Would you ever get involved with an unhappily married person?

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OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

I will not get involved with any married woman. . . unless I am married to her! I have had a few married women express interest in me and I told both of them to go home and work on their marriage, and if they eventually got divorced, let me know.

Avicenna · Accepted Answer

Sounds like a very dumb thing to do. And very unfulfilling.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Oh, sliding into risky waters, aren't we? Let's navigate these choppy seas together. Diving into something with an unhappily married person is like opening a box that says, "Pandora" on it – you just know there's going to be trouble. Beyond the obvious ethical and moral considerations, you're also stepping into a situation that's already loaded with emotional baggage, unresolved issues, and potentially, a heap of drama. Love should feel like your favorite cozy sweater, not a straitjacket, right?

In the realm of relationships, working with people from all walks of life, I've seen how these entanglements can go. Not to be all doom and gloom, but more often than not, it's a path lined with heartache, confusion, and the occasional flying dinner plate. It's crucial to look beyond the immediate connection and attraction to see the potential fallout. Trust me, repairing broken walls is much harder than building new ones on a clear foundation.

So, in the spirit of keeping things light and flirty, let me drop this little suggestion: How about we chase after things that make our hearts sing without the extra drama? Like finding someone who's free to return your feelings without having to sneak around? 🕺💃

If you ever find yourself pondering the deep, murky waters of love and infidelity, I'm your guy. Slide into the conversation, and let's chat about finding that drama-free love story. 😉

Finchie40 · Answer

Only if they were separated or waiting for divorce but if she is going back to her husband , then No , sadly some lied to me but the sex was good

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

Wouldn’t date anyone already married, Happy or not 🤷‍♀️

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

Nope, not my job to make him happy.

MiddleAgedClimbee · Answer

No. That would be like forcing a dagger deeper into a wound should unknowing spouse eventually find out. I also wouldn't want the stress of wondering whether or not I was actually the person they truly wanted to be with. Relationships are made happy with less stress, not more.

HawkPerception · Answer

I am not getting involved in any homewrecking situation. I won't even try to tell the guy that his wife is looking to cheat because it's not my problem. The less drama in my life the better. Hopefully he figures it out through some way of his own. I don't want to be the one to have someone's world comes crashing down on them.

Bricealan · Answer

I would and have on several occasions, and it only ended well on one occasion, with the wife of a neighbor in an apartment building. We three were friends for a few years with others in the building, and we all went out to eat on occasion, went to concerts sometimes. The affair with the wife was very nice, and I never regretted it, and the husband never found out, (as far as I know) Other times it ended in a real mess for all concerned.

Account · Answer

Nope. I would never allow myself to be a married person's plaything, nor would I ever want to be the reason for causing additional pain to another woman.
If he is unhappy that is his own issue to sort out not mine.

PetLover24 · Answer

No.

For one very simple reason. They're married, it's cheating of the lowest form.

Besides it highly indicates they do NOT have good coping mechanisms or personalities for that matter period. If they're not mature enough to try & resolve the issue with their spouse and if impossible get divorced... they're not mature enough to bother wasting my time on. Nevermind if they cheat once, they're destined to continue cheating.

sawno · Answer

Potentially, but only if I think that person needs to escape the relationship. So if I notice he is being genuinely abusive to her i'd step in. Otherwise, married is married.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

So far, that's all I've ever had!
girlfriend 1: Said she was gonna divorce him because he beats her up.
girlfriend 2: Got married and, 3 weeks later, broke up with him after a REALLY stupid argument and eventually fell in love with me.
girlfriend 3: Married a guy and nearly had a kid with him (it was stillborn) and then he got a sex change. She started looking for a new boyfriend and found me.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

No. They're married. If they want to date someone else, they should get a divorce first. Other than that, they're already taken.

Lionman95 · Answer

No they are still married. For me a person that is married is a no go since I wouldn´t want my partner do the same if I ever got married.

exitseven · Answer

No, just my luck the husband would end up being a cop.

mandyfire98 · Answer

I might've already been there lol. They were technically separated at the time though.

RavVid · Answer

Also why are they unhappily married? It is probably 50% their fault

thegreenyogi · Answer

I'd try to avoid that one because its a hell of a complication.

Peridot25 · Answer

If the guy is unhappy, not my problem. Either leave or suffer 🤷‍♀️ I got no time for someone else’s drama.

Anpu23 · Answer

I've been the other guy before. I would consider it again if tge situation arises

douride2 · Answer

If they are married I want nothing to do with them.

handsomelad70 · Answer

I'd NEVER get involved with a married woman. With my boyish good looks, I KNOW I coud find my own girl.

Anonymous · Answer

No. As a matter of fact the last woman I hit it off with found that out. She was married and as soon as I found that out I told here there was no way. Then later on she decided to get divorced eventually and contacted me. I told her she's still married right now. She did eventually get divorced but ended up dating other guy (s) because they didn't have the moral block of being unwilling to date someone who was still married. It was still the right thing to do and I'd do it again.

DreamLife7 · Answer

No, because that places you in the rebound position and they're cheating if not divorced. They will do the same to you

WhitneySnow · Answer

No, never. When I’m old enough to be interested in someone who’s married, I’ll wait until they’re divorced before I do anything romantic with the person.

Wiredone · Answer

No I would never get involved. I value my life too much

serious_miss419 · Answer

I wouldn’t get involved with a married, divorced or separated person

IslaTheWitch · Answer

as a friend to support - yes... but nothing beyond

Booklover_90 · Answer

Nooo.  At the end of the day, he’s still married. Aka, off limits in my book.

Dinklex3 · Answer

Nah. Bad juju.

legalboxers · Answer

yes. maybe you can make a difference in their lives

msc545 · Answer

Not if they were married. I've done that in the past and it did not end well.

Anonymous · Answer

I put yes only because so many couples are in open marriages. If its not open, hell no!

FenixG45 · Answer

I did. I never thought I would. I won't do it again.

worldscolide · Answer

No, I don't shit in another man's back yard

LavLavLuv · Answer

Absolutely not

noohair · Answer

It is stupid and not worth the pain.

whereismyjohnny · Answer

Nope.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I did. And: it was her who started :)

LaurenM1997 · Answer

Nope I wouldn’t it’s none of my business

OtterMan68 · Answer

you don't plow another man's field

Nerdvana · Answer

Very bad idea

Fuentes · Answer

SmasH them n them dipp

NathanDavis · Answer

nope

electromagnetic · Answer

I would not.

laly520 · Answer

nope

jahaims · Answer

Nope

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