fact that I told her that I didn’t give a sh*t about what she did as long as she wasn’t sleeping with anyone else while she was with me. Its funny to me cause I asked her jokingly if she was using me for sex and she said yea pretty much. So that explains a bit of it. But the confusing thing is that the first time we had sex she didn’t cuddle with me then the second time we went and ate a bit cause I was hungry but I did tell her that if she wanted to leave that it wasn’t a problem and she willingly stayed. And then the rest of the times that we have hung out or had sex she cuddles with me and tells me how she would like for me to stay over her place and sleep the night with me.
So from what I can tell/notice it seems that she is catching a bit of feelings slowly but then again I think I'm also catching feelings because she’s been in my head the past few days which in a way I don’t want 2 cause she has me confused it seems the more we hangout the more open her emotions are which its been very small but its opened up but then again she had the chance to hangout with me twice before she left on vacation and she only hung out with me the first day the second one we planned but she ended up going to dinner with her mom and got wasted and it didn’t end up happening.
I seem to have the first thing we notice in a person which is physical attraction and I seem to have what she likes. Also we have a lot of things in common foods shows movies places to go so I have mental connection and social connection with her. She’s been on my mind lately which I told myself in the beginning that I would keep it strictly sexual and not get attached but for some reason it seems like she’s wining the battle.
So how can I turn the tables on her and make her start wanting me more or are things going how they should and it’s just a time thing and its normal the way she’s acting since she just got out of a relationship and is taking things slow because she rushed into her last one?
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