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There's really no reason to get angry. And if you feel that number is justified then why get upset? It doesn't make sense.
Why? Because like it or not many, many, people calculate a lot of a woman’s overall “worth” based on a few factors. High on the list of those factors is her sexual promiscuity and beauty. This may be wrong and it may not be fair but it is an undeniable part of most societies.
If a woman has chosen to be promiscuous in her life it’s her free choice and nobody wants to be held in a lesser regard because of their choices. Everybody will rationalize away anything they have done to be able to believe that they are still a valued & worthy person. Since the regard for her sexual history is almost always a factor in this worth a woman with a active past will often wish to downplay or conceal this. (No woman who was a virgin or had only one partner is offended by being asked this question.) The more partners she had the more personal and intrusive the question would probably be taken as.
Once a woman is past a certain point of sexual history she may simply not even care and there is no longer any need to conceal her history and kind of removes the stigma.
I think there is a strong correlation behind many things that are offensive to ask of a woman, such as her body count, age, weight, or to grade her on beauty since these are all factors which to some extent grade a woman’s “worth”. The further these factors are away from the ideal point they more offensive or inappropriate they are regarded.
Then again, that’s only my theory.
Because it’s a stupid question to ask someone randomly , especially to someone you are interested in , it be a different story if you were already dating them and trying to pursue a relationship with them , but to be asked a question like that , out of the blue to someone, that you barely know? is kind of disrespectful , because you are putting that person on the spot when really it’s none of your business on who they slept with prior to you. When a random girl I meet asks me how many girls’ I slept with? I just say I am a virgin , I never experienced sex before , but if I did? I forget what it feels like, so she must of not been that good in bed , So can you fix that for me? Only if If I am attracted to her , if not, I just laugh and walk away or change the subject, it’s honestly gotten me laid a few times , because some girls ‘ like that mysterious quick wit sense of humor. It turns her on that she doesn’t really know me but she wants to get to know me. So you are best not to ask that question to anyone you barely know , because it’s really none of your business, and most people take it the wrong way. Most people lie about how many people they slept with period so what really is the point of asking that question to someone? , if you assume someone slept around a bunch of times. and that bothers you? Then you are best to not approach them or show any interest in them just move on. When I see a beautiful girl that I am interested in? I am not thinking about how many dicks were inside her , I am thinking about having my dick inside her , that’s what condoms are for , I I feel unsure about a girl that I like , I wear condoms , even though I hate condoms , I wear them until I I really get to know her more. It’s always better to be safe than sorry.
Because she don't wanna let you know what her body count is? I guess it's just the hoes that won't actually tell you or they'd just straight out lie. I know cases who has undergone virgin surgery to show their new rich bfs that they're virgin when their body count is more than 50. Basically they're just pick me girls who can do anything to get a rich boyfriend. The others who may be into giving sex freely aka hookup, one night etc may struggle with low or no self respect (self esteem) issues wouldn't want you to obviously know their body counts which must be in double digits or worse, triple digits, so that you wouldn't drop her. I mean who wants to be with a person who has slept with half of the guys in their hometown? And the same applies for the guys too, its time we start to call out man hoes for what they're.
Maybe its none of your business? It's like if I came up to you and asked you why you are such a jackass. Why would you be upset with that? Nobody is asking you to be a jackass...
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Because they don’t think that it is anyone else’s business. Just like it’s not their business how many people you’ve slept around with.
Don’t you love how men’s preferences according to women are seen as a weakness? That some how you’re insecure. You have small dick energy or any number of things a lot of women come up an insane men for what we want. But you can’t say things to her like she’s got stretched out pussy energy or something like that because that’s just wrong. You can’t call her insecure for wanting a man who’s taller or stronger. You can’t call her insecure for wanting a man who makes a certain amount of money. Men need to stop putting up w this bs. This is why a lot of women lack accountability because whenever they’re called out for their actions they gaslight men by putting the blame on him rather than owning up to it. No one forced you to sleep w all these men. Deep down they know that a lot of men don’t care for women like that. So the ones who won’t tell you are ashamed, they know more than likely they’ve disqualified theirselves from a potential relationship. Many of them say it’s none of your business, it’s her past. But if you asked a number of women would they be in a relationship w a man who used to sleep w men many of them would say no. Even though that’s his past. But a lot of times you can’t win because feelings trump all logic a majority of the time.
