Guys, Pregnancy, why you do or don't want one?

[MicahRaine]

We wanted to make a baby before we were dating. Okay, maybe this is a little crazy, but before me and Raine were dating, we talked about having a baby. I can talk more on that in the updates if you guys and gals want, but right now I want to talk/ask about motivations.

1. Loneliness

One big motivation for wanting a baby is to have someone you can love, who NEEDS your love, who can't survive without it. Many people want a baby because they want to have that sense of purpose, which leads to my next point.

2. Hope

We all want the world to be a better place, right? We all want our children or nieces/nephews etc to have a good life, a better life than we did. Some of us see hope that the world will become a better place, or that our children can make the world a better place.

3. Instinctual Reproduction

This is pretty straight forward. We have a built-in biological clock that tells us we must reproduce for the survival of our race.

5. Family

Also pretty straight forward. Many of us would love to settle down and make a family. We want to grow old surrounded by loved ones, knowing that we built a family full of love.

5. Intimacy

There's something special about making a child with someone. I'm a romantic, previously a skeptic. I believe that there is a special bond made when a couple trusts and/or loves each other enough to go raw and finish inside. Idt it's a fetish thing or a weird thing, I just think that's how the chemicals in our bodies work. There's something about it that brings you closer, and ESPECIALLY if it's for the purpose of procreation.

I don't want a pregnancy

I want a pregnancy due to loneliness

I want a pregnancy because I have hope

My instincts want me to have a pregnancy

I want a pregnancy so I can build a family

I want a pregnancy because it increases intimacy with my partner

I want a pregnancy for one or more of these reasons

Updates

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Whyyyy does it say guys at the front 🤦‍♂️

[Anonymous]

There are many reasons why I would like to have one. It's an intimacy thing. You both talk about it; you are both excited about it, and it's a very special moment.

2. Family. I don't have a family that loves me. So why not have my own child and make my own family? one that loves one another and does not abandon them

3. A biological clock is a scary thing. as much as I dream about having a child. I fear getting older and never having the chance to make my own. People say you have plenty of time. but time isn't the point. It's about finding a partner and what dating has become today. It's nearly impossible to connect with someone.

[MicahRaine]

^^^ fax

[itsclearlynicholas]

I don't want a pregnancy because of the uhh responsibility to put it nicely and kindly. It's a lot of strain on bodies as much as a lot of work. Constant, constant work and costs and so on.
It's really not my path at all 😭😔 lol 😂😂 that's why I'm glad no woman has fallen for me and then demanded offspring. Phew 😅😅 lucky me for dodging those 😋

[PeachyPie93]

If I was to have a baby it would be because there is something special about having a kid with someone you love and the intimacy in that.

[MicahRaine]

Is that in the cards or not for a while?

[PeachyPie93]

Probably not for awhile, if at all.

[MicahRaine]

Gotcha. Is it something you hope for or not really?

[PeachyPie93]

Sort of, I don't have a boyfriend so I just kind of think it won't be a reality.

[MicahRaine]

Oh gotcha. That's not tooooo hard to change though, is it?

[PeachyPie93]

It is... for me anyways lol

[MicahRaine]

Ah fair enough. I didn't date for a long time technically lol. You have high/good standards?

[PeachyPie93]

I don't know. Not really since everyone I like doesn't like me :D

[MicahRaine]

It be like that 😭

[PeachyPie93]

Yeah 😅

[DrPepper12]

What @PeachyPie93 said

[Anonymous]

Just being alive is expensive enough, I don't want to add a baby on top of that.

[MicahRaine]

Fair enough.

[DrPepper12]

Good call. Where were you when I needed you?

[Opinion Owner]

@DrPepper12 it sucks cause I would like to have kids someday, but... nah lol

[Kelly6]

@MicahRaine for me it’s multiple reasons

[MicahRaine]

What are those reasons?

[DrPepper12]

Both 5's are valid. 1-3 is a bad idea / plan.

[strateguy632]

5th.

[MicahRaine]

Valid