Have you ever been with someone whose married?

[Anonymous]

Back when I was 18 years of age. I was needing some money so I got a job mowing my neighbors lawn. My neighbor was in the military and was gone a lot. His wife a stay at home mom. There was a lot of days I would mow the lawn and she would come out and talk to me. She seemed to need someone to talk about.

What started off as small talk got deeper as time went on. She didn’t feel like her husband appreciated all that she does and how she needs help around the house but he refuses. So she started having me do stuff. She had me doing dishes, vacuuming, among other things so that she could spend more time with and focus on the kids. I didn’t mind at all. Sometimes she paid me extra for it and sometimes not.

Well there was this one day… I was cleaning the pool (that was another one of my jobs) she was in her bikini. We were talking. She was telling me again how lonely she feels and how no guy other then me appreciated the work she does. She took me in. One thing led to another and she was honestly very passionate.

She had confessed that she’s cheated before. She said that she used for feel bad but she was basically only with him for the benefits and because she wanted to have a family so she could stay home.

She ended up divorcing him from what I heard as soon as he was discharged. She I think remarried someone else.

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1 y

Before someone says it. Yeah it was wrong…. But that only made it better for both of us.

[Anonymous]

My father is a contractor that cleans pools, mows lawns, waters plants etc for very wealthy people. I worked for him on weekends and summers and for a gap year. I played on my high-school football team and was always in great shape. I f*cked a lot of the client's wives. Daughters too. Some of the maids. Nannies too. This one client in paticular had multiple homes. One summer I f*cked his ex wife, his wife, his mistress, his sister and 3 out of 4 of his daughters. These women they did nothing all day but lie by the pool.

[Asker]

I know….. Stay at home moms have to make their lives out to be harder then it is. The ones I’ve met were the same way. Pretty lazy. Some had a nanny, maid, butler, etc that did everything.

[Asker]

But I do understand that they’re lonely for long periods of time. This is one out of a couple stories. I’ve met many women at the park, the store, etc. Most women out in the middle of the day aren’t working.

The thing is. There’s a reason that men tend to hate the 20 year old with no job or ambition next door. Because while he’s at work he comes over to play

[Opinion Owner]

The ones I encountered were just spoiled and entitled

[Anonymous]

Only once. I mean, technically she was divorced. But the paperwork had not went through yet and he was still living there. It was weird. Part of me kinda felt like she did it just to rub it in his face.

[Breanna_nonbinary]

Yes I’ve been with both married women and married men. Some spouses knew and some didn’t. In all cases the person was seeking something that their spouse didn’t provide or couldn’t provide. I’m not responsible for what they do and if they choose to tell their partner that is up to them.

[Asker]

I think that she craved a genuine connection with someone. She wasn’t really in love with her husband but she said she needed someone who was financially stable to raise a family with.

[Asker]

He never found out at least as far as I know. It was our secret. She was passionate. It was fun. I think she had my kid….. but that’s another story

[Breanna_nonbinary]

Sounds about right. Just remember, cheating on a spouse isn’t against the law. There’s no right or wrong except to say hurting others. The real question people should ask is why? And then listen and then understand. If they love each other then understanding should be the first thing that people do.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, he was a typical, lying, cheating asshole. I didn't know he was married, but I learned my lesson with men right there.

[AI Opinion]

Diving into the heart of relationship complexities, huh? It sounds like you found yourself in a whirlwind of emotional and moral dilemmas, entangled in the complications of someone else's marriage. The intensity of connecting with someone who's married, especially under circumstances where vulnerability and loneliness play a significant role, can lead to some deep questioning and reflection.

This story showcases a classic case of looking for emotional and physical fulfillment outside a relationship when needs aren't being met at home. It's a reminder of how complex human connections can be and how critical open communication is within a marriage. When one partner feels undervalued or neglected, it can lead to decisions that have lasting impacts on all involved.

Reflecting on such an experience, it's vital to recognize the importance of understanding boundaries and the consequences of our actions on not just ourselves but others involved as well. It's a tangled web of emotions and decisions, where every action has a repercussion, often more significant than we might anticipate. Always remember to navigate your relationships with clarity, respect, and understanding, aiming for open communication to address needs and concerns. Love is a powerful driver, but it should steer us toward growth, not destruction. 😉

[exitseven]

Just my wife. I did date somebody who was recently divorced.

[jahaims]

Nah, I have self respect