A friend of mine got in between my possible situationship?

[Anonymous]

So they were both staying at mine and she blatantly started flirting with him infront of me, it got so bad that she showed up in a thong one morning after we went out to drink and lied down in bed with him, they fooled around a bit and he told me he liked her too and I said to choose and he didn’t want to. Before he came we spoke on text and I told him I’m not feeling a connection but let’s see what happens, things changed when he came. Anyway I got mad and danced at a party with another and this guy started crying and then she came to calm him down and they kissed. Then after he left I confronted her why she was lying and going behind my back she said she was felt shame cos she kept doing it (which I obviously don’t believe at all) I cut her off and he’s spoke with a mutual of mine of how he felt he was the victim and that he was so confused and didn’t know what to do in the situation, she went off at him but says he still feels like the victim. after he posted a couple of things on his story and I had a pregnancy scare but he was super supportive (thankfully it was negative) I still have him on my instagram and he looks at my stuff from time to time and liked a photo after leaving but honestly I can’t get pass the disrespect of flirting on my face and doing all those things. Our mutual says they don’t talk anymore but I don’t believe it, I don’t know, I don’t believe anything. What should I do? It’s been on my mind for a while now because it’s such a confusing and traumatizing event.

[Sixgunsound]

Typical female plays around with a guy and then claims she’s the victim. Honestly y’all deserve each other. You for going back to him after he betrayed you and her for pretending that she is the victim when it was caused by her own bad choices. It’s either a relationship or it’s not, and the guy in question is going to stick it to whoever spreads her legs for him and thank his lucky stars that they’re both dumb enough to keep doing it.

[Asker]

It’s the guy who was playing the victim. And yeah you’re right about me going back but honestly not much I could do we were stuck in the same house for 4 days, I said no but i did give in yes. Anyway I don’t speak to anyone of them anymore.

[Anonymous]

Delete the dumbass from your Instagram, he chose to make out and flirt with your mutual friend. He's not the victim. He wants sympathy from you. Unless he's the only guy in your country, move on. There are much better guys out there than him. I wouldn't talk to her either

[Asker]

You’re a absolutely right, but he didn’t kiss the mutual friend it was another girl friend of mine who was staying at mine that he met for the first time, in his defense she was also walking around naked and flirting with him and twerking on him, that’s the one I cut off but maybe he needs to be completely shut out too.

[Opinion Owner]

Doesn't matter, he gave into temptation. It was disrespectful to you. So the next time some hot girl comes up and wants to rub on him then he'll stray again

[tonamimargaux]

@anonymous I love your comment! We need more men like you.

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for the kind words

[spartan55]

What should you do? Start with getting some self respect.

[User3191989]

I wish people would just stop being such pussies, and stop using the word "situationship". You're not from the Jersey Shore, GROW UP

[KrakenAttackin]

You are all getting what you deserve.