Who in real life actually asks that, yeah social media everyone is all for it. Move to real world and people don’t ask bollox like that. Who really cares what it is, as long as a persons history does not effect the relationship, does it even matter. Then you have the fact no one agrees on actual number of previous partners that is too many, acceptable or okay. Never asked this and never will, for those that do ask, must be a bugger being single all the time straight afterwards lol
u Many people - especially those who lean to the left politically - want to live their lives without regard to any societal norms AND they don’t want to face consequences for their choices. Asking someone their body count strongly suggests that a judgment will follow upon the revelation of the number.
The Bible condemns men and women as fornicators. Whores and whoremongors. Nobody gets a pass.
I'm waiting till marriage, so that's the standard I have for any woman I'd Date seriously. Nobody HAS to do anything it's all a choice, but there's consequences before God and man.
Taking the good book out of it, statistically like 80 or 90% of people don't wait, there's also this stigma attached to women for liking sex automatically making then slots, no God put that drive in then like anyone so that is a misconception, liking sex, is not a sin. Your ability to pair bond diminishes male or female. If I where a woman I'd feel the same way about a man with a high body count, id feel like one of 100 hoes he's been with. people have made sex a dirty thing, they've perverted something God made good.
Because everyone is in sexual competition, and we use strategies to tear eachother down in order to benefit ourselves in the mating heirarchy.
So we call women sluts, to bring them down to our level. Women call a man a fuckboy to do the same.
It's nothing but biology expressing itself in our every day lives. We can rise above it.
But if you rise above it, you cease to care about body count. You see all the competition as silly BS.
But at the same time, humans are animals and we are competing sexually. It's probably never going away.
The ones that get upset are the ones that don't want to take responsibility for their life decisions. That means they are no more mentally mature than a child and should always be avoided for any relationship. It shows their lack of self control, and lack of morals.
We aren't getting upset, it's just none of your business. It's the kind of question that weak willed men would ask so they don't feel inferior.
Right? It's like they want the freedom to be sluts but are also embarrassed about being sluts.
What these women are often too stupid, or too stubborn to understand, statistically the more sex partners a woman has, the less likely she will be to have a successful marriage. The moment she gets above 5 the chances of successful marriage falls below 20%.
And people wonder why men value purity.
And before some bitch comments about how sexist this is, I feel the same about men who sleep around, so stfu.
1. Because we might get scared to get judged by whatever number we give you (from 0 to 10).
2. Would you feel comfortable if a woman asked you what's your size or if you're circumcised without the fear of getting judged?
3. None of your business
I would get triggered if someone asked me that only because it's one of those chronically online topics. If I want to tell someone my body count I will but randomly being asked is just soo weird
Sure it makes sense. They get mad because they believed the lies other women told them. And upon being asked and realizing that it actually matters they realized they are completely fucked both metaphorically and literally out of a serious relationship
Holy cow this question is toxic and so are are the men commenting on it. The only thing you have the right too know about someone else's sexual history is if they have a sti or not, any man who sees a woman's sexuality as a threat or intimating because they can't match their partners is weak and saying you have the right to know because she might be you potential partner is simply a front
I wouldn’t be upset , I’ll answer the question but be prepared to answer my personal questions too, aka how much money do you make? You don’t like that question? Yeah didn’t think so.
Because they know they'll be judged if they have a promiscuous past.
I would not get serious with a woman who if she was not open and honest about her past.
As long as a woman's, err,"bodycount" defines her a tramp rather than a stud as it does for a man, some women will bristle at being asked about their number of bed partners, which, again, is nobody's business except perhaps their husband's or boyfriend's.
I don’t. If he wants to leave, that’s his problem. Men get upset too when we ask them about their income.
Because they are disappointed that they ever entertained the though of dating someone so immature, insecure, sexually inhibited, rude and creepy.
Truthfully it’s nobody’s business other than a potential life partner (for health reasons primarily and also just bc they should be honest with one another in general).
there is no reason to ask. If she is clean, what difference it makes? Shouldn't you care more if her feelings are genuine?
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