Would you date someone who is married?

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I would not.

all_hayl · Accepted Answer

Lots of people probably would, and that’s their choice. Me? No.
Straight up married? HELL to the FU** NO. If a married person wanted to date me I’d recommend counseling to them and maybe block their # etc.
Separated? No. Why? Things changed. Even people who are separated get back together. I won’t be that guy who aids in ending a marriage.
Even if everything is finished, people need time to process and move on. I wouldn’t date anyone until they had been single again for at least as year or two (dep on many factors).
Yes, I’m fairly traditional. Yes, I *try* to live an honorable life.
Take the high road.

ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

No I would not.

i have but at the time was not aware of it.

luckily I have good friends that look out for me. They found out she was married and she was told to sort her life out.

there is one only caveat where they were getting divorced and we really clicked (not just a little bit), then I would consider it.

CrazyGirl2 · Accepted Answer

NO! Never! It’s seriously my one major thing… fidelity vs. infinitely. If your wife doesn’t understand you, file for a divorce, and when it’s finalized… THEN we can talk about dating. But a man who will cheat on his wife, will damn sure eventually cheat on you! So how could you ever trust him? And if you don’t trust someone, how can you love them? Love and trust go hand in hand! It’s just a ridiculous proposition and doomed to fail from the very beginning! Cheaters cheat… it’s just what they do! Neither you, nor I are anything so special that he’ll/she’ll will never cheat again!
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Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

No absolutely not!! Anyone that would date while they're still married don't sound like someone that respects commitment of fidelity, so double deal breaker.. And while I'm not certain if I want a husband I'm certain I don't want someone else's husband...

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Hell. . . fucking. . . no! (Unless they had already settled their divorce case and were just waiting for their court date to make it final.)

Ez-Bri-Z · Answer

I am curious for the ones saying no, if that includes poly relationships where both spouses are fully aware of the other relationship and are fine with it.

Anyway, I am that married one who also dates. Generally if things get to a dating phase they end up meeting my wife too. If they click then it becomes all three of us dating, if not, then it's just me dating both. If she hates them then I dont date them. Pretty simple.

I don't love my wife any less. I don't question my loyalty to her. She doesn't question mine to hers either.

t-8900 · Answer

hell no. not even if they filed for divorce. Only if they had it finalized and the reason for leaving was because her husband was as cheater, abuser, or threatened her life. And like i said that's AFTER and with clear intentions known. Still would not pursue till I knew for sure.

Makeushiver · Answer

I have and still do Mainly because there are so many attractive women who have told me that their husband is either no longer interested or he's gained 150# and she is no longer interested. May of them are tigers when they can finally be with someone who lusts after them

ohshee · Answer

No that's not me. If I'm going to date somebody I'm going to know that they're single and then I'm not going to be hurting anybody there's no reason for that and there's too many other women in this world for me to think that I have to do that type of thing I would want it done to me so I'm not going to do it to anybody else

SphynxUK · Answer

Married and separated or in the divorce process yes.

My ex dated me while I was still separated (because my ex husband was dragging out the process). I’d been separated for 4 bloody years before I’d met him, so I expect he felt some comfort from that?

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

I would not date someone if I knew they were not single. I did have a guy I was dating that his wife confronted me and I was super pissed at that A-hole. I have that kind of luck.

Enygma · Answer

Yes, As Long as We could keep it completely confidential between us. Understand that Humans have biological bodies with natural needs which in some cases are not met withing the boundaries of marriage. Sometimes, despite the modern social norms and strict regulations, Humans are Humans with Primal Tendencies. It's also Human Nature of getting satisfaction by risking on the forbidden. Humans are Humans.

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

Hell no. I remember when I was younger and a woman asked me if I ever slept with a married woman (as if it’s something to be proud of). I would never want such done to me. I’ve slept with many women, but none ever in a relationship, engaged or married. It’s messed up. I sin enough as it is.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

No, I would not. I can't imagine this happening. My elderly cousin dated a guy for 12 years did not know he was married and what puzzles me. She still uses his last name but I think people need to do background checks on people before even dating them.

LadyCroft · Answer

definitely. A married man attempting to cheat must be at home with a boring wife. I would be glad if I could give him some fun.

hi8sm3 · Answer

Check the dates of the conversations. it reminded me of you and I texted. it is sad seeing you blocked me, I am not angry with you tho ;)

I was going to close this account. I wanted to hear you before that. I was not angry even you seemed different when I asked how you have been. I smiled and texted you.

i made this account to talk to you like 2 days after leaving my account. still I felt it is better to not talk to you.

Dontaaaa · Answer

I instantly thought "why tf would anyone do that", but then I remembered that degenerates do indeed exist.

jbed24 · Answer

Nope. My mom made that choice and I hate her for ruining my parents' marriage. Anyone else that's had a similar situation would know how fucked up that is. It ruins people's lives for no reason. Don't.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

No! For what? What would that do for me? If she wanted to date me, she should have done so and not married him. "A married woman is a tower of death to her lovers."

