What would you do if you found out your friend was interfering with your relationship?

[Anonymous]

What would you do if you were in a relationship and you found out your friend was maybe telling your SO all that you'd shared with them in confidence, or they were suggesting to your SO how to improve on your personal issues with one another, just butting in where they had no business butting in.

[Crankor]

I had a situation where a female friend I suspected was telling other girls of interest that we wouldn't be good together, also eventually admitted to having feelings for me. I never bothered confronting her about it since it's just a very suspicious and likely theory but I also was under the impression she just didn't want to see me in a relationship. Someday I may ask about it but I feel things have been different with her lately anyways so I haven't been that concerned about it.

In any case, I'd try asking her questions indirectly about it or maybe just ask your boyfriend about it

[Kokoroho]

Hahahahaha if I get ounce of dout this is what my friend is doing. STOP THE FUCKING PRESSES!! I will not them shit else, and let the conversation be about anything but topic they feel they need to interfere in.

Just know though the friend don't mean any harm as they feel your not speaking up on what needs be said but at the same time you should feel ready to or if it needs to be Said you'd told him already. So don't get mad at the friend. Just don't tell them shit else.

[LadyKitty]

I would confont them because If I tell you something in confidence, Its not meant for you to go confront them. There are just some people you can't trust with that though and they thrive on causing drama. If its serious then I would have dropped that friend.

[Screenwriter]

That's no kind of friend. I'd confront them to stop. If they wouldn't, thatd end the friendship for sure.

[serious]

I have always been single and wish to single for life but even to answer your question hypothetically if the situation in your question ever happens then it will not take a second for me to end the friendship with that person (the one who is interfering)

Of course that decision would depend on what exactly happens. Anyways it is hypothetical for me because in reality this will never happen

[hahahmm]

Punch myself in the face for being dumb enough to tell my personal relationship business. That is a trait of people who have failed relationships. Always yapping like they are on a reality tv show.

They are only butting in because you gave them the ammunition. Stop telling your personal business to people.

[NoOneEver]

I would think that they were being underhanded and that they are the type that thrives on drama…


They essentially would break all trust with me and I think the friendship would become a more distant one, and result in being less close and personal with that sort of friend.

[DextroShade]

I would lose that friend as they obviously can't be trusted. I never understand why women keep around such shitty people in their lives as friends, if a guy found one of his friends doing this sort of shit he wouldn't associate with him anymore.

[TameBunny]

I would sit both of them down for a conversation and explain how that's a violation of your trust! Now if you know you're doing something harmful to yourself ( first step of addiction is denial) hear them out but otherwise you need to communicate or rethink your relationship with that friend and that SO as your a real person not a reality TV start needing drama.

[Account]

What friend? They would no longer be my friend. Actually they never were.

[sheikalana]

I would immediately cut anyone who tries to interfere in my marriage.

[Danny_dan92]

In a positive way? Good friend




In a negative way? Bad friend

[AmeerX]

I might be a little sad

[Light_beam]

Lol, she is tealling him your sexual past ?

[bobalife]

Drop them