Is being famous a deal breaker for you?

[7Phoenix7]

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Would you date someone despite having to deal with the things that come along with dating someone famous?

[WhiteSteve]

I’m not sure I can even envision that scenario coming about, haha. Not if they were already famous, anyway.

I don’t know…. it feels like a lot. I think about fame a lot, actually, what that must be like, more in the negative or at least awkward senses. The obvious stuff like dealing with paparazzi, or crazy fans…but also just regular fans, haha. I can’t imagine shaking someone’s hand and they’re just staring at me, awestruck. That has to be so strange. Or the really big time people like Michael Jackson back in the day, or The Beatles, and people literally fainting from being overwhelmed by just being in your presence. Just straight up falling out😂😂😂 Just can’t conceive it.

Anyway, point is, that would be weird to even be a second party to. And being the guy in the relationship…there’s another dynamic. If the fan is of the crazy variety, or even worse, some idiot paparazzo, someone’s getting mopped before too long, lmao.

I’m sure it has its perks, of course, and she’s probably rich as hell😝 But overall, I think I’d have to be really into her, not just like “I’m so-and-so’s boyfriend.” Probably would have taken that ride in my 20s, but not these days😂 I can’t think of many famous women who live around here anyway. Usually as soon as they realize they’re exceptionally talented or good-looking or whatever, they’re on the first thing steaming out of town to warmer climates and/or brighter lights as soon as they get out of high school or college.

[7Phoenix7]

Yea maybe when I was in 20s, I'd give it a go. But right now, that's an absolute no. I need my privacy and I don't want any of that extra attention. I'm already annoyed by the attention I get just taking a walk. Leave me alone 😭

[WhiteSteve]

I can imagine😂

[ChicoFromThe305]

I don't like to or want to be famous but I always did believe assaulting someone from papparazzi would be satisfying, what celebs do wrong is not taking their camera, if you take their shit and dispose of it, there's really no proof of anything and there's always the option on turning the trouble onto that person and say that he was stalking your partner and being creepy outside of your partners property and with no camera he will indeed look like a creep even if he has a independent photographer license or whatnot, being on someone's property with no form of reason surely would look shady so even if I did assault him the law would be like "if you don't wanna get beat then stop creeping on ppls property 😂

[7Phoenix7]

Yea you'd be that one that ends up punching someone and taking their camera 😅

[ChicoFromThe305]

Exactly 😇

[Amara_09]

It depends.


This world is so disgusting.



what’s important to me is us and not what the world thinks.


If we are secure between us then nothing else matters.


But if fame dictates everything then I would rather not get involved at all with the person.




I don’t give a fuck about FAME. Fuck Fame

[mandyfire98]

I'll date Michael B. Jordan right now. Let's go.

No, in all seriousness. It's hard to answer because I could say yeah no problem but not know all the issues that could come from it.

[7Phoenix7]

He's sexy 😍

Yeah that makes sense. I think I would have done it when I was younger but not now. I don't want that attention lol

[mandyfire98]

It's definitely a completely different world

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Not a deal breaker.

[ThaMaskedMarvel]

Oh, man. I'd say no. I'm such an introvert, but I think I'd try to rise to the challenge. I'd let her know up front I'd try but if it becomes too overwhelming, I'd see her on a lesser capacity. I know of a singer whose husband is her producer & I've never seen his face. I think that he enjoys her to be in the limelight, while he's incognito. Maybe I can take some pages from his playbook.

[7Phoenix7]

Same I'm more of an introvert and would hate so many people always in my business and paparazzi... no way.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Nah. I don't go in for all that tosh!
I'd get dragged to all these ridiculous over the top parties, where everyone overacts and pretends to like everyone else.. I can't be like that. I'd tell them what I think of them, get thrown out and that would likely be the end of the relationship as well.

Definitely not my cup of tea!