Gochogirl · Answer

I would "date" him. Not for the romance. Not for the sex. Can't trust a guy to genuinely care about you if he doesn't care about his wife.

weysally · Answer

the word date is too open, in my married time I have had sex with married men, but I would say I dated them, just open for sex

Grond21 · Answer

No. As soon as I find out someone's in a relationship they are completely off the table

Leggoddess · Answer

I have dated a married man before. His wife and I was close friends. It was her idea for me to date her husband, even went on dates with him.  many time the 3 of us had fun together.

Xoxocutekitty · Answer

Not intentionally.  There are selfish scum out there who do lie about that stuff. They 'fail to mention' their status, or try to downplay it, 'oh just looking for something casual.'

poneglyphs · Answer

Why the hell would I do that? It's sounds like more trouble than it is worth.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

That's all I've ever had! I'd LOVE to have a single girl, for a change!!

NamerOfStars · Answer

If, and ONLY if, I was the one they were married to. Then it'd be okay. I realize that this is almost certainly not what you meant, but I bring it up for the sake of thoroughness.

Fireguy17 · Answer

no, but I used to go out with married women.  but my attitude has changed over the years.

Ninani · Answer

Yeah, if they're polyamorous or have an open relationship.

LiLaLydia · Answer

Maybe. It depends on the situation and the overall feeling. But if he is unhappy in his current relationship and wants something new then he should break up first.

Mangospacho · Answer

I would and I have many times taken my wife, who is married, out on dates.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

No, I don't really see why I would ever do that. If someone is together with a person, I don't want to pursue anything.

NetSapien · Answer

Nope, never. I would never engage in any romantic or sexual activity with someone that's hitched, or dating someone for that matter.

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Date? No that's unethical.  But I'll definitely sleep with a married woman, actually I'd prefer married women.

crazy8000 · Answer

Why would I want to have to do with someone that wants something on the side? It's a repulsive person and a turnoff.

Anonymous · Answer

If by "date" you mean sleep with, then yes. If you mean I'd only see her and not anyone else then no.

Cowboy6666 · Answer

I would not, Maybe friendship and hanging out but not dating

jerdanro · Answer

Hell no. by the way long time no see. Hope you're well.

Anonymous · Answer

As a general rule of thumb, I agree with 1000%. BUT I currently find myself in the 'shades of grey' world of bring in love with an unhappily married woman. Any advice?

Twalli · Answer

I would definitely go on dates with a married woman, but only if I was also married

Razor8 · Answer

I unknownly did briefly once. I wasn't happy she lied.

Jerre · Answer

I would and I have. However they were in the process of a divorce.

The_Maphio · Answer

Good thinking. The risk is that you ruin the life of not one, but two people, three if you end up not enjoying the escapade and end up single once again, more if the couple had kids.

pleasestopthis · Answer

That goes against my values, so no. I honestly don't respect people who get into between couples.

exitseven · Answer

No, even if I was single, I dated somebody who was divorced and that was weird enough.

MrtoddsWildRide · Answer

If the husband is okay with it I have and would do it again.

cybermaverick · Answer

No f***ing way, there is a limit to liberalisation of relationships and this takes it way out of line.  You're the new shiny toy just like the spouse was sometime back.

DaveToo · Answer

Why would anyone do that? Divorced? Sure. Still married? Nope.

ChiPaPa · Answer

Hell no. Not separated, either. Divorced or single, only.

LordOfThePines · Answer

No I wouldn't. That's in no way ok to do to your loved one. If you want someone else or aren't into them anymore, just break up.

hhhffg7889 · Answer

Yeah. I trust most adults to make their own decisions with their relationships.

noohair · Answer

There are some countries where divorce is not legal.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Hell no, i respect married couples and would never think about dating someone who's taken...

cummer6972 · Answer

Not date. Fuck them.. yes. Married people sometimes need a release that they aren't getting from their spouse.

DizzyDesii · Answer

I rather not commit adultery

fonduegirl · Answer

I'd fuck her if she's hot 👍

demos222r · Answer

I guess it depends. If it's like an open marriage/free to play kind of think they have... Maybe. But like them cheating to date me, nah

rebeliouse · Answer

@gwenhwyfar I have in past although she was sepprated

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on if the woman is married to another woman or a man. Cause I'm down for a threesome with her and her wife

beebella · Answer

I would prefer if they weren't married.

Grubhub · Answer

I have, she wasn’t happy with her man. Who currently wasn’t at home satisfying her

collie22 · Answer

that would go against everything i believe in

Flower7 · Answer

No, that would be stupid.

NathanDavis · Answer

I'm not into drama, so... nope

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