Would you fool around with someone who is married or attached?

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Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

If I knew they were attached, I'd back off that. I don't want to dip a ladle in anyone else's soup because wouldn't want it done to me and because it's just not right. There re loads of people to choose from. Why steal?

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

If the person is married to me then yes I'll fool around with them anytime. Married to someone else? Probably not unless they were in a open relationship

OlderAndWiser · Answer

1. Married women are off limits. Period. No further discussion.

2. Women not married but attached or in a serious relationship. I don’t want to be the other guy or the lower priority, so I’ve never put myself in this position.

AviatorTom · Answer

Fool around as in joking and flirting? Sure. But I wouldn't have sex with them. That would be disrespectful... to them, their partner... and to me.

Anonymous · Answer

No. Because it takes a biologic need for spreading the seed in order to pluck on this bait. But there can't be a biologic need if you've just emptied your epididymis. I always keep my epididymis empty in the name of   as I fill up the coom jar. The prolactin release after coomimg is theorized to be a biochemical signal to the Clairvoyant Cuckvestigator that nirvana is reached.

molonski2 · Answer

I had a period in life , I was late 30s and all I did was married women , you know what it was great , they didn't want phone calls and bs all the time , they just wanted what they wanted , one used to climb in my window in the middle of the night ( I had showed her how to do it ) , one I would meet most Fridays , we worked in same Industry.

They didn't care much about anything as long as I put in sexually ( No Wam bam ) , they wanted variety , they wanted excitement , they wanted someone business savvy but passionate , it was not always easy because at one point I had 3 going at one time , they all lived a long way away from each other.

Negatives? Well if you were going out you had to be careful , but mostly it was sex although I remember taking the industry babe to a function in CBD , kissing her passionately in the middle of the city , hair everywhere , you know the gig ! 5555

This was all in Melbourne Australia , and it was the right thing for me at the time , and it really was great fun , I know one of those marriages is still together , dont know about the others. In this country? Still married? then no way now.

But , my answer in general is YES , YES , YES. Its great , and I'm non judgmental.

Finchie40 · Answer

I use to say No to this but I got to a point in life that I don’t really give a crap about someone’s relationship status , if they want to cheat on their partner than that’s their problem not mine , They clearly aren’t happy In their relationship if they are coming on to you , So that’s something they have to deal with on their own , so if a beautiful girl is hitting on me and wants to fool around with me , I am not going to say No to it if I find her absolutely attractive, , Most girls’ I have hooked up with at bars or clubs all lied about their current relationship status and said they were single when really they weren’t , I would find out after I had sex with them , Sadly it is what it is , I won’t commit to her but I will make it clear to her that she needs to end her relationship with her partner if she wants to continue seeing me and leave it at that , Most people get married or committed to someone for the wrong reasons , most people don’t look at the big picture when they get into a relationship with someone and sadly most people in general are selfish people that only really care about themselves , so their choices and actions is their problem not mine. So my answer to this question is Yes because when a girl is honest with me that’s a huge turn on to me sadly most girls’ can’t be honest so I just go with the flow , Guy’s if your wife or girlfriend cheats on you don’t blame the guy blame her she os the one cheating not the guy , the guy is just getting laid

Anpu23 · Answer

I have. It caused a very awkward moment when her husband called me out of the blue on her phone.

"Hay ______"

"Actually this is (husband"

"Oh, um... (what does one say?) how can I help you?"

"I just wanted to let you know that _______ passed away unexpectedly this morning."

!!!@!!@!

"How?"

"She died of_____. Actually I'm calling as your her friend and I would like you to be a paul barrier."

Anonymous · Answer

I do not think it good it high risk high reward. Some guy know about it and let there girl do it and other have and want guy to do it. but most of the time you just her sex toy and her real boyfriend get her back. I had a few never did it But I keep think he the real guy for her. Most of the time she use a condom and when you fine out she have a kid it not yours it his. Also you got wonder if she just want get revenge for cheating or if she just want some new or a 3 way.

Also there the risk of having a kids with her or him get mad and killing you.