[7Phoenix7]

LOL yeah, I feel you

[itsclearlynicholas]

I do like some aspects of the stylised "Ava Max" aka her stage persona or her artistic persona. The real lady looks as we all know way different without the whole look, like comparing Lady Gaga on stage versus off stage. Anyways.
However, I don't think I could like that lifestyle and effectively being someone they're not and I'm not lol ⭐✨⭐✨⭐✨ it's a deal breaker, no matter how pretty or petite 😋✌🏻👀

[itsclearlynicholas]

Or how wonderfully pale they look. It's just an illusion sigh 😔😭

[7Phoenix7]

Lmaoo ur hilarious

[Unit1]

I don't feel like saying a 100% definite "yes, dealbreaker" despite me being a rather private/calm person. It's a matter of how the paparazzis can be managed to sod off when they have no business at any given time or when it comes to respecting private time.

[7Phoenix7]

Yeah, exactly.

[IslaTheWitch]

for me it would be... I hate people's attention, interaction with unknown people and crowded places...

[7Phoenix7]

I really wouldn't appreciate any of the extra attention either. And I value my privacy and solitude too much. Sometimes I like to go out alone and be out by myself.

[lightbulb27]

no but it might get old dealing with the fakeness and constant attention to all said and done. if some of what I say got posted I'd be in big trouble.

[7Phoenix7]

Hahaha

[dustybiker2]

It would have to be a "click from the start" type of deal for me. That life they'd have is hard. However temporary it might be.

[7Phoenix7]

Yea, I don't think I could do it lol. Like you it would have to be a click from the start.

[sawno]

No, if she ended up being a famous streamer for example but is otherwise an amazing girlfriend I wouldn't mind it.

[7Phoenix7]

I see 👍

[RebelinSteel]

Nah I could not put up with the hassle.

i know someone actually a few people that date celeb types and nope could not put up with it

[7Phoenix7]

I don't think I could either. Too stressful

[RebelinSteel]

@7Phoenix7 it’s not so much for me, from a friend she has journalists contacting her family, going through her rubbish, talking to her friends etc. it’s how it would effect my family and friends that would piss me off, I’m a twat and can handle the hassle (upto a point), it’s when my mum or sis have random guys phoning them, talking to them in shops etc just to get info and possible scandal

[7Phoenix7]

Ohh yea, I didn't even think about those types of situations. Just the mere thought of less privacy turns me all the way off.

[TonyMetal___86]

I wouldn't date someone who is famous because they won't have time for me or for their families and their job requires to always be in touch with their fan base and it's very hard to keep their privacy!

[7Phoenix7]

Privacy is one of the biggest concerns for me.

[TonyMetal___86]

Cause they are always under the spotlights

[jack1924]

I mean for sure. I don’t want to end up miserable like Ben Affleck lol

[7Phoenix7]

Lmao 😂

[Staximus]

If I dated a famous woman, I didn't think I could deal with the "paparazzi" guys following her around all the time. I would go to jail for beating them up.

[Staximus]

Or for pepper spraying them

[Staximus]

And if she had a stalker, I would be in jail for a long time

[7Phoenix7]

Damn lol

[sheikalana]

Big YES! I could not be with someone and have our relationship constantly exposed for everyone to see.

[7Phoenix7]

I'd hate it

[Nikki1989]

If I respected what he did for a living, I would be fine with it. I would be embarrassed to be with a rapper, for example.

[7Phoenix7]

Lmao got you

[HighValue]

I would be fine with it as long as it didn't require them to spend lots of time traveling away from home, and it wasn't something that would require damaging the relationship like being in movies where they have intimate scenes with others.

[JacobJordan]

Wouldn't touch a celebrity with a 10 foot pole

[7Phoenix7]

Lmao why?

[JacobJordan]

For one I am married for two I have yet to see a celebrity that is a decent person and not just putting on a show for publicity.

[7Phoenix7]

Oh ok, got you 👍

[The_Sexpert]

Yeah I would honestly prefer a cute girl working at the McDonalds over a celebrity

[7Phoenix7]

Yea honestly lol

[Miah04]

Naw. I can see it getting annoying though

Hby?

[7Phoenix7]

I don't think I would like it at all. Omg long time no see ☺️

[Miah04]

❤️❤️

[Fuentes]

Wouldn't ever date a famous person. I like a quiet life

[7Phoenix7]

Me too