Guys, Pregnancy, why you do or don't want one?

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We wanted to make a baby before we were dating.  Okay, maybe this is a little crazy, but before me and Raine were dating, we talked about having a baby. I can talk more on that in the updates if you guys and gals want, but right now I want to talk/ask about motivations. 1. Loneliness One big motivation for wanting a baby is to have someone you can love, who  NEEDS  your love, who can't survive without it. Many people want a baby because they want to have that sense of purpose, which leads to my next point. 2. Hope We all want the world to be a better place, right? We all want our children or nieces/nephews etc to have a good life, a better life than we did. Some of us see hope that the world will become a better place, or that our children can make the world a better place. 3. Instinctual Reproduction This is pretty straight forward. We have a built-in biological clock that tells us we must reproduce for the survival of our race. 5. Family Also pretty straight forward. Many of us would love to settle down and make a family. We want to grow old surrounded by loved ones, knowing that we built a family full of love. 5. Intimacy There's something special about making a child with someone. I'm a romantic, previously a skeptic. I believe that there is a special bond made when a couple trusts and/or loves each other enough to go raw and finish inside. Idt it's a fetish thing or a weird thing, I just think that's how the chemicals in our bodies work. There's something about it that brings you closer, and  ESPECIALLY  if it's for the purpose of procreation.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

There are many reasons why I would like to have one. It's an intimacy thing. You both talk about it; you are both excited about it, and it's a very special moment.

2. Family. I don't have a family that loves me. So why not have my own child and make my own family? one that loves one another and does not abandon them

3. A biological clock is a scary thing. as much as I dream about having a child. I fear getting older and never having the chance to make my own. People say you have plenty of time. but time isn't the point. It's about finding a partner and what dating has become today. It's nearly impossible to connect with someone.

itsclearlynicholas · Accepted Answer

I don't want a pregnancy because of the uhh responsibility to put it nicely and kindly. It's a lot of strain on bodies as much as a lot of work. Constant, constant work and costs and so on.
It's really not my path at all 😭😔 lol 😂😂 that's why I'm glad no woman has fallen for me and then demanded offspring. Phew 😅😅 lucky me for dodging those 😋

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

If I was to have a baby it would be because there is something special about having a kid with someone you love and the intimacy in that.

Lowiu · Accepted Answer

I want babies when Im married to my fiancee

Kelly6 · Answer

@micahraine for me it’s multiple reasons

Anonymous · Answer

Just being alive is expensive enough, I don't want to add a baby on top of that.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Both 5's are valid. 1-3 is a bad idea / plan.

Billlewis · Answer

I think that's hot as hell;)

strateguy632 · Answer

5th.

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