We are both freshman in college and go to the same school. I am 19 she is 18. I found her on Snapchat and followed her Snapchat and Instagram accounts and she followed me back. She messaged me on Snapchat and we messaged each other for a few days. Eventually, I said that we should get to meet in person sometime since we go to the same school. However, I think I was too focused on meeting her because I just kept telling her that. One day I told her we should meet soon when I was at lunch. Just as I was about to leave, I saw her. I got my lunch and than walked over to her table. I asked her if she was the girl from Snapchat and she said no and lied about her name. She said the girl I was snapping was in class. I than got up and left. I said that maybe we should meet up at the basketball game later that week. She unfollowed me on Instagram and unfriended me on Snapchat. I tried to apologize about the situation, but ahe didn't respond back to me. I want to know what am I supposed to do about things? How can I fix things and get on good terms with her again?
How do I fix things with this girl?
What Girls Said
You simply put too much pressure on that girl to meet her in person when she was not ready at all for something else but just a casual chat on those social media.
By insisting on meeting with her, you simply managed to put her in an uncomfortable position and when you bluntly asked her if she was the person in question, the only reply she could come up on the spot was no.
The problem is that even by apologizing to her, she has made up her mind not to meet you again because she is not ready or because she changed her mind about you.
Best is to give her some time and to remain friends on social media. Try to reconnect with her and if she does not show any sign of interest, then you have to move on.
she unfollowed me on snapchat and instagram.
She’s not that into you and you pushed to hard. Act like it’s not that urgent to you. You just put to much pressure on just relax with it
Snapchat, Instagram?
So much wrong here, I don't know where to start.