I think if be best to get your own girl or be super safe if you try this.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes I would 👍 I have, and I don’t care.🤷🏻‍♀️ . 🍆D-K is … D-K 🍆 I specially find it so funny that those women are wearing a ring and not actually married 💅💅💅 that shT is f-king hilarious to me 😂 This is what happens when you believe in marriage and religion. And you allow these social constructs to dominate you and keep you enslaved. Religions and constructs created by little-D 🤏 men. Undesirable men who can’t sexually please a woman. Or can’t sexually compete with other men 🤡.

Bricealan · Answer

Fooling around would only work if the feeling is mutual with the married or attached person. When I was younger, I did it a lot, even in view of the risk involved and in most cases it did not involve any risks. After my 20's and 30's still made myself available to married women if they were open to it.

Had a friend I worked with, had her brother get shot to death by a jealous EX-HUSBAND.

nastyb · Answer

I would be careful because people have hired private investigators to find out who their partners are cheating with. There was a story where a police officer shot and killed a younger man who his wife was cheating with. Then he killed himself. You just never know what kind of a psycho they are.

madhatters4 · Answer

no and no

once i made out with this really attractive girl i met playing pool at a bar. the bar was closing and i asked her and her friends wanted to come back and hangout. she goes yea, but you should know i'm married... it was like that record stopping moment on tv. i was disgusted and said 'hell no'

ChadHelpsBros · Answer

Bro, no. Cheating is not cool. I can make an exception for the married couple in a consensual polyamorous relationship. That is the only time it would be okay.

ShesRad80 · Answer

No, i have married Drs trying to play grab ass daily, not my style, not into someone who is with someone nor do i want the headache and drama that will ensue

Lionman95 · Answer

No because I want a loyal partner so I can´t challenge other people to not be loyal. Though I´m single I have always heard from other people that the habits you create a single you´ll stick with when you´re taken so I would try to avoid that as best as possible.

blueonblack22 · Answer

Not a good idea. Even if you get away with it’s just bad karma.

I have never slept with a married woman nor ever plan to. I have had married women hit on me when I was younger but I didn’t follow through with it. Some of them were hot too. But I’m glad I didn’t dip into that tainted honey pot.

But this goes on a lot nowadays. Much less shame and it’s sad.

CaptainOverthink · Answer

Only if I didn't know or have no respect for the guy. But still, she's willing to go behind his back and I won't give her the opporotunitiy to do the same to me.
She's meat for grinding or possibly friendship.
Though, I am not an overrational person, I'm sure I could be convinced to make a mistake.

haiuyu · Answer

Honestly? I did, with a friend before. But he recently married, maybe under a year. We were just flirting and all that, specially him. He was very flirty. He kept messaging me, saying he miss me, he likes me. I stopped it before it got deeper. It was about 3-4 months. We never talk anymore.

I just miss talking to my friend. He was a good friend, and he gave good advice. But yes, I know, it was wrong to flirt with a married man. Blah blah.

erandal · Answer

No, I went down that avenue briefly many years ago and it’s not a good idea. (I won’t discuss further)

ProbablyClueless · Answer

No shot. At least, not intentionally; even when you have everyone's permission, those situations always get so weird so fast. I got caught up one time with a lady who had a fiance she forgot to tell me about, but that's not an experience I ever want to repeat.

Anonymous · Answer

Well no of course not! I wouldn't dare mess with the sacred trust which is a marriage ever! If someone is married I would probably be the one to tell them do not fool around with anyone respect your wife or husband!

I'm the type of girl who prefers trust in the relationship and fooling around would def not be trust.

exitseven · Answer

I would not fool around with anyone that is married. Attached might be a different thing.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Not a good idea, what if she has a kid and he/she looks exactly like you... then you got some splaining to do!

katiesmuff · Answer

That was and is a big NO! In cases I know of none ever had a happy ending and hurts so many besides the actual cheaters

RobT312 · Answer

I would not. Im sure this happens a ton but its just not for me. There are plenty of single people out there to choose from

Blueeyes81 · Answer

No. That's just selfish in my opinion. You are knowingly going to cause someone pain not to mention you may break up a family. So a spouse, possibly kids get their life destroyed just so I can get my rocks off. That's as selfish as it gets.

spartan55 · Answer

Never, and I have a very low opinion of those who do.

front2back · Answer

Nah, he'd have to be my absolute enemy for life to consider that.  Although from those I know, wearing a wedding ring around some women is like bleeding in the ocean in a pack of sharks.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

If I were single sure. It's them breaking their promise, not me. Just a bit of fun, I wouldn't have a relationship with them, wouldn't trust them

Red-Blaze · Answer

No if they partner with someone else I will not be part of it in any way

Billlewis · Answer

I think most guys would if the opportunity presented itself.

Sasha0426 · Answer

In this world, humans don’t value relationships or loyalty. I wish we didn’t exist. It’s why finding someone is not worth it, because who can you trust?

DermalPunch · Answer

NO! And if they hid it, they would be dismissed expressly. Trash.

XXTruthfulOgrexx · Answer

Absolutely not. And if someone approaches me asking to basically get me to agree to an affair, I will track down their spouse with the proof. Cheating of any kind is a complete deal breaker in my opinion.

Anonymous · Answer

Never. Firstly we shouldn't even think about that of breaking others homes and relationships and secondly karma won't spare us for doing that.

mobiusforniner · Answer

I've been approached more often as a married man than I ever was when I was single. I have some therories on this, but it is very annoying. Especially since some of the women whove come back were those who were previously uninterested

hardboiledink · Answer

No and your an idiot if you do. Have RESPECT. People have been killed for less

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

Never. Marriage is a sacred religious ceremony

worldscolide · Answer

Hell no. I've been cheated on, I refuse to be party to that kind or idiocy.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

No. Complete waste of time and you’re not doing anything good for yourself if you do that

Akam93 · Answer

No I don't think so. I find some married men attractive.

Anonymous · Answer

I spent a year traveling around the country for work right after I graduated from school, and I think I slept with 4 married women in that year. Very easy to pick up if you know which ones to go for. One woman, I had just finished cumming on her face, and her freakin husband called her on FaceTime. Yikes. He texted after - wanted to know if their son had soccer practice in the AM lmao. Kinda wished she picked up the FaceTime call.

PeteA380 · Answer

Probably have to some extent but it felt defficient/wrong (on her side, I am still unmarried and, so far, basically unattached)

Nivinxus · Answer

I admittedly have, but I wasn't aware of their marital status. Had I knew, I wouldn't, I'm not someone who has very upstanding set of morals or ethics, but I value loyalty a lot.

HaveNoName · Answer

Hmm... I'm married myself... but just curious... how do you define "fool around"?

Spongebobssocks · Answer

No I have self respect.

Anonymous · Answer

“Attached”, sure.. girls change their boyfriends like they change their socks. Married, absolutely not. Generally, I have no morals, but that’s the one and only line I would never cross.

Anonymous · Answer

be a close friend and if i fall ad they say all is fair in love and war

crystalline0909 · Answer

No. Attached will use u as rebound... married will convert u as his mistress and now you are a homewrecker

lightbulb27 · Answer

no, bad idea. people can bond over time, you want to keep distance from others. That be like setting off a grenade in relationship.

provokeesmokee · Answer

Depends. Are they in an open or non-monogamous partnership?  If yes, I'm open to it. If no, then it's not even an option.

msc545 · Answer

I would not do this, although it is possible to not know about it.

Manuel2 · Answer

You shouldn't but not many people say no to a free meal of Fish

Ninania · Answer

Since I only date and "fool around" with ENM people, I certainly have no issue with it.

AnoAnon57785 · Answer

Hell no, not knowingly.  Getting killed over some pussy is kinda dumb isn't it. The risk is there

Anonymous · Answer

O yes my hubby and I love sharing! Often being home a coworker who has heard me brag about him!  Always happy after and often show Thier man how they need to be treated!

bolverk · Answer

No, even if it was just flirting and joking about as be taken wrongly by others, and if that got back to the spouse or SO it could lead to a physical altercation.

Azizdarealist · Answer

Nah, never (again). I did it, not caring about the other dude or the fact I tore apart a family. Then, many years later I had the same happen to me and got to feel the anguish. It destroyed me. What a horrible feeling.

Nominal · Answer

Absolutely. No hesitation, bcs į though before act.

CB-Raido-Time · Answer

NO I wouldn't that's called adultery and the same thing applies if they are divorced still adultery.

the_kisses_of_sun · Answer

I did this in the past, 3 years ago. He was engaged, with a son and we would only meet to make out in his car. He was always hiding from his fianceé, and would tell me not to text him often. So yeah!

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