Women, do you ever get hit on, despite having a boyfriend/husband? If so, do you lose any respect for the guy that asked?

[tstarr17]

I know this may sound like a silly question, but the reason I ask this is because I have had thoughts about asking this one woman from my work out who works in a different department than I do. I would never date a direct co-worker, but that's another story. I've talked to her, and I do like talking to her, and I think she has a great sense of humor, plus we're both really into hockey. That's about all I know about her. I have no clue if she has a boyfriend. I want to ask, but I fear her having one, then things potentially being awkward between us if she things negatively of me. I'm more afraid of her losing any respect for me than I am of her saying no if I did ask. I did ask this one former co-worker (also different department) out, since I was told she was single, and she actually did say yes, but nothing happened after that. She never texted me, and she just acted like I never asked. She still respected me afterwards though and things didn't get awkward there. What do you think?

[Anonymous]

I don't need to be a girl to answer this... of course they do. There's no way to magically know if she has a boyfriend. And then there's men who do know and and don't care.

[itsclearlynicholas]

I'll say women get hit on daily if they're average to good looking 😋👀

[PBandJ_Nerd]

If they don't know, then there shouldn't be any respect lost. It's only those who know they have a partner and still choose to ask the woman out that would lose respect.

[mandyfire98]

I get hit on and I'm in a relationship. I don't lose respect for anyone who hits pn me just because they don't know if I'm in a relationship or not.

[tasqueen]

It happens very regularly with every girl

[tstarr17]

I thought so. Do you think if I did ask this one lady out and she told me she was with someone, she'd still view me favorably? Worst case scenario is her thinking less of me after that