Is being famous a deal breaker for you?

Question

Would you date someone despite having to deal with the things that come along with dating someone famous?

WhiteSteve · Accepted Answer

I’m not sure I can even envision that scenario coming about, haha. Not if they were already famous, anyway.

I don’t know…. it feels like a lot. I think about fame a lot, actually, what that must be like, more in the negative or at least awkward senses. The obvious stuff like dealing with paparazzi, or crazy fans…but also just regular fans, haha. I can’t imagine shaking someone’s hand and they’re just staring at me, awestruck. That has to be so strange. Or the really big time people like Michael Jackson back in the day, or The Beatles, and people literally fainting from being overwhelmed by just being in your presence. Just straight up falling out😂😂😂 Just can’t conceive it.

Anyway, point is, that would be weird to even be a second party to. And being the guy in the relationship…there’s another dynamic. If the fan is of the crazy variety, or even worse, some idiot paparazzo, someone’s getting mopped before too long, lmao.

I’m sure it has its perks, of course, and she’s probably rich as hell😝 But overall, I think I’d have to be really into her, not just like “I’m so-and-so’s boyfriend.” Probably would have taken that ride in my 20s, but not these days😂 I can’t think of many famous women who live around here anyway. Usually as soon as they realize they’re exceptionally talented or good-looking or whatever, they’re on the first thing steaming out of town to warmer climates and/or brighter lights as soon as they get out of high school or college.

ChicoFromThe305 · Accepted Answer

I don't like to or want to be famous but I always did believe assaulting someone from papparazzi would be satisfying, what celebs do wrong is not taking their camera, if you take their shit and dispose of it, there's really no proof of anything and there's always the option on turning the trouble onto that person and say that he was stalking your partner and being creepy outside of your partners property and with no camera he will indeed look like a creep even if he has a independent photographer license or whatnot, being on someone's property with no form of reason surely would look shady so even if I did assault him the law would be like "if you don't wanna get beat then stop creeping on ppls property 😂

Amara_09 · Accepted Answer

It depends.

This world is so disgusting.

what’s important to me is us and not what the world thinks.

If we are secure between us then nothing else matters.

But if fame dictates everything then I would rather not get involved at all with the person.

I don’t give a fuck about FAME. Fuck Fame

mandyfire98 · Accepted Answer

I'll date Michael B. Jordan right now. Let's go.  No, in all seriousness. It's hard to answer because I could say yeah no problem but not know all the issues that could come from it.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

Not a deal breaker.

ThaMaskedMarvel · Answer

Oh, man. I'd say no. I'm such an introvert, but I think I'd try to rise to the challenge. I'd let her know up front I'd try but if it becomes too overwhelming, I'd see her on a lesser capacity. I know of a singer whose husband is her producer & I've never seen his face. I think that he enjoys her to be in the limelight, while he's incognito. Maybe I can take some pages from his playbook.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Nah. I don't go in for all that tosh!
I'd get dragged to all these ridiculous over the top parties, where everyone overacts and pretends to like everyone else.. I can't be like that. I'd tell them what I think of them, get thrown out and that would likely be the end of the relationship as well.

Definitely not my cup of tea!

itsclearlynicholas · Answer

I do like some aspects of the stylised "Ava Max" aka her stage persona or her artistic persona. The real lady looks as we all know way different without the whole look, like comparing Lady Gaga on stage versus off stage. Anyways.
However, I don't think I could like that lifestyle and effectively being someone they're not and I'm not lol ⭐✨⭐✨⭐✨ it's a deal breaker, no matter how pretty or petite 😋✌🏻👀

Unit1 · Answer

I don't feel like saying a 100% definite "yes, dealbreaker" despite me being a rather private/calm person. It's a matter of how the paparazzis can be managed to sod off when they have no business at any given time or when it comes to respecting private time.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

for me it would be... I hate people's attention, interaction with unknown people and crowded places...

lightbulb27 · Answer

no but it might get old dealing with the fakeness and constant attention to all said and done. if some of what I say got posted I'd be in big trouble.

Nikki1989 · Answer

If I respected what he did for a living, I would be fine with it. I would be embarrassed to be with a rapper, for example.

dustybiker2 · Answer

It would have to be a "click from the start" type of deal for me. That life they'd have is hard. However temporary it might be.

sawno · Answer

No, if she ended up being a famous streamer for example but is otherwise an amazing girlfriend I wouldn't mind it.

RebelinSteel · Answer

Nah I could not put up with the hassle. i know someone actually a few people that date celeb types and nope could not put up with it

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

I wouldn't date someone who is famous because they won't have time for me or for their families and their job requires to always be in touch with their fan base and it's very hard to keep their privacy!

jack1924 · Answer

I mean for sure. I don’t want to end up miserable like Ben Affleck lol

Staximus · Answer

If I dated a famous woman, I didn't think I could deal with the "paparazzi" guys following her around all the time. I would go to jail for beating them up.

sheikalana · Answer

Big YES! I could not be with someone and have our relationship constantly exposed for everyone to see.

HighValue · Answer

I would be fine with it as long as it didn't require them to spend lots of time traveling away from home, and it wasn't something that would require damaging the relationship like being in movies where they have intimate scenes with others.

JacobJordan · Answer

Wouldn't touch a celebrity with a 10 foot pole

Miah04 · Answer

Naw. I can see it getting annoying though Hby?

The_Sexpert · Answer

Yeah I would honestly prefer a cute girl working at the McDonalds over a celebrity

Fuentes · Answer

Wouldn't ever date a famous person. I like a quiet life

dragoblack · Answer

No, it's just a job title. And i would happily be the one to stand in the way and tell the paparazzi to fuck off and tell off white knight bs

abc3643 · Answer

Sure. There are a lot of celebrities who are married to "normal people" and there's not a circus of paparazzi around.

OtterMan68 · Answer

Yes, this is why I keep turning down famous Hollywood actresses!

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Nah, I can imagine all the chaos and fast moving that would go with it.. I don't like all that busyness and that would be a lot of busyness..

pethouse · Answer

Ain’t no one on this app gonna date someone famous lol

Overandunder89 · Answer

I'd rather BE the famous person rather than just the one dating the famous person.

Marriedandavailable · Answer

We can arrange a dating date. :) I prefer to make dating with you, Lady.

Pupweb · Answer

No not unless them being famous changes them

worldscolide · Answer

No. I'm an extremely private person. I don't want my private life broadcast for everyone to see. I couldn't deal with that.

whistlingwh0res · Answer

if she is dumb and have lots of money she is fine for them

laly520 · Answer

I'm a very private person so yes it would be a deal breaker

padrepiedra777 · Answer

I'd say I'm 90% yes, dealbreaker, but a famous person is a person too... so maybe? I just don't see it working out though.

Babygirl_S · Answer

Not a deal breaker but it would be hard to be judged for everything as I don't like to attract a lot of attention.

handsomelad70 · Answer

No, unless her fame sucked the life from our relationship.

avery58 · Answer

No I don't want that

Jennz6 · Answer

Sure, why not?

DreamLife7 · Answer

It's not like u have a chance with someone rich 🤣. U act like u have options

lmkimcurious · Answer

That sounds exhausting

loveslongnails · Answer

Not at all. I could deal.

12karen · Answer

Yes.. , too many annoying paparazzi

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Yes… but not too famous.

clampfan101 · Answer

Depends on what she’s famous for. lol

NathanDavis · Answer

Katy Perry

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Yes. I like to live my life in peace.

IWILLPLEASEYOU · Answer

It's not really your fault for being famous!

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Nope I think I can handle it

CubaPirate · Answer

I think I could deal with that

LaurenM1997 · Answer

No I like to keep my love life private

eagle1951 · Answer

i don't care either way

Likes2drive · Answer

I would but I know that will never happen to me

austinbooth · Answer

No it’s not

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Absolutely.

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