Have you ever been with someone that was married? What happened?

[Anonymous]

[bamesjond0069]

Sure did. She lied and said she was single and we had a friends with benefits relationship for a year. Then i have some feelings for her and she tells me she's married. I dont usually get in these situations but feelings right and she was super hot!

So we continue as friends with benefits but i set some boundaries now and tell her not to mess up her marriage spending so much time w me. I told her we had no future other than what we were doing. So then she divorced him for me. Which i did not ask for or mislead her at all quite the contrary.

She then asks me to take her in and i said no. She throws a huge temper tantrum for all my neighbors. Disappears on me.

A year later maybe she's getting married again she hits me up for sex. Saying her fiance isn't half the man i am and if i want her i can have her sexually and for relationship. I still have feelings and she's super hot and i look on her facebook and her fiance is a total simp, all about dungeons and draggons and repost insta model crap he's also marrying a divorced hobag so if he doesn't get used to it now he will later. So we have sex a few more times.

Now she comes at him with open relationship proposal and he says ok although i think reluctantly but I don't know for sure i wasn't there. But me and her got distant probably because she knows i think she's a piece of shit and also she got fat on me so... ehhh.

We talk probably once a year or so she's hit me up drunk wanting phone sex once or twice and we met for coffee once. But i did not really indulge her it seemed she was looking for something but im out of this train wreck now. Whew.

Moral of the story if someone is married and cheating they are a fucked up person and trouble. Just stay out of it. This is a good example of how someones past is super important. Her now new husband should never have done more than had some casual sex w her. But he's paying for it not me. Literally paying for her way while getting cucked... but clearly she wanted me to be that guy instead and im not retarded.

[Vikkrram]

Like , you know that he is married but still you have feelings for him and you want to be wid him. Is this you wanna say?

[Asker]

It's a past deal now but yes

[Vikkrram]

Morally it is not the right way to live wid him coz it would be called a cheating wid his wife

[Asker]

I agree. It's not okay. But I guess things happen. I am with him and live with him now. Never been happier

[Vikkrram]

I know things happen coz you can't control on ur feelings , but if you won't mind wana know ur story... if you ok would you please let me know that how it started and how it went?

[Asker]

We met at work at the time he was married and I had a quote unquote boyfriend who was annoying to say the least and slowly we just fell for each other always talking and giving each other candy and then eventually he started giving me a ride home then I got kicked out and moved in with him and after 2 weeks his wife moved out I haven't talked to her much she yelled at me once but other than that everything's been good I'm very happy and I'm grateful for him

[Vikkrram]

Ok but you seriously think that it is love? You felt that emotional attachment wid him , eye to eye contact (Common signs) when you fall in love.

That's great...

[Asker]

Yes. I've never been so in love and I don't feel like anyone has ever loved me as deep as he does

[Vikkrram]

I wish that you both love each other as you are lovinv now. Good luck

[Asker]

Thank you!

[Vikkrram]

Pleasure is always Mine Maam

[clemdenim]

Many ladies