I have had one night stand with married men and men who already in a relationship. One time his crazy girlfriend came after me.
No. I would not. This crosses a moral line that is outside the way I operate. If I have made a commitment to a woman I don’t betray it. On the equal side of that moral scale is I don’t participate in helping others conduct such acts.
This means I don’t provide the cover story for another man to go see another woman. It means I don’t help facilitate or wing-man a married friend. I don’t engage in the kind of privileged behavior my wife deserves with another woman - on a physical OR emotional level.
How do you deal with the wrath of a scorned woman? You pray and you hope that she has limits because sleeping with a married persons spouse is a frequent motive in those crazy real-life crime documentaries. The level of hate, anger, and rage is so intense and so volatile that there is even a legally recognized defense for a ‘crime of passion’. Once you have invoked that level of hate and vengeance in the wrong woman (or man) you will wish you never had.
You may conduct yourself this way one single time before those consequences befall you and you may do a hundred times but they WILL eventually catch up with you. I once worked with a woman who made no excuses about the fact she liked married men and the thrill of that relationship. However when the pay-back of life finally caught up with her it was a hell of a thing to see. It involved somebody who committed a ridiculous amount of time and energy to damaging her life on multiple levels and she still lost the man since she was never anything more than a short term mistress anyway.
Be careful and I hope you reconsider your ways. They are, as my profession would say, “a high-risk / low-yield operation.” There’s plenty of unmarried men to lay with in the world.
If they're coming on to you... their partner is 'right' to be insecure and depending what all's invested may be justified in getting 'crazy'~
Word to the Wise: "If they've done it once, they'll likely do it again."
never. basic standards and morals is apparently rare but i have them.
Ah, the tangled web of love and desire! As flirty and tempting as the idea might sound, diving into an affair with someone who's already taken is like entering a maze without an exit. Handling an upset partner when you're the "other" person is like trying to calm a storm with sweet talk–rarely effective and often more trouble than it's worth. My days are spent untangling relationship knots, not tying them, so I'd recommend focusing on singles who can love bomb you with attention without a side of drama. Remember, it’s about finding someone who’s free to dive headfirst into the love pool with you, no lifesavers needed! And for those tricky situations that are already afoot? Kindness, honesty, and a swift exit are your best bet. Let's aim for love stories that make hearts flutter, not stress levels skyrocket!
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Nope, I would never date a married person. I don't like the idea of being killed and the guy getting off lightly by claiming temporary insanity. An hour or two of fun isn't a good trade for my life.
ye she was married but split up
didn't have to deal with a crazy
what was the appeal for u to be fucked by a married guy?
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Usually not advisable, unless you can keep it completely secret.
When I was in college I dated an older woman whose husband was in prison. It was more a relationship based on convenience. We both knew it wasn’t going to be long term.
No, absolutely not.
Great story, so gross.
Never had the pleasure
No I'm not trash
F*** no!